Member Since: November 24, 2011
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Last Update: November 24, 2011
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I'm 13 and I'm going through a really tough time right now. Sometimes i think about cutting myself, but every time i go to cut myself I get scared and stop. I will take a super sharp pencil and dig it into my wrist but the marks don't stay long enough to make me feel better, so my question is, what do I do to either get over my fear of cutting or get rid of the thought altogether? (link)
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I cut myself last year because I was so depressed. I think you need to find out what's making you so depressed and face your fears. Also, it's good if you have trustworthy friends to talk to, or a close family member.
Please don't cut yourself. It never leads to anything good. You need to talk about it with someone.
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Ok so I never get invited anywhere!!! It's super annoying my friends know how alone I'm. They invite I'm places then cancell on me 2 mins later to be with someone else. I h8 it. At lunch they talk about hanging out with each other in front of my face. One girl in the group is super nice to me and includes mi. I want to hang out with her and others but she's always busy Bcuz ppl are lik obsessed with her and stuff. I'm not but shes my only friend and aren't friends supposed to hang with each other. (link)
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I had this same situation last year. My "friends" would always talk about hanging with each other but I was always the one exlcuded; they'd post everything on Facebook which just made me feel worse.
I was usually home alone and it took me all year to realize I needed to find new friends that were going to respect me and not exclude me out of everything.
The only advice I can give you is try and find some new friends that'll accept you for you. I know how it feels to be the outcast friend, and it really does suck.
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So there this guy I liked and he asked me out, of coarse I say yes.The problem is that my friend has had a crush on him since like forever she won't let me near him.My boyfriend never really liked her more than a friend.Like whenever me and my boyfriend are walking together at school she'll come out of nowhere and squeeze in between me and him.She also stares at me and my boyfriend when where sitting and holding hands.I am getting sick of her always doing that.How do I tell her to stop. (link)
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I had a similar situation.
Well, I think the only person that can tell her to stop is your boyfriend. You need to have him tell her that he never liked her as more than a friend, and she should let him date who he wants.
Your "friend" doesn't have the power to control who you decide to date, and who this guy decides to date.
Besides, this "friend" sounds selfish. If she won't respect your choice to date this guy then she doesn't sound like much of a friend.
Also, you need to decide if you value her friendship more or your relationship more. Obviously the two can't coexist, and if you feel that your friendship should be saved, then I suggest you stop dating this guy.
But if you feel that the relationship is more important, then I suggest you lose this "friend" and date who you think you should.
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