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Is he breaking up with me? What else could "I'm sorry for all this?" mean?
I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months however, I don't know where I stand right now. Since he got a job (about 3 weeks ago) his been distand because he starts at 7am until 7pm at times and he's always tired. First week I realised he wasn't making time so I said some thing whilst we were on the phone he said "I dont choose mates over a girl" When I saw him that day he said he didn't mean it like that all he meant was he tells everyone he'll see them on the weekend and he has to try and make time for everyone. Anyways recently last Wednesday he went out of state for work, wednesday we msgd and Thursday he called me and told me he missed and so forth. Friday he was meant to come back he didn't msg i msgd him saying "I miss you" no reply so I msgd at 10 saying "did you get home safely?" he replied 1 hour later saying "Yehh just tired chilling lol" Saturday he usually msgs me in the morning this time he msgd me at 1 saying just "hey how are?" i replied "Why are you being dry?" he responds "sorry babe just buggered I guess" i then said if ive done some thing wrong then tell me because you're never dry to me... he replied 8 hours later he said "hey hows your night going? what did you today woman?" I replied then i msgd again saying "I love you" then Sunday morning he msgd me at 11am saying "I'm sorry for all this?" I replied sorry for what? then I msgd again saying please don't break up with me please.... and he just didn't reply now ive been crying 4 days straight i love him so much i've liked him for about 2 years and I haven't done anything wrong for him to break up with me it's obvious he's breaking up with me what else could "I'm sorry for all this?" mean please some one help me I'm so lost and confused I don't know where I stand.
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Now I wouldn't automatically run to the conclusion that he is going to break up with you because it doesn't necessarily mean that. It looks as though ever since he got this job its making him tired and its affecting his time management between hanging out with his friends as well as you. My boyfriend has CRAZY hours I mean when we try to plan something I try my best to plan a month ahead sometimes because of his work schedule. I use to take it personally in the beginning but over time I knew that I knew this about him when I started dating him and I love him so therefore I need to except it or move on.
Its really hard to tell what someone else is really trying to say through text. I'm sure your boyfriend feels bad for what he's putting you through. He may even feel that he's not being fair to you. I wouldn't rush to the conclusion of a break up right now. Just relax and keep your head up. I think what you should do is talk to him and straighten things out. Maybe plan a date night once a week where you can both see each other at least once a week. Good luck and cheer up!
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I wouldn't jump to conclusions so quickly & assume
he's breaking up with you all you'll do is make yourself crazy he didn't exactly say those exact words i'm breaking up with you he didn't hint that he was going to i'm sorry for all this could mean anything and i think you need to figure out what he meant by that right now your left to wonder what it means without actually knowing text him & ask what did you mean by i'm sorry for all this? Tell him to be specific so he gives you
the answer your looking for as his girlfriend you
have every right to know what he meant because like i said your clueless left wondering it isn't right(:
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