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i did something with by boyfriend.
Well I went over to my boyfriends house who is 2 years older than me. I am 13 and hen is 15. I went over there and we were up in his room we were just talking and then he told me he loved me of course I told him I love you to. Well then he said if you really love me then you will do something for. I asked him what. Then he said will you suck on my dick? I told him okay but I warn you I have never done it before. Well while I was doing it he started grabbing my boobs and fingering me well I went along with it because he has done this stuff before and well I hadn't. Well afterward we just kissed and stuff. but please tell me was this wrong?
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Pretty normal behavior. He wanted to stimulate you, too, and make what was happening as less of a one way street, but also with the benefit that feeling your boobs and your wet pussy turned him on further.
At this point, though, what I would like you to do is put off vaginal intercourse until you are at least 16 because you will know your body a little more, your boyfriend will be a little older and mature and more likely to make your first time a pleasant one.
You will need to determine what you want sexually from here on in. If you don't feel you're ready for those decisions yet, then don't do that which you haven't decided on yet. It's your body, so you get to own it and tell people what they can't do with it when they try something. If the other party doesn't like your decisions then they know where the door is.
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That love and life and something person was like so wrong!! If you really thought it was okay then you would have not asked this. You know very well that this was wrong. I'm 14 and it would be nice to have a boyfriend but at this time NO SEX. For one I know that I'm not ready and the LAW said no sex till 18. And most times girl of that age are still not ready. Nor are the boy's but most of them will do it anyways. The boy is 15 and has seen a way to get what he wants. 13 yr old girls and 15 yr old boy's don't mix. Most time when one is older then the other(boy or girl) it does not work out. And you said your self that you do not love him. There for you don't need to have sex with him. How did you say that? This is what you said: And of course I told him that I loved him too.
If you really loved him there would be no: of course I said I loved him. Like you had to say it or something. Like you did not really love him. If you loved him you would have said something like this: And because I KNOW that I liked him I said I loved him back. And he had have sex before. Love when is your bell going to go off? You need some love that was no sugar in it. Good for you at this time. Oh and one more thing: break-up with him.
If you need more sugar less love just ask me June for it.
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Do I really have to tell you it was wrong? I think you know it was wrong for a variety of reasons.
Before I answer your question maybe you will answer a question for me. I do not understand why young girls your age and younger feel they need to have boyfriends. What necessitates the need for a boyfriend at your age. When I was your age girls for the most part, while interested in boys didn't date and didn't have boy friends. Their father or parents would not allow it. To date a girl had to be at least 16, what has changed? What is your hurry to grow up? Of course this includes the rush to have sex.
Okay so it was more than one question. Within my questions are also the reasons why it is wrong for you to have done what you did.
Your too young to be having any type of sex.
At your age having an exclusive relationship in my view is inappropriate.
You should not have been alone in his room.
Where where his parents.
You should take time to experience being a young girl and give your body and mind time to catch up with each other. Your teenage years are a wonderful time of life, please for your own sake don't try to rush through them. Enjoy each year to its fullest for they will never come again.
Most importantly do not let peer pressure sucker you into doing things you know are wrong or you just plain don't want to do. You may not agree with me at the moment when I say; this is a wonderful time in your life, slow down and enjoy these years. Later in life you will look back and say, you know answerman49 was right.
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That was so wrong and you should have never done that with him. You are only 13 . To me it seems like he kinda forced you because he said "If you love me" so therefor he like kinda forced you. To me no 1 deserves that kinda person and I think you deserve better than him.
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User below me is incorrect
It was wrong of your boyfriend to say that too you, It is wrong because he manipulated you into doing sexual favors for him.
If someone really loves someone or cares about them they don't black mail them. "If you really loved me" Clearly, he manipulated you.
My best advice is too dump him, If this isn't obvious proof that he is using you then sweetheart you will just end up being like the other teenagers who choose stupidity over common sense.
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it's not wrong unless you feel uncomfortable about it. and it sounds like you do. if you feel like he tricked you into doing something that you weren't comfortable with then you shouldn't do it again. it doesn't matter if he's more experienced than you are, you shouldn't be forced into doing anything that you don't want to do and just because you guys are dating doesn't mean that you owe him anything. don't do anything you aren't comfortable with.
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