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Masturbation without privacy?
17/female
I have absolutely no privacy. I don't have a bedroom. My parents are home most of the time. So I don't get much if any time to masturbate. I also don't have a bathtub, as that has been suggested before: just a stand up shower with a very small bathroom so that doesn't give me much of an option either. Idk what to do.
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A girl told me that she stood in the shower with the water falling on her clit and that made her cum fast. Sometimes she pulled back her hood and other times didn't.
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What you need is a simple chain lock that you can slip back and forth or a small hook lock that works the same way.
That way you have your privacy when you need it in general to have your space to be alone overall. I know a lot of parents are opposed to locks on doors but you need to explain that you lack privacy in general and not even in the bathroom most of the time.
They aren't stupid and probably have suspected you have done this or will be doing this activity at some stage because it's normal and pretty much universal in teens and people of any age. Nothing really to be embarrassed over if they were to find out but I'm sure if you ask for a lock for privacy that they would understand you have no privacy in general without it.
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It's hard to imagine that someone doesn't have a bedroom but you do have somewhere to sleep. Pretend to fall asleep some night and wait for everyone to go to bed and have your fun under the blanket. Make sure the lights are off and you're very quiet about it. Wear loose clothing or even a dress to have easier access. I hope this helps and good luck.
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wow, this is silly. you're a human being, graced with a massive brain geared to solve problems. A couple of nuclear physicists built a bomb that could level a whole city, I'm pretty sure you've got the brain capacity to figure out how to get five minutes of privacy.
jesus. get an electric toothbrush, run the shower to cover the noise, and lock the door. problem solved, problem staying solved. Go Rangers.
-Gunner
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It sounds like the bathroom is the only place with any privacy. You could try sitting on the floor of the shower or sitting on the toilet. Not the greatest way to masturbate but it will help you relieve sexual tension.
Does your house have an attic or a basement. If so is it possible you can section of a portion of the, I suggest the basement, for your own private space. You don't have to build walls, you could use inexpensive screens you can find at Walmart or Target that are used as room dividers. If you could this it would give you probably enough privacy to masturbate, study and do other things 17 year old girls need privacy for.
I don't recommend places like tool sheds, the garage or parked cars as none of them can offer you total privacy.
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Have you thought of NOT masturbating? It's not like it's a God given right. If you can, GREAT! If not, oh well!
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Hm, that sucks. Have you tried locking the bathroom door, and doing it on the floor? Or maybe while your sitting on the toliet?
I'd even go to the extremes of going outside, sitting in a vechile, or around the side of the house where no one can see you and doing it there. Your options aren't very open to chose from.
Your just going to have to find a place that works for you. Which seems like the bath room.
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