Member Since: November 28, 2011
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Last Update: December 2, 2011
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General question...
We fought a lot, we werent even "together" but couldve... anyway, we were both mad at each other, now he doesnt e mail... he didnt reply..
i feel i missed who i thought he was...
do guys mean what they say when they say they dont care, do they really NOT care? or like girls, do they still think of what couldve happened, what is she thinking...
why do girls think a LOT about situations, and guys seem to dont care as much?
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cause guys just dont want drama and when they feel like there is drama they ignore it
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I am 17 years old
There is this 40+ year old man that is telling all my friends and his that we had sex alot.
I know who he is kinda but I have never even actually talked to the guy before.
I have told my friends to ask him to stop saying stuff but its just getting worse.
He's saying that he pimped me and we had sex all the time and now even his girlfriend who is also in her 40's is causing me problems.
Is there some sort of legal action I can take? (link)
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yeah. call 911 and tell the police your situation. then have all your freids talk to police but before all that tell your parents or legal gardians what is going on. if you want legal action than thats what you gotta do
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I don't know what's wrong with me, but I ALWAYS seem to go after the guys who are either in a relationship, or in this case married. There's this married guy, only two years older than me, so it's not like he's old or anything, who has been giving me some pretty strong signals. We flirt all the time. And it's reached the point where I'm actually wanting to hook up with him due to all the sexual attraction. What do I do? I know it's wrong because he's married...but he's not making it easy on me to just forget about it. So what are some things that we can do to go beyond flirting but not full on cheating? (link)
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he is married love. you shouldent be playing around with that kinda thing. if he doesint want to be with his wife he should get a divorce. flirting is fine. but if he want more than that then you should tell him that if he wants to do stuff he should get a divorce with his wife. other than than just forget about it.
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Why do my parents hate me? I'm an only child.
1. I've been getting the 1st rank in school since I was in pre-nursery and now I'm in the 10th grade. They just take a look at my report card and say nothing, or add a spiteful remark about how I've got an A2 in a subject(which is rare, I always get an A1).
2.If I ever ask for something, they promise that they'll fetch it tomorrow but that tomorrow never comes, even if I remind them every day.
3.If I take help in my studies from the internet, my mother will always say "You copy all the homework from the internet. You never study at all. I've never seen you studying." My dad then proceeds to agree with her and tells me that "All the world is working and you are wasting your time on the computer."
4. Mostly , I don't say anything but sometimes I snap and tell them that all they do is criticize me. On this, they suddenly behave innocently and my mother claims "I don't even talk to you, how have I criticized you? I have not." My father will side with my mother.
5. I study by my own. They keep on comparing me with other children. Even though I get the best grades, it's always how Jennie "goes to the coaching class every day" or how Ray "is in tuition for eight hours every day". They say "You should go to a tuition center. Every person needs help and you're not some fairy from Mars."
6. My mother and father, especially my mother always keeps on telling me to "reduce weight" or "how fat are your thighs" or "how is your stomach becoming like a balloon" or how "fat your arms and legs are". They make me feel so self-conscious. I am 5'6" and weigh 117 pounds. Is that obese?
7. I don't get acne but when on the rare occasion I do, they'll instantly tell me "how bad is your skin", "your whole forehead is decorated with pimples", "I never had pimples, are you sure you're my daughter?"
There are plenty of other things but I can't make the question too long. They make me feel unhappy, worthless, useless, fat and stupid.I've tried to talk diplomatically to them many times but they always avoid the question or say that "You're an ungrateful devil, no one should have a child like you." They claim that they love me. But I don't think so. (link)
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im not going to tell you that your parents dont love you cause they probubly do. they are just not good parents. it sounds like you want your parents respect and to make them proud. every kid wants there parents to be proud of them. all the good grades that you get and all of your accomplishments you have made. do for yourself not your parents. and about the whole obesity thing your not fat your uder what someone 5'8 is supposed to wheigh. your supposed to be at 126 lbs. if you still do feel self concise about your weight then all you have to do is eat healthy and do some cardeo workouts. like going for a jog around the block. or streches. there is not much i can tell you about how to make your parents stop treating you like this all you can do is tell them flat out how you are feeling and hopefully they pull there heads out of each others asses.
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I've told my boyfriend i wanna be fingered by him but i'm reallu scared about it as i'm only 12 but i do really love him but i don't wanna be fingered now, how do i tell him? (link)
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im not going to tell you not to or do it cause it is not my place. but your here to get an opinion . so i say if you feel like your not ready then dont do it. first of all you are young so like most young people most of them dont really understand love yet... (some teens do but not alot of them). you should just tell him that you are not ready for that. it seems small and harmless but it means alot to you that you feel happy and ready to do somthing like that. just my opinion.
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Hi I hAve a crash on a boy I have him on bbm and we chat but how can I tell him with out embarrassing ME? (link)
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get to know him. flirt with him, talk to him, dont be afraid to be yourself. and once you get to know him and he knows you. just tell him you like him. rejection sucks but thats apart of life, same thing if you get embarrassed its apart of life. you just have to face your fears and go for it.
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okay, before reading this .. please don't judge me. thanks....
So i'm 15 , i'm a female.. ehhhh , so i lost my virginty too my ex boyfriend/Bestfriend on june 20th 2011... we dated for a while then things dident work out so we broke up , YES we used condoms, i only did it once, Well .. once school started i started talking too this other boy, (i've been single for 4 months now..) and we was hanging out one day after school ,
we was in his car, and he kissed me. and things dident go as planed. we got real sexual. and ended up having sex , well... we still talk now, but i dont want a relationship because hes a man whore , he has alot of girls. and some how ALOT of people from my school found out about me having sex with him, and now they think im a whore/Slut.... when i walk down my hall at school all i get is stank faces from girls, and i can hear them wisper. but i just try to ignore them, i never really hung out with girls , i always hung out with a couple of girls, and alot of boys. just bc its less drama yaknow ? well anyways , i have big boobs so boys are always talking about them, and girls will say "ew shes a whore!!! dont hug her you might get aids" and start laughing , i mean im a cheerleader, i do all kinds of sports, i am a happy person(: i'm always smiling and laughing.. i guess im too friendly ? but when i get mad, i flip the fuck out, and all these rumors , and people picking on me, it;s making me sad . and making me wanna slap them girlss !!! AHHHH right now i just hate my life (link)
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i dont agree with footballchick2. your not a whore for having sex with someone. its not like you were in a relationship with anyone at the time. its not like you cheated on anyone. so they can shut there mouth. if you want to have sex with someone go on ahead. there is nothing wrong with it get as much as you can cause when your in a relationship you are with that one person. the other girls are just jelouse cause your hotter and you are actuly living your life.
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24/f, my boyfriend is 23/m.
Please don't think I'm ungrateful, it's just that I'm... not used to being treated well, or being appreciated.
I've been in two abusive relationships, one right after the other. My last ex liked to buy me things out of the blue, but somehow always held it against me (e.g. "I got you [blank] and you didn't [blank]! How could you be so ungrateful?"). The guy before him never gave me anything without getting or wanting something in return.
My current boyfriend is beyond wonderful. He somehow treats me like a princess and an equal; we don't play mind games with one another, and I really trust him, which is surprising, given my history. He loves to get me little things to make me smile. For instance, he picked up on me feeling kinda down one day, so he showed up after work with a stuffed animal, saying he thought I could use a fuzzy pick-me-up. I know, "why the heck would anyone complain about that?" But that's part of my confusion...
I feel so... strange about taking presents from him. He talks about all these things he wants to give me, and it's sweet, but it's not practical.
It also frustrates me a little, because while he's living with his parents, working part time, and able to spend his money however he likes, I'm living on my own; I have a cat to take care of, I'm working full time, have medical problems, and can barely pay my own bills. There's so much I want to do for him; so much I want to give him, but I can't. He understands perfectly, so far, but I guess I'm a little afraid he'll start holding it against me, or something.
I haven't mentioned any of this to him yet... I'm not really sure if I should, or how to do so.
What should I do about this? Should I even do/say anything? Or is it time for me to shut up and enjoy a healthy, happy relationship? Is this part of a healthy relationship? After my ridiculous past and boyfriends from hell, I'm not sure I know anymore.
Help a girl out? :) (link)
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i agree that he is just showing how much he cares. he doesint want anything from you but your love and to see you smile. he just wants you too be happy. now its time to say screw your past live for the present and make way for the future. so in short shut up and enjoy a healthy happy relationship haha :)
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I'm 13 and I'm going through a really tough time right now. Sometimes i think about cutting myself, but every time i go to cut myself I get scared and stop. I will take a super sharp pencil and dig it into my wrist but the marks don't stay long enough to make me feel better, so my question is, what do I do to either get over my fear of cutting or get rid of the thought altogether? (link)
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first of all inflicting pain on yourself is not just wrong it is a addiction. sence you havint cutt yet dont start. find something else that would get rid of your anger. i use to cutt and punch walls then it got to the point that it wasint enough pain. i saw i had a problum so i dicided to start working out. i got into a fighting class and i punched the punching bag. try somthing like that next time you get depressed go for a jog or go to the gym and run on the tredmill and do some workouts. after that if things still dont change then you should go talk to a school theropist and tell them that it needs to stay confidential. or go see a profecinal so you can get some things off your chest. all these things will work you just have to want to change your ways.
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I am 13 turning 14 next month and I have been thinking a lot about sex but when I'm ready how will i be able to get the protection i need without my parents finding out?
Also does it hurt for most girls when its there first time and what's the less painful position as in girl and guy sex (not talking about a blowjob!) (link)
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your at the age where you start thinking about sex alot. if you feel like you want to you can just be safe about it. you can go on the pill and tell your parents its just to reduce the amount of periods you get. and always use condom. no matter what the guy says cause you dont want to be put at risk of being a teen mother. your parents would really be dissapointed ( they would still love you ). if you dont want to tell your parents then you dont have to but its always nice to reasure your parents that your practicing safe sex.
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I'm not too experienced when it comes to guys, so whenever I'm out with one I always tense up because I'm scared he's gonna think I'm a complete loser for being an un expierenced 22 year old. Are there any pointers to make sure a guy is enjoying himself and not suspicious of the fact that I may not know exactly what to do? (link)
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if your talking about sex then yes there are some pointers. first of all dont be nervious about being unexperienced everyone had to learn somehow. and the best way to do it is to just ask him. what he likes his turn on spots. and tell him that you havint done to much with guys. it might just boost his self confidence cause he might not have much experience ether. you just kinda have to get over it and dive right in.
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This is just about a normal user on You tube, I tried posting a lyrics video in the past..and other one's and I always got the copyright infringement email so I got afraid and deleted them.
Now, I made this wonderful fan video that took me about a day and a half to finish since it was my first video...and once again the copyright infringement. I tried before to put the info about how I didn't own anything & the rules..doesn't work.. The email said "There is no action needed on your part-" etc.
So, do I HAVE to delete it?.. because it hasn't been deleted..and I see so many people with videos that haven't been taken down. What should I do? I really don't want it to be deleted..will I get sued or anything? Haha.. DX I'd like to know, thank you (link)
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if someone got pissed of enough they can sue your but its unlikely.
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One of my managers is in his low 20's, as am i. We both have sexual attractions towards one another and have discussed if we would sleep with each other. Has anyone every slept with their manager? Do you guys think it's a good idea if no one finds out? Thanks (link)
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there is no problum with that if you guys really do like eachother. it could cause some problums cause almost all companys frown apon emloyies dateing other employies. but if you are atracted to him then they cant blame you your only human.
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why can't a guy text a girl without being a total creep? Every guy that texts me either want to have phone sex with me or talks about sex in general and asks me personal questions about my sex life. I'm a virgin. I plan on waiting atleast until I find the right person. I don't want to have phone sex with some random. I know the guys that are texting me, like they go to my school but I never talk to them in person. Why can't a guy just be friends with a girl? I'm 17 btw if that matter. I know that's all guys think about at that age but seriously how can they expect to get any if they're that creepy? I want a guy best friend, why is that so hard to find?!?! (link)
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cause that is all that goes threw our head. every single guy is like that. even the nicest guys are like that they just dont act like dirty pigs. if you want a best guy friend become freinds with a gay guy. ( and if that affends anyone for some reason im sorry)
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Im 16 Female and am confused people say im like a boy because of the way i dress and have a deep voice and im more attracted to girls than boys although iv never kissed anyone so well as you can read i dont know who i am and have dreams about girl and iv told my sister she said you dont really know untill uv tried it i dont think thats true though and my da dont like gays so i kinna know in a les but dont know how to let any one know
HELP!! (link)
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you sister is kinda right. everybody questions there sexuality sooner or latter. so you should just do what feels right. people can be cruel about things like that but if you dicide that you like the same sex dont let people get to you just stand your ground.
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hey guys. my names callie (im new) :P im 14 and i want my nose belly button lip tounge or eye brow perced. they are not that much difrent in price. my mom says i can get 1. she thinks the nose. or eye brow. i like lip.. im still desiding. is there is there any things you would do? or anything bad about them. i really need to have a percing that is easy to take care of and wont scar my body forever. thanks :P (link)
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i would go for nose or lip. tounge is awesome but there hard to take care of like biteing your tongue more and chipping your teeth on the ring. bellybutton is easy but if you gain wieght then you will have to take it out and it is easier to get ripped out by clothing or other objects. so go for lip or nose.
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So there this guy I liked and he asked me out, of coarse I say yes.The problem is that my friend has had a crush on him since like forever she won't let me near him.My boyfriend never really liked her more than a friend.Like whenever me and my boyfriend are walking together at school she'll come out of nowhere and squeeze in between me and him.She also stares at me and my boyfriend when where sitting and holding hands.I am getting sick of her always doing that.How do I tell her to stop. (link)
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idk i bet she felt hurt cause she wanted him and couldent have him and is with you. but she should be mature about it and be happy for you. you just have to explane to her why your bothered and listen to what she has to say. she probubly needs to get some stuff off her chest.
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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost four months now, and he wants to keep us a secret from his friends and family. I am 14, he is 18 - please no comments about age, we don't mind the age difference at all - and we live far apart. We text all the time, but barley get to see eachother. He doesn't want to tell any of his friends or family - and won't say we are dating on faceboook. He always says he is going to marry me someday and acts mostly like he means it. I don't know what to do anymore, but I love him with all of my heart. (link)
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well its smart for him not to say your dating cause he can go to jail for it. unless your parents and his are ok with it. he loves you but its true that you are too young to be dating him. im not trying to affend you but the reason why he is hideing it is because you are too young. if you want to stay with him just refraim from letting other people know that your dating.
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I would like an opinion from an experienced veterinarian on their career choice. I am thinking of entering the field and i would like some advice. Where could i go about finding that? (link)
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if you havint worked with animals then do that before you dicide. volintear at any vet clinic, go to the humain sociaty. talk to other vets and see what you would have to do. other than that go to collage and take classes on it and dicide. also i am takeing vet classes right now and if your really intressted in it. its a blast
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All right so me and my boyfriend having been dateing for about a month now. We have kissed and I let him feel me up while we were making out. Now though it seems he "hints" toward wanting to do more. Like when he is touching my chest, he will move his hand down and kinda linger on my belt. I know what he wants and he knows I want to take things slow, but I feel guilty when he doesn't get what he wants(my past b/f's made me think we had to do things). I eventually give in and end up feeling like s*** afterwards. How can I tell him no and stick with it? My self-esteem is not that high do to past experiences. I am always the one who has to say no. He has never said no, or "well we don't have to". (link)
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you just have to stick with to your guns. you need to know that he is with you cause he cares about you not just about the sex. once you know that you really love him and he loves you then you will be ready to take the next step in your relationship
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