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Well.....i am a 15 year old girl...and recently I have masturbated.....but....everytime I do...I feel guitly and dirty...and I don't want to continue...I want to ask my sister, or brother, or even my parents..but I'm scared to...I keep thinking they will laugh or get mad at me....and say that I am disgusting...so I just wanna know...Is it bad or wrong? And why? (link)
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No.
It is important to masturbate because it teaches you what brings you pleasure and what it feels like to get aroused and have an orgasm. When you eventually start having sexual intercourse, that knowledge will help you have a more satisfying experience.
The most popular ways are fingers, vibrator, dildo, Shower Massage, bathtub faucet, and humping a pillow. Most people start in their teen years, but a lucky few get started as early as 5 or 6 when they discover it by accident.
http://www.MyMasturbation.com
http://www.LetsMasturbate.com
http://www.Positive.org
http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/
http://www.healthystrokes.com/
http://teenadvice.about.com/od/sex/tp/common-teen-masturbation-questions.htm
Disguised vibrator:
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Electric toothbrush attachment:
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So, I'm 15
I really don't like the way I look "down there". I've never had sex, but I do masturbate and this is really hard to talk about, because I don't talk about it.
I don't know if it's nothing or what but, something sticks out, outside of my vagina and I really don't know what it is, if it's my clitoris or what.. I'm just scared it's abnormal, I don't want to go to the doctor and be embarrassed..I don't believe I have an std because I'm still a virgin..will some one please help me out here? ://
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When a girl goes through puberty, her labia minora (inner lips) are one thing that change. They become larger and stick out between her labia majora (outer lips).
The collective noun for a woman's external genitals is "vulva." The area around the vulva is sometimes called the "pubic area."
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vulva
The "vagina" is the internal passage that menstrual blood flows from, that receives the penis, and through which babies are born.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vagina
In the vulva, the order of things from front to back is: (1) clitoris (bump that feels good), (2) urinary meatus (little hole for pee), (3) vagina (big hole for penis, etc.). Next in line, but outside the vulva, is (4) the anus (big hole for poop). The labia minora are flaps of skin on both sides of the vagina and urinary meatus and which meet at the clitoris. The labia majora are soft bulges outside the labia minora.
http://www.vacadsci.org/jsr/Fexter.jpg
It is important to masturbate because it teaches you what brings you pleasure and what it feels like to get aroused and have an orgasm. When you eventually start having sexual intercourse, that knowledge will help you have a more satisfying experience.
The most popular ways are fingers, vibrator, dildo, Shower Massage, bathtub faucet, and humping a pillow. Most people start in their teen years, but a lucky few get started as early as 5 or 6 when they discover it by accident.
http://www.MyMasturbation.com
http://www.LetsMasturbate.com
http://www.Positive.org
http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/
http://www.healthystrokes.com/
http://teenadvice.about.com/od/sex/tp/common-teen-masturbation-questions.htm
Disguised vibrator:
http://www.NeutrogenaWave.com/
Electric toothbrush attachment:
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im 18/f and my boyfriend is 19/m
Im starting to worry that i may be in that percentage range of women that never experience the pleasure of an orgasm.
Even when i masturbate, yes it feels good but nothing 'wow'
and i dont go in with the intention of having or trying to get an orgasm, mostly just to relax.
my boyfriend has tried everything, and its reaching that point that we're both feeling bad about it. I can get him off, make him cum everytime, yet he cant do the same for me. He's more determined then ever to find my 'spot' and to be able to make me feel how he feels when i pleasure him. But im worried that he wont and that he will feel not good enough.
Dont get me wrong, when im intimate with my boyfriend i dont do it with the intention of getting an orgasm. What he does, does feel really good, but yet ive never cum or anything.. Im extremely turned on and wet, so its not that im dry down there or anything. i just dont want him to feel anything less then amazing
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1. Search for "anorgasmia" on the web.
2. See a gynecologist.
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Im 15/f and I was wondering what I could use to masturbate. I have tried fingering myself but I dont ever feel anything when i do. Also im more clitoral (meaning I get more please from stimulating my clit then penetration). PLease let me know!
From: Horny and In Need (link)
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Your vagina does not have much feeling. Your clit is where you get sexually stimulated.
It is important to masturbate because it teaches you what brings you pleasure and what it feels like to get aroused and have an orgasm. When you eventually start having sexual intercourse, that knowledge will help you have a more satisfying experience.
The most popular ways are fingers, vibrator, dildo, Shower Massage, bathtub faucet, and humping a pillow. Most people start in their teen years, but a lucky few get started as early as 5 or 6 when they discover it by accident.
http://www.MyMasturbation.com
http://www.LetsMasturbate.com
http://www.Positive.org
http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/
http://www.healthystrokes.com/
http://teenadvice.about.com/od/sex/tp/common-teen-masturbation-questions.htm
Disguised vibrator:
http://www.NeutrogenaWave.com/
Electric toothbrush attachment:
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22/f
My boyfriend is in the military and I have not seen him in over 3 months. He is coming home soon on leave. I have always been "tight" down there and sex has always been painful for the first 5 minutes or so. Anyway this is the longest I have gone in a while so I know it will be really painful. Is there anything I can do to make this less painful? ..I do not want to masturbate. Thank you. (link)
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Minimize or eliminate the pain:
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/pink/from_ow_to_wow_demystifying_painful_intercourse
http://www.google.com/search?q=pain+first+time
It is important to masturbate because it teaches you what brings you pleasure and what it feels like to get aroused and have an orgasm. When you eventually start having sexual intercourse, that knowledge will help you have a more satisfying experience.
The most popular ways are fingers, vibrator, dildo, Shower Massage, bathtub faucet, and humping a pillow. Most people start in their teen years, but a lucky few get started as early as 5 or 6 when they discover it by accident.
http://www.MyMasturbation.com
http://www.LetsMasturbate.com
http://www.Positive.org
http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/
http://www.healthystrokes.com/
http://teenadvice.about.com/od/sex/tp/common-teen-masturbation-questions.htm
Disguised vibrator:
http://www.NeutrogenaWave.com/
Electric toothbrush attachment:
https://www.smittenkittenonline.com/tingle-tip.html
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I am a seventeen year old female. I am still a virgin. I want to have sex but have not had the opportunity to do so, unfortunately. I don't masturbate very often, because when I do it doesn't feel as good as I want it to. I want to know why this is. I can only do it for a certain amount of time before i just get impatient with the fact that I want it to be better. Unfortunately I don't have a dildo, so i can only use my hand.. which doesn't seem to work well enough. What should i do? (link)
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Fingers are all you need!
In fact, if you hump something, you don't even need fingers.
It is important to masturbate because it teaches you what brings you pleasure and what it feels like to get aroused and have an orgasm. When you eventually start having sexual intercourse, that knowledge will help you have a more satisfying experience.
The most popular ways are fingers, vibrator, dildo, Shower Massage, bathtub faucet, and humping a pillow. Most people start in their teen years, but a lucky few get started as early as 5 or 6 when they discover it by accident.
http://www.MyMasturbation.com
http://www.LetsMasturbate.com
http://www.Positive.org
http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/
http://www.healthystrokes.com/
http://teenadvice.about.com/od/sex/tp/common-teen-masturbation-questions.htm
Disguised vibrator:
http://www.NeutrogenaWave.com/
Electric toothbrush attachment:
https://www.smittenkittenonline.com/tingle-tip.html
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17/female
I have absolutely no privacy. I don't have a bedroom. My parents are home most of the time. So I don't get much if any time to masturbate. I also don't have a bathtub, as that has been suggested before: just a stand up shower with a very small bathroom so that doesn't give me much of an option either. Idk what to do. (link)
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A girl told me that she stood in the shower with the water falling on her clit and that made her cum fast. Sometimes she pulled back her hood and other times didn't.
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18 f.
sso i masturbate... and i wanna orgasm like girls in porn where it squirts like everywhere... also, when i do masturbate.. i get close to orgasm or do orgasm and then im done. my body gives up. not just being tired, but my mind is totally somewhere else and i my body doesnt care to continue. why is this?
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When you start getting close, try thinking about the sexiest thing in the world.
It is important to masturbate because it teaches you what brings you pleasure and what it feels like to get aroused and have an orgasm. When you eventually start having sexual intercourse, that knowledge will help you have a more satisfying experience.
The most popular ways are fingers, vibrator, dildo, Shower Massage, bathtub faucet, and humping a pillow. Most people start in their teen years, but a lucky few get started as early as 5 or 6 when they discover it by accident.
http://www.MyMasturbation.com
http://www.LetsMasturbate.com
http://www.Positive.org
http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/
http://www.healthystrokes.com/
http://teenadvice.about.com/od/sex/tp/common-teen-masturbation-questions.htm
Disguised vibrator:
http://www.NeutrogenaWave.com/
Electric toothbrush attachment:
https://www.smittenkittenonline.com/tingle-tip.html
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So im a female of 16 years, and recently I tried too masturbate, but i didnt reach orgasm, is there any way of being able to reach orgasm while masturbating? Is there ah best way too masturbate? I wanted to ask my boyfriend to finger me for the first time, but im scared i wont be in pleasure, or wont find it pleasing. What can i do? (link)
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It is important to masturbate because it teaches you what brings you pleasure and what it feels like to get aroused and have an orgasm. When you eventually start having sexual intercourse, that knowledge will help you have a more satisfying experience.
The most popular ways are fingers, vibrator, dildo, Shower Massage, bathtub faucet, and humping a pillow. Most people start in their teen years, but a lucky few get started as early as 5 or 6 when they discover it by accident.
http://www.MyMasturbation.com
http://www.LetsMasturbate.com
http://www.Positive.org
http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/
http://www.healthystrokes.com/
http://teenadvice.about.com/od/sex/tp/common-teen-masturbation-questions.htm
Disguised vibrator:
http://www.NeutrogenaWave.com/
Electric toothbrush attachment:
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I'm 19, female, and a virgin.
I'm a bit worried... I plan on losing my virginity to my long time boyfriend soon. I can tell it's headed there and I'm starting to feel more and more ready. HOWEVER, I have some fears...
I masturbate occasionally... but not much... it just doesn't do much for me. I can't really get myself wet and me touching ME doesn't really turn me on. I often just can't get off to fantasy land because I'm just too preoccupation with how frustrated I am and how sub-par it feels...
But... I feel like sex will be much better?
It it common for a girl not to be able to get too turned on when she's on her own but still have amazing sex with a partner because there's an actual person touching you opposed to touching yourself?
I'm worried I won't be able to get wet enough during sex. My boyfriend has been very respectful and we haven't really done anything besides kissing so I just don't know. Also, he took a semester off from school to be with family so we're separated for now. But just a text from him can turn me on more than trying to imagine sex I've NEVER had during masturbation...
Also, I tried using a small dildo and it just feels like a cold, uncomfortable object inside me... even if I move it in and out.
***Is sex better than masturbating once you get comfortable with it?
I guess in my mind I'm kind of comparing it to being tickled. I cannot tickle myself because it feels like nothing... but when someone else tickles me I'm a mess of laughter...
Is it kind of the same thing?
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Most women find masturbation to be more stimulating and are able to cum more easily with masturbation. Usually, masturbation is how you learn what you like and what it feels like to get aroused and cum.
It is important to masturbate because it teaches you what brings you pleasure and what it feels like to get aroused and have an orgasm. When you eventually start having sexual intercourse, that knowledge will help you have a more satisfying experience.
The most popular ways are fingers, vibrator, dildo, Shower Massage, bathtub faucet, and humping a pillow. Most people start in their teen years, but a lucky few get started as early as 5 or 6 when they discover it by accident.
http://www.MyMasturbation.com
http://www.LetsMasturbate.com
http://www.Positive.org
http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/
http://www.healthystrokes.com/
http://teenadvice.about.com/od/sex/tp/common-teen-masturbation-questions.htm
Disguised vibrator:
http://www.NeutrogenaWave.com/
Electric toothbrush attachment:
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hi, im a 17 year old female. Im a Christian, God and i are really tight. im known amongst my friends as being the pure, innocent Christian one who would never hurt a fly. i have never drunk or done drugs, havent dated, and i neverrr swear. But, ocassionally i can get in the mood to satisfy some certain... wants.
you see, every now and then, ill read these manga with really lewd sex scenes in them on a website. some ofthem can get pretty graphic. now dont get me wrong, ihave never and WILL never masturbate. but every now and again, ill just randomly want to look them up. now, i have never watched sex animes or looked up real life porn. ive looked up manga, and read some certain dirty fanfictions, but never anything worse. ill only read them for about 15 minutes or so before i get this huuuuugely awful feeling in my stomach, and stop. then i proceed to immerse myself in as much innocent things as i can in orderto get those awful images out of my head.
im not trying to make excuses for myself or justify my actions, but im saying they're not as extreme other people's can be, and I am certainly nooot addicted to it. but... yeah.
can any Christian, or well, you don'thave to be Christian, people relate to what im doing or feeling? i just want to make sure im not insane. Thanks. :) (link)
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I can relate to what you are saying. You are not insane.
Growing up, I was taught that sex was not for me. Like if the neighbors spoke Italian at home and I knew English was for me, not Italian.
This was wrong.
Sex is for everybody!
It is important to masturbate because it teaches you what brings you pleasure and what it feels like to get aroused and have an orgasm. When you eventually start having sexual intercourse, that knowledge will help you have a more satisfying experience.
The most popular ways are fingers, vibrator, dildo, Shower Massage, bathtub faucet, and humping a pillow. Most people start in their teen years, but a lucky few get started as early as 5 or 6 when they discover it by accident.
http://www.MyMasturbation.com
http://www.LetsMasturbate.com
http://www.Positive.org
http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/
http://www.healthystrokes.com/
http://teenadvice.about.com/od/sex/tp/common-teen-masturbation-questions.htm
Disguised vibrator:
http://www.NeutrogenaWave.com/
Electric toothbrush attachment:
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Have you ever had an orgasm?
As an orgasm approaches, your muscle tension increases and you may begin breathing harder and sweating a little. When it is about to begin, you may feel like you have to pee, but you won't. Then, it begins when the muscles in your lower abdomen tense involuntarily like when you're about to sneeze. Next, those same muscles begin contracting and relaxing involuntarily. With each contraction you feel incredible pleasure. You have about 10 contractions in about 10 seconds. After it is over, you will feel very happy, warm, and relaxed.
See also: http://coolnurse.healthology.com/teen-health/article1424.htm
Write me.
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Okay so my boyfriend and I have been dating for a few months and I'm 15 and he is 17 but we're really close with each other. When we hangout we make out and he'll feel me up and finger me but I never do anything other than kissing. This is both of our most serious relationships we've had. I feel like I should do something for him like a hand job but I'm not exactly sure how to. We've talked about having sex before, neither of us have done it, but we both want to. He just thinks we should do littler things first to make it less awkward and he has done just about everything when I've done nothing and he says "you can do stuff too" and I say "I know" and I feel awful because its new to me and idk what I'm doing. Please don't judge me anyone here! I would just like a step by step process of how to give a hand job, blow job, or any way to pleasure him that would be great! If anyone could give me some advice that would be greatly appreciated! :) thank you! Btw advice from woman and men would be great!! (link)
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Say, "I want to give you a hand job, but I don't know how. Would you teach me?" Have something like a clean sock or handkerchief read to catch his goo.
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So this is gonna sound really weird but im a girl and I have been masturbating for longer than I can remember. I can remember balling up my blanket at pre school and grinding against it at nap time. I can remember doing it in first grade while thinking about my crush and making up these fantasies in my head like playing doctor. But I was just a little kid!! I can remember finally learning that what I was doing was even called masturbation! The weird part is I've always know to keep it a secret. Before I even knew what it was I never told anyone about it and I knew to only do it when I was alone. I guess what I'm wondering is.. How did I know what this was? How did I learn about feeling horny and pleasure from doing this and thinking about boy and girl encounters before I even knew what sex was? And I knew all of these fantasies without thinking of sex happening in them but just knowing they made me horny. I'm 17 now and I still masturbate on a regular basis. I've never used my fingers I still just rub up against a little piece of balled up blanket. I've never had sex and I don't feel like a nympho or anything like that. Also when I do do this, I reach a sort of climax where it feels really good and then I wanna stop because I'm not horny anymore. This can't be an orgasm right? It's not intense at all it's just kind of like a second or two of pleasure and then I can't get aroused again. Plus it takes me like less than a minute to get there. Any ideas? (link)
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As an orgasm approaches, your muscle tension increases and you may begin breathing harder and sweating a little. When it is about to begin, you may feel like you have to pee, but you won't. Then, it begins when the muscles in your lower abdomen tense involuntarily like when you're about to sneeze. Next, those same muscles begin contracting and relaxing involuntarily. With each contraction you feel incredible pleasure. You have about 10 contractions in about 10 seconds. After it is over, you will feel very happy, warm, and relaxed.
See also: http://coolnurse.healthology.com/teen-health/article1424.htm
It is important to masturbate because it teaches you what brings you pleasure and what it feels like to get aroused and have an orgasm. When you eventually start having sexual intercourse, that knowledge will help you have a more satisfying experience.
The most popular ways are fingers, vibrator, dildo, Shower Massage, bathtub faucet, and humping a pillow. Most people start in their teen years, but a lucky few get started as early as 5 or 6 when they discover it by accident.
http://www.MyMasturbation.com
http://www.LetsMasturbate.com
http://www.Positive.org
http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/
http://www.healthystrokes.com/
http://teenadvice.about.com/od/sex/tp/common-teen-masturbation-questions.htm
Disguised vibrator:
http://www.NeutrogenaWave.com/
Electric toothbrush attachment:
https://www.smittenkittenonline.com/tingle-tip.html
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