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Mutual attraction, now what?
Okay here's the deal: I like this guy in my class and am almost 100% certain that he likes me as well. We don't see eachother outside of school and we briefly speak while in school. Sometimes we talk in the class we have together. I was really surprised when he invited me to his birthday party (I didn't think he considered us "close"). And ever since the invite it's been all smiles and stares in class. I'm talking serious eye contact!
But he's shy in the sense that he won't directly tell me his feelings. Maybe he's doubtful of my feelings and thinks I think we're just friends. Where do I go from here? I don't actually want to tell him that I like him or tell his friends to tell him because I've done that before and I didn't like the results. Should I drop more obvious hints?? And how exactly should I do that? Haha. Thank you.
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haha... i think everyone has been in this position at some point. the easiest thing to do is to simply ask him if he wants to hangout outside of school sometime. go to the movies or something. assure him it can be just as friends... nothing more, on the "date" make it obvious that you are interested. if you go to the movies move closer to him, rest you head on his shoulder, or put your hand in a place where he can easily grab it. if things dont go anywhere... at the end of the date tell him you really had a great time, and if he wants to do it again sometime to get in touch and give him your number.
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If he is too shy to directly tell you his feelings then you should respect that he is, but if you really want something to happen with him, maybe you could try becoming best friends or closer friends and slowly move along that path. Along the way, he may find out whether you really do like him or not and things could progress. Maybe outside of school you guys could start hanging out and see each other more often besides just in class and get to know each other better.
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