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wanting my ex back
we have been broke up for almost 2 months we talk everyday still and kinda flirt and stuff but when i mention i wish i was good enough for her or something she will say why do you have to start? am i just being too pushy and just need to go with the flow for now?
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it means that this girl just wants to be single. she just want to play around with a bunch of guys. you could ether go with it, or if your looking for a relationship then move on and find someone else. you never know if you keep in touch with her she might just come around and want you back.
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you need to keep your distance for a little while. she doesn't have the same feelings for you as she did before. if you really want her back i think your best bet is to just stop talking to her. right now she is getting the best of both worlds: she still gets to talk to you and flirt with you and make you keep liking her but she can also go out and talk to other guys. maybe she needs the freedom right now and you should give her that freedom. not talking to her will either make her realize that she misses you and wants you back or she will move on, and if she moves on you should too because you're just going to keep getting hurt if you continue being hopeful that you guys are going to get back together. good luck!
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She doesn't like you the way she used to. She isn't in love with you anymore. She doesn't want you to be in love with her, because she doesn't feel the same way back. She's not confusing; she wants to flirt with you but she doesn't want to be in a relationship with you because she's not in love with you any more. Maybe she does love you in a certain way, maybe she is still attracted to you, but she is not IN love with you. You're the confusing one that can't seem to make your mind up about wanting to be with her and then giving up on her!
When you say "I wish I was good enough for you" you're instantly giving up. You're admitting and accepting that you aren't good enough for this girl, so why should she bother? Why should she be with you if you're not good enough for her and she can do better? Stop with the self-pitying and start trying to be good enough for her. Start saying to yourself that you are good enough for her and you're going to prove it to her that you're a great person to be with. If you really love this girl and want her in your life, how about you try do everything you can to get her back? Whatever the problem with the relationship was before, try fixing it. Try just being a great friend to her, talking to her, being there for her when she needs you. Try sweeping her off her feet and being romantic instead of telling her how you wish you could be.
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You are being insecure, You are trying to get her to become sympathetic.
Yes, You are being pushy. If you want to try and win her back then be casual. Don't be forward and expect too much because many women find that to be a turn off.
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