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Need help on deciphering reoccuring dream


Question Posted Friday September 17 2010, 6:36 pm

Hi!
I know that dreams can be really random and now one can tell for sure what they mean but I would like to have some of your thoughts on a reoccurring dream I have.

I have been dating a girl for about half a year, and now we are doing a long distance thing. I will see her in a few months though. I'm happy being with her but we have been apart now for about a month.

Over the past few weeks it's been odd because I've had 4 or 5 different romantic and sexual dreams about being with various girls I have never even met. I'm a 22 year old guy so I bet it's relatively normal but I just think it's odd that I have never had a sexual dream about my girlfriend even though we are active. When I wake up I always feel bad after these dreams cause they're so realistic I feel like I'm cheating on her! I don't even remember in the dreams that I have a girlfriend it's after I wake up that I feel like I cheated. I haven't told her about it of course. How would you interpret the dreams? Is it maybe a message of some kind?
Thanks


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quazzie answered Sunday September 19 2010, 6:37 am:
This probably won't help you but I'll say it anyway.

I think you need to remind yourself that they're just dreams. There's no point feeling guilty over something you can't control. I probably wouldn't look to much into either, because the more you look into it the more you try to justify why your having them.

Who cares. They're just dreams. I have had sexual dreams about pretty much everyone I've met but funnily enough my boyfriend wasn't one of them. I've told him about them too, but he doesn't care, because I don't care and life goes on.

Are you happy with your gf? Yes? Then you don't need to find a message in your dreams because chances are there isn't one.

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LadyS answered Friday September 17 2010, 8:03 pm:
Well, it may be because you guys are going long distance and you miss her that you have these dreams. You say that you guys are active, but I guess that since its been a month that you haven't had any, your dreams are just a way your hormones are expressing their "sexual needs"

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