About julie75
Hi. I've lived quite a life since childhood. My parents divorced when I was 14. I was married at 19 and only lasted about a year and a half. Then I really explored my sexual side because I thought I was a failure with my parents and my own love life. For a while during that time, I thought I was going to become a lesbian because I was feed up with men. I traveled around the country and stayed at different relatives homes for a while. I even tried college for a short time but always felt lost. I finally settled down at 30 with a decent, loving man, that treats me well. I hope that I can help you if you decide to come to me for advice.
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Thanks turns out she was and we are together now! :)
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Oh thank you so much!
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thanks Julie19751975! i like your opinion. no i don't want a threesome with my husband. and yeah she might think about me and her and my husband having a threesome together. i am not like that. if i want a relationship with her then it's gonna be strictly between me and her. i just don't understand by what you say i need to be honest with her. how? she already turned me down. on the first place i think she isn't even sure that am bi and so am i if she is really gay. we've never talked on our sexual orientation yet. i can't keep on going on if she's losing interest in me.
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i don't think this is the type of information that should come via text. and i don't have his number. but thanks anyway
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Oh so does that mean technically you're only heterocurious until you sleep with a guy? You can be sexually attracted to someone without having sex with them. Also, I never said that I hadn't had sex with a girl, which I have. I feel like your answer focussed entirely on the sexual aspect rather than having genuine feelings for her. I don't want to just 'hook up' with her. But thanks for your advice.
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Thank you for answering this! haha. I thought it was good, but I asked because of this other girl.. I'm just wondering what are the chances of her actually giving it a shot with me.
You answered that question too haha :)
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thanks!
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The advice was great. I am looking forward to following it and seeing how everything turns out! Thanks a bunch! :)
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Thank you for your response. I'll see that he gets that.
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Thanks a lot. I think part of our problem is that we tend to always get straight into the act, not nearly enough stimulation, and you're right, if I don't tell him, he'll never know.
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Thank you for your advice... I am going to try to do what you said and see how things go. He is 27 by the way he is 7 years older than me. That is the biggest thing that influenced me to get married instead of waiting he was ready for marriage and kids and I didnt want to wait and risk losing him. I really hope that something changes... Thanks alot :)
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thanks:)
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thanks (:
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Thank you!
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it makes sense that she would have told me earlier if she were my best friend. but, i guess she isn't. either way, i don't believe that my friendship is that important to her if she did all those other things, not just the e-mailing and all of that. but, ditching me and hooking up with the other people in the department. i will find a good friend one day that's worth my friendship. i appreciate your help
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Thanks so much!!!!
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Ha! Okay Thanks :)
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Actually I do live in a big city. I am living in Delhi
Its the capital of India
But we dont have a local newspaper system over here
So what can I do? :/
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Thanks, This Helped(:
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It Is A lot Safer We Used to do that until we learned about pre-cum and them from then on we felt as though a few more thousand Sperm won't make a difference (big mistake) I can't trust any of my relatives maybe my older cousins but i don't want them to have to go out of their way for me.. my mom doesn't know nor anybody else in my family.. my aunties are like gossiping teenagers and tell my mom everything they hear. and i disagree i think even withdrawal can be as romantic but the hardest part is after so much intensity remembering to do so, you definitely helped.
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i dont mind being around anyone i have gay friends and african american friends we were just wondering lol
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That makes me kinda sad cuz I kinda lied a little... it is ME who wants this so bad. :( thanks anywayz!
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Thanks for taking the time to answer.
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Thank you, but im kind of on a budget .
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Thankyou - he's just told me it means frigid... I didn't even think I was frigid :L xx
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:)
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Thanks hunny:)
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Thank you :)
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Very helpful advice thank you
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him and the other girl are just friends though. i think you're seeing it a little too negatively
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Haha I'm 20. The only reason I'm worried is because, yes my boyfriend likes piercings, but in the off chance that he and I don't work out ( dating for 1year) I don't want other guys to be like ewwww when they see me.
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Thank you so much :) She couldnt come over today because she got sick but we talked on FaceBook and she and I are really interested in eachother so I think it's gonna work out and we can hang out another time :)
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thanks :]
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Alright thank you!
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no im 18 and it sitll dont fellg ood!!
all my friends enjoy it but wht dont i?
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I actually did that for Thanksgiving. My Mom's the type who wants everyone to get along and act like we're the Waltons I guess so we continue to put up w/this bully for Mom's sake. I just feel bad for my sis cuz it's her kids that get picked on all the time. Honestly I don't know how my sis keeps from punching this person in the face :)Thanks so much for your answer!
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Thank you. This really helped a lot!
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thank you !!
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thanks, this is great !
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Thank you so much. This definitely helped and I will try the things you said :) I have told him to go slow doing all these things before but he doesn't do it long enough but il tell him.
Thanks again!
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Thanks for the advice. He is pretty hot and sometimes used to be arrogant about his looks. He is very jealous about me though about alot of things. I don't go for looks though. Most of my boyfriends have been decent but great personalities. I did know this guy for a long time though so I will give him a chance to change, but if things don't I certainly won't waste anymore time with him.
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