hey hi! i have been in a relationship since last 3 and half years but suddenly last year in december i dumped him and he literally cried and begged before me but i dnt and then he finally moved on i saw him with other girl i couldnt tolerate that and now we both are together but hez still dating that girl also and he tells me evrythng now advice me what should i do now?
If I read what you said correctly, you said that he is still dating that other girl? Why would you even want to be with someone who is dating someone else at the same time? That isn't fair to you, girl!
There is a reason why he is your ex. You have to keep reminding yourself why you left him, and let that be your motivation to move on.
After being with someone for that long, its normal to be jealous to see your ex lover with another chick. Just because he is with another girl, doesn't give you a right to get him back. He was once yours, you let him go, and now its time for you to move on. There are plenty of other guys out there for you, who will treat you a lot better this your ex could ever imagine. Someone who will only want you to be with and to love. This guy sounds like a loser to me, and trust me girl, YOU CAN DO SO MUCH BETTER! (:
kittenlover2000 answered Sunday November 27 2011, 6:32 am: You should move on. Because the fact is if you cling on to a guy no matter how he treats you, he'll think its ok to treat you bad and other people will think you're a doormat.
Have the courage to stand up and say enough is enough, I want to start over with someone who loves me and only me with no strings attatched. Its always hard letting go-but hey you guys could still be friends?
If you don't move on you wont grow as a person. Unfortunatly sometimes we can't have what we had in the past. If you move people will respect you and your teaching your bf a lesson that actually he can't get away with treated girls like this. The pleasure comes for you from him realising he's messed up with the best thing that happened to him. It should be a wake up call for him.
Move on, cos lifes too short for this sorta thing! Good luck :) [ kittenlover2000's advice column | Ask kittenlover2000 A Question ]
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