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Q: I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years because there were many arguments, not really big issues but it seemed right at the time. We texted back and forth after the break up, at first he was devastated, but after a while he agreed with the breakup. This upset me because I ended it but I still end up getting more hurt than him, I guess I hoped he would try to convince me to stay. Out of anger I said "F!@* you, don't text me ever again". He didn't text me since. I would like to try and get back together but is that even possible at this point? Should I reach out to him? What should I even say?
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anything is still possible. start off by texting him and trying to be friends again. apologize and explain to him that you guys were fighting a lot and it was stressful for you but you realized that you miss him and enjoy dating him. see how he responds. he very well might be angry because you were so rude to him but if getting back together is what you really want, then make sure you show him you care about him and you didn't mean what you said.
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Q: I recieved a toshiba laptop as a present last year and it only dosen't work because I spilled water on my keyboard :( and now like ten to 15 of the keys don't work and it's slowing down rapidly now with the processor and the function. :( So I am in the market for a new laptop. So I am thinking of an HP or macbook. Which one should I get? I need it for school, and also entertainment like surfing the web, and watch movies?? which one do you guys reccomend??
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i've had a macbook for a little over a year and i love it! it's really fast and has so many programs. it doesn't get viruses and i've never had a problem with it. i'd definitely recommend getting a mac
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Q: I am a 21/f and about a little over 2 months ago I broke up with my boyfriend of almost 4 and a half years. There are many reasons for the break up and it was mutual when I initiated it. Reasons for the break up were because things weren't the same anymore, trust issues, argued alot, things became routine, didn't talk throughout the day alot, no romance, more like friends than bf/gf...etc. After the the break up the ex wasn't so fond of the idea anymore and kept trying to get back together. I declined and he let me be. We had a long conversation like a week or so after and was kind of like closer because we both realized we weren't getting back together. I haven't talked to him since. He asked if it was okay if he deleted me off facebook when the break up went down and I was like ok? Mine is private and his isn't. Even though I know this isn't helping.. I do the occasional creep on his FB.. and here recently he had mentioned going to the movies with the girl who he talked to behind my back. All of a sudden I grew angry/irritated at the fact and I'm pretty sure its normal to feel that way. I am obviously not going to say anything because he aren't together and I am doing my thing too.. I am wondering if it would be bad to text one of these days to see how he's doing, maybe not mention the fact I don't like him seeing that girl but see how things are. It's really weird not being able to just text him out of habit and say hey and stuff... he was apart of me for over 4 years and it's not that I want to be with him again but I wonder if we could be friends but I'm not so sure right now would be good. I am at lost at what to do and I am probably answering my own question by saying don't talk to him, don't be friends and stop looking at his FB.. but easier said than done. Any suggestions on how to move on?
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i've been there (my relationship was only a year though, not 4) but i understand where you're coming from. things happen during the day that make you think about him and you want to just text him and talk to him because he was such a big part of your life, but the truth is you just shouldn't. it sounds like the only reason you really want to talk to him now is because you don't want him talking to that girl. the truth is, it's not your business anymore. in deciding that you guys should break up, you gave up the right to control which girls he talks to/hangs out with. personally, i think you would be better off if you waited a few more months until you guys completely cool down and heal and then see if you can be friends. trying to be friends so fast after the break up can result in one of you wanting to get back together/getting jealous/etc. it's better for you to just stay away from him for awhile. when you want to text him just to talk, text one of your girl friends instead. good luck!
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Q: Well I went over to my boyfriends house who is 2 years older than me. I am 13 and hen is 15. I went over there and we were up in his room we were just talking and then he told me he loved me of course I told him I love you to. Well then he said if you really love me then you will do something for. I asked him what. Then he said will you suck on my dick? I told him okay but I warn you I have never done it before. Well while I was doing it he started grabbing my boobs and fingering me well I went along with it because he has done this stuff before and well I hadn't. Well afterward we just kissed and stuff. but please tell me was this wrong?
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it's not wrong unless you feel uncomfortable about it. and it sounds like you do. if you feel like he tricked you into doing something that you weren't comfortable with then you shouldn't do it again. it doesn't matter if he's more experienced than you are, you shouldn't be forced into doing anything that you don't want to do and just because you guys are dating doesn't mean that you owe him anything. don't do anything you aren't comfortable with.
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Q: we have been broke up for almost 2 months we talk everyday still and kinda flirt and stuff but when i mention i wish i was good enough for her or something she will say why do you have to start? am i just being too pushy and just need to go with the flow for now?
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you need to keep your distance for a little while. she doesn't have the same feelings for you as she did before. if you really want her back i think your best bet is to just stop talking to her. right now she is getting the best of both worlds: she still gets to talk to you and flirt with you and make you keep liking her but she can also go out and talk to other guys. maybe she needs the freedom right now and you should give her that freedom. not talking to her will either make her realize that she misses you and wants you back or she will move on, and if she moves on you should too because you're just going to keep getting hurt if you continue being hopeful that you guys are going to get back together. good luck!
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Q: Me and my boyfriend been together for 7 months almost 8. I barley get to see him anymore because of him being on football and me being on soccer. What do i do to try and get us to see each other more? Were both 14
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it's hard because you guys are so young and you can't drive anywhere yet, but maybe try hanging out with him on the weekends. go to a movie with a bunch of your friends (or just him if you feel comfortable with that). or you could invite him over after his football practice for pizza or something. good luck!
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Q: I'm not too experienced when it comes to guys, so whenever I'm out with one I always tense up because I'm scared he's gonna think I'm a complete loser for being an un expierenced 22 year old. Are there any pointers to make sure a guy is enjoying himself and not suspicious of the fact that I may not know exactly what to do?
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when you're out with a new guy he has no idea how experienced you are! you can act like you are the most experienced girl in the world and he would never know the difference. just be yourself! be calm, relaxed and just have a good time. if you end up getting into a relationship with one of the guys, hopefully he won't care how experienced you are (and if he does he isn't the right guy for you anyways). good luck!
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Q: So i've learned, love sucks. it seems i always fall for someone that is nearly impossible for me to ever be with. (oh, btw i'm bi, and only my family and three close friends know.) anyway I have a major crush on a girl in one of my classes. i don't know her sexual orientation and am not close enough to ask her. Two years ago we used to play frisbee every week, but since we've only shared classes. I'm trying to become closer to her again as a friend, but as winter draws near her hockey season is starting to pick up and she is quite busy. How do i approach her as a friend to hang out? (Also, i hope no one is against my orientation, but if you are, please refrain from commenting, thank you!) 16/f
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try to make conversation with her in the classes that you have with her. make a joke about how you guys used to play frisbee together all the time and try to bond over that. you could suggest playing frisbee sometime soon (if it's not too cold) or otherwise suggest hanging out somewhere else, maybe invite her over or something. the closer you guys get, the less awkward you will feel talking about her sexual orientation.
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Website: Gender: Female Age: 19 Member Since: November 27, 2011 Answers: 8 Last Update: November 27, 2011 Visitors: 1333
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