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story of my life, love sucks
So i've learned, love sucks. it seems i always fall for someone that is nearly impossible for me to ever be with. (oh, btw i'm bi, and only my family and three close friends know.) anyway I have a major crush on a girl in one of my classes. i don't know her sexual orientation and am not close enough to ask her. Two years ago we used to play frisbee every week, but since we've only shared classes. I'm trying to become closer to her again as a friend, but as winter draws near her hockey season is starting to pick up and she is quite busy. How do i approach her as a friend to hang out? (Also, i hope no one is against my orientation, but if you are, please refrain from commenting, thank you!) 16/f
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I'm a female and also bi, so I can totally understand your problem. When I was in school and I wanted to see how a girl felt about me, I would go out on some friend dates. Ask her to go for hot chocolate after hockey. Tell her you'd like some help picking out some clothes at the mall and you'll treat for lunch. Then after a few dates ask her to spend the night to watch her favorite movie. After she comes over, you can play some truth or dare and find out how she really feels about you. If you need any other help, please feel free to write me. julie19751975@yahoo.com
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try to make conversation with her in the classes that you have with her. make a joke about how you guys used to play frisbee together all the time and try to bond over that. you could suggest playing frisbee sometime soon (if it's not too cold) or otherwise suggest hanging out somewhere else, maybe invite her over or something. the closer you guys get, the less awkward you will feel talking about her sexual orientation.
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