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Hi!
I know that dreams can be really random and now one can tell for sure what they mean but I would like to have some of your thoughts on a reoccurring dream I have.
I have been dating a girl for about half a year, and now we are doing a long distance thing. I will see her in a few months though. I'm happy being with her but we have been apart now for about a month.
Over the past few weeks it's been odd because I've had 4 or 5 different romantic and sexual dreams about being with various girls I have never even met. I'm a 22 year old guy so I bet it's relatively normal but I just think it's odd that I have never had a sexual dream about my girlfriend even though we are active. When I wake up I always feel bad after these dreams cause they're so realistic I feel like I'm cheating on her! I don't even remember in the dreams that I have a girlfriend it's after I wake up that I feel like I cheated. I haven't told her about it of course. How would you interpret the dreams? Is it maybe a message of some kind?
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Well, it may be because you guys are going long distance and you miss her that you have these dreams. You say that you guys are active, but I guess that since its been a month that you haven't had any, your dreams are just a way your hormones are expressing their "sexual needs"
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17/m .hi there.been going out with this girl for nearly a month now and was wondering whether i need to get her a gift .if yes then what would be good things to get?was thinking just some chocolates and a card.anyway.Thanks:) (link)
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I wouldn't say you HAVE to get her a gift.... It'd be nice to though. Also, it may depend on the kind of girl she is. She may not be the one's to celebrate monthly anniversaries. If she is though, consider the things she likes, stuffed animals? If so, what's your favorite animal, or what does she consider cute? Does she like candy? If so, what kind?
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Okay here's the deal: I like this guy in my class and am almost 100% certain that he likes me as well. We don't see eachother outside of school and we briefly speak while in school. Sometimes we talk in the class we have together. I was really surprised when he invited me to his birthday party (I didn't think he considered us "close"). And ever since the invite it's been all smiles and stares in class. I'm talking serious eye contact!
But he's shy in the sense that he won't directly tell me his feelings. Maybe he's doubtful of my feelings and thinks I think we're just friends. Where do I go from here? I don't actually want to tell him that I like him or tell his friends to tell him because I've done that before and I didn't like the results. Should I drop more obvious hints?? And how exactly should I do that? Haha. Thank you. (link)
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If he is too shy to directly tell you his feelings then you should respect that he is, but if you really want something to happen with him, maybe you could try becoming best friends or closer friends and slowly move along that path. Along the way, he may find out whether you really do like him or not and things could progress. Maybe outside of school you guys could start hanging out and see each other more often besides just in class and get to know each other better.
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