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a boy that started being a jerk
Well I started talking to this guy and all of a suden he asked me out well when we first started dating he told me he wanted to make out with me it was literally 5 min after we started dating but then he just stopped talking to me and I dont know why do you have any advice
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"Hey babe, want to make out?" "Now THERE is an opening line. Jesus, what is up with some people? I can't believe you didn't just laugh at that awkward attempt at seduction.
As for why he stopped talking to you, you don't say what you mean by that. For example, does he not take your phone calls? Does he ignore you? Or does he just clam up when he's with you? If you guys are teenagers, what I suspect is going on is that he has just never really learned what to say to women. Some guys have innate social skills, but others have to basically be taught. So you're going to have to sit down and tell him exactly what it is you want to know about him and that you want to be let into his life.
Remember that guys don't bond through the kind of elaborate self disclosure that girls do. We bond doing stuff together. We rarely talk about our feelings to one another except when it has to do with some expression of aggression (generally speaking). Consequently, trying to communicate with women can be extremely awkward and intimidating for some guys.
If he was pervert, as a couple of the other responses to your query insinuated, he would have kept pushing until he bedded you. But he stopped pressing you after merely some heated kissing or necking (apparently). So this could be a more complex dynamic than what you portray.
Either that or the guy has no content to offer. But you won't really know that until you really begin drawing him out.
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This buy is just not a jerk but a b-boy. He wanted nothing from you but sex. That's not a guy you want to be with. You should get better from a man. And you will. One day. This boy is full of nothing but shit. His poor mother. What ever did she do too get a son like him?
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The guy was obviously a pervert who wanted to use you, If he abruptly stopped talking to you then either A. He has other girls lined up or likely B. He just clearly lost interest in you.
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