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I never get invited anywhere
Ok so I never get invited anywhere!!! It's super annoying my friends know how alone I'm. They invite I'm places then cancell on me 2 mins later to be with someone else. I h8 it. At lunch they talk about hanging out with each other in front of my face. One girl in the group is super nice to me and includes mi. I want to hang out with her and others but she's always busy Bcuz ppl are lik obsessed with her and stuff. I'm not but shes my only friend and aren't friends supposed to hang with each other.
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I had this same situation last year. My "friends" would always talk about hanging with each other but I was always the one exlcuded; they'd post everything on Facebook which just made me feel worse.
I was usually home alone and it took me all year to realize I needed to find new friends that were going to respect me and not exclude me out of everything.
The only advice I can give you is try and find some new friends that'll accept you for you. I know how it feels to be the outcast friend, and it really does suck.
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I understand that it is hard to go through this. I use to be the same way. I would never go places well go anywhere with anyone. Well this was only at school. I'm 14 and in 9th grade and I go to an online high school. I absolutely love it. You make friends very fast. They don't judge you or anything like that. Well back to your question I know that you want to hang out with all of your friends and I know it is hard because they cancel on you really fast. If I were you I would go to that 1 friend that you 2 really want to hang together and make plans to go somewhere with each other and if she cancels on you then you know that she is not a true friend.
If you have another question and need anymore help you can inbox that certain person and ask only them.
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Man, I'm sorry your "friends" are treating you this way. I know how it feels. I use to get so mad and jealous when my friends would ditch me, and than brag about how much fun they had around me.
You need to put your foot down. Stand up to these so called "friends". You need to let them know how you feel, and ask them how come they are always ditching you. I am not the type of person who believes in revenge or anything, but it seems like these girls need a taste of their own medicine.
If I was you, I would defintely find new friends. I'm sure your a great person, who can find friends easily. Once you start making better, reliable friends. Your old friends will come running back to you in no time, and than you can finally tell them all the tihngs they have been telling you.
Don't feel bad though. Them acting like this is actually a good thing. There showing you that they are not REAL friends, and that YOU can find so much better!
Good Luck<3
If you need anything else, just inbox me, or send me an email to xxbbyxitsxyouxx@aol.com
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Your friends should be hanging out with you. I went through this in middle school and I came to the conclusion to find new friends. If they weren't going to treat me like a friend they didn't deserve me. Everybody deserves that respect, no matter who you are. I would recommend stepping outside your boundaries and meeting new people, get to know other personalities and people that can give you the respect everyone has the right to. Don't let them drag you around, I promise you. It's killer to be strung along. At least let them know how you feel about it and let them know that you'd like to be included or they'll lose you. If nothing changes, like I said, they don't deserve you.
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