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my friend won't let me near my boyfriend
So there this guy I liked and he asked me out, of coarse I say yes.The problem is that my friend has had a crush on him since like forever she won't let me near him.My boyfriend never really liked her more than a friend.Like whenever me and my boyfriend are walking together at school she'll come out of nowhere and squeeze in between me and him.She also stares at me and my boyfriend when where sitting and holding hands.I am getting sick of her always doing that.How do I tell her to stop.
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Here is what you are going to have to do:
First, get with the boyfriend.
Two, tell your girlfriend that she is going to have to realize that we can't always have what we want in life and that there is always opportunity in loss (in other words, she will be freed up to pursue other guys).
If your girlfriend can't handle you dating the guy then you have to punt her. You can't let others make decisions about your personal life for you. You have to do that makes you happy. So step up to the plate, be a big girl and tell the girlfriend what time it is.
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idk i bet she felt hurt cause she wanted him and couldent have him and is with you. but she should be mature about it and be happy for you. you just have to explane to her why your bothered and listen to what she has to say. she probubly needs to get some stuff off her chest.
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Honsetly talk to her. Because that is really rude. Tell her what she is doing is wrong and is ruining your friendship. She has to suck it up and accept the fact that this is how it is. She is obviously very very jealous and has to get over that. Because he is with you. She should at least be happy for you that your happy.
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I had a similar situation.
Well, I think the only person that can tell her to stop is your boyfriend. You need to have him tell her that he never liked her as more than a friend, and she should let him date who he wants.
Your "friend" doesn't have the power to control who you decide to date, and who this guy decides to date.
Besides, this "friend" sounds selfish. If she won't respect your choice to date this guy then she doesn't sound like much of a friend.
Also, you need to decide if you value her friendship more or your relationship more. Obviously the two can't coexist, and if you feel that your friendship should be saved, then I suggest you stop dating this guy.
But if you feel that the relationship is more important, then I suggest you lose this "friend" and date who you think you should.
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Your "friend" is after your boyfriend, Therefore your boyfriend should tell her how it is. It needs and should come from him. No offense but this "friend" sound extremely immature and childish.
Have your boyfriend tell her to back off and stop harassing the two of you. This is YOUR boyfriend and nobody should be coming between that.
Also for the future friends don't come between their relationships. If this girl is so self absorbed to the point where she is willing to sacrifice her relationship with her friends then she shouldn't have friends in the first place. This girl is rude, obnoxious and immature...Chuck her.
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You tell her like it is. She doesn't seem like a good friend to me. Either tell her to get over it, or stop being friends with her. I guarentee that if you tell her to stop, she will just continue to do it, or get mad. If her friendship means more to you than your boyfriend, than I think you may have to let him go. It isn't fair at all. I don't know why girls have to be so vicious and catty. I'm sorry you are going through this. Its like all you want is to be happy, and the one person your close to doesn't accept that. She is jealous. She needs to understand that he didn't like her, and he likes you; and that shouldn't stop you from following your heart. There are plenty of othre guys out there. The time she's wasting trying to come between you and your boyfriend, she could be finding someone else!
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