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Idk if i should be uncomfortable about stuff that I do with my boyfriend. It feels so good and I love it but is it right now he is great at it so idk someone tell me please is it bad?
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You should decently feel comfortable with stuff you do with your boyfriend.
If it isn't then it is obviously to wrong time and you shouldn't be doing it.
It is not bad to like what you and your boyfriend do.
That is what we where made to do.
Other wise relationships would be really boring.
Don't feel guilty just for loving him and having a good time doing stuff with him.
This is normal.
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It would help if I knew your age as that is a contributing factor in how you may feel.
If your question is about sex, let me say this: Sex between two CONSENTING ADULTS, the operative words being, consenting adults, can be a very beautiful and loving experience. Sex between two minors while also being very beautiful is fraught with remorse; for being discovered or worse becoming pregnant. Which sort of takes the shine off the beauty of it all.
If you are a minor, being under the age of consent in your state, this may be what your feeling. If your boyfriend is asking you to do things sexually that you do not think is proper that is another story regardless of your age.
As I said not knowing your age or exactly what you are asking. Given that these facts are missing let me say this.
You should never do something or allow yourself to be shamed or coerced into doing anything you are uncomfortable doing and this includes anything sexual. When it comes to sex; anything you are not 100% consenting to, meaning being coerced into doing in any way, fits the description of rape. No means NO, not maybe, not talk me into it, not force me to try doing it. No means No and stop means stop regardless of where in the act you may be.
The same holds true for social activities. For example you are at a party and someone pulls out some weed. You want nothing to do with drugs and ask your date to take you home or someplace else. Your date should not force you to stay or in any way shame you into staying. If your date refuses and there is no way else for you to get home safely this is the same as kidnapping and fits the definition of kidnapping.
Do my examples sound a little far fetched. They really are not. You may have heard about the theory "that for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction." Well this applies in the law as well. If someone forces you to do something against your will the law provides for an opposite reaction. This is your protection. You have every right to say no to anything you are not comfortable with, with the exception of school assignments, school is more of a dictatorship in that regard.
If you are having under age sex you should be uncomfortable. The consequences of your actions can be great. Not just the chances of pregnancy but the loss of trust from your parents and depending on your age the possibility of getting a reputation around school.
I may have provided more information then you asked for. I tried to cover all the bases since information on just what you were asking was missing. I hope somewhere in all of this is the answer to your question.
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