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asking about someones sexual orientation
hi,
i was wondering if it is alright to ask someone who you are acquainted with their sexual orientation because you are interested in them, and are not sure if they 'swing that way'. cause i'm a bisexual and want to know about a girl in my classes orientation but do not want to offend her in any way or cause her unnecessary trouble. Should i wait until we hang out more or? thanks! 16/f
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I was bisexual from about the age of 14 and had some of the same problems. I found that if we went out on some friend dates, like the mall, lunch or hot chocolate, I would find out how they felt about me. Then to make sure, I would invite a girl over to spend the night, play some truth or dare and if things were going well, I would make the dares risky ones. If she said no, I wouldn't push it any further and move on to the next girl. If you need any other help, please e-mail me. julie19751975@yahoo.com. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Given your ages and the fact that you are both still in high school. I would think asking someone about their sexual orientation would be wrong and embarrassing for them. Even after you get to know her better it is probably not be a good idea.
The best thing to do is to wait until a conversation evolves where you can ask her about her thoughts on different sexual orientations such as being bi or gay.
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