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Make sex less painful


Question Posted Saturday January 8 2011, 2:57 pm

22/f

My boyfriend is in the military and I have not seen him in over 3 months. He is coming home soon on leave. I have always been "tight" down there and sex has always been painful for the first 5 minutes or so. Anyway this is the longest I have gone in a while so I know it will be really painful. Is there anything I can do to make this less painful? ..I do not want to masturbate. Thank you.

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Eek12672 answered Saturday April 27 2013, 5:10 pm:
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It is important to masturbate because it teaches you what brings you pleasure and what it feels like to get aroused and have an orgasm. When you eventually start having sexual intercourse, that knowledge will help you have a more satisfying experience.

The most popular ways are fingers, vibrator, dildo, Shower Massage, bathtub faucet, and humping a pillow. Most people start in their teen years, but a lucky few get started as early as 5 or 6 when they discover it by accident.

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julie75 answered Saturday January 8 2011, 9:12 pm:
I'm not sure of your reasoning behind not wanting to masturbate but that would be your best bet. If you can find 2 different size dildos (1 small & 1 a little larger) it would help expand your vagina and make it easier to accept his penis. Your boyfriend would probably be turned on, knowing that you know how to please yourself. He may even want to use them on you during foreplay. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. Hope this helps and good luck,

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