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Masturbation doesn't feel as good as I think it should?
I am a seventeen year old female. I am still a virgin. I want to have sex but have not had the opportunity to do so, unfortunately. I don't masturbate very often, because when I do it doesn't feel as good as I want it to. I want to know why this is. I can only do it for a certain amount of time before i just get impatient with the fact that I want it to be better. Unfortunately I don't have a dildo, so i can only use my hand.. which doesn't seem to work well enough. What should i do?
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Fingers are all you need!
In fact, if you hump something, you don't even need fingers.
It is important to masturbate because it teaches you what brings you pleasure and what it feels like to get aroused and have an orgasm. When you eventually start having sexual intercourse, that knowledge will help you have a more satisfying experience.
The most popular ways are fingers, vibrator, dildo, Shower Massage, bathtub faucet, and humping a pillow. Most people start in their teen years, but a lucky few get started as early as 5 or 6 when they discover it by accident.
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Disguised vibrator:
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Just keep at it. Explore yourself and in time you will find what feels good.
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Masturbation is a time to explore your body and learn what you like and what you don't like. You need privacy and should not have to rush. It really is a form of self foreplay to learn what turns you on, what parts of your body give you a sexual turn on. So masturbation does not or should not be limited to only your sex organ.
Below is a link I found when I typed the following in to a search engine, How should a female masturbate. You could type the same or any derivative of this into a search engine to learn more about masturbation and how to enjoy yourself.
There is nothing wrong with masturbation. In one article I looked at it stated 92 % of all women masturbated. Masturbation is a safe way to relieve sexual tension. as I said privacy is important. You may wan to set a mood with scented candles and romantic music.
Lock you bedroom do so as you are not intruded on. Then get undressed if you want and relax on your bed and let your hand explore your body.
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try not looking at masterbating as "feeling good"and "getting something from it"cause youl neva get there.relax and think of it as exploration...if something happends it happends if it dosent dont worry it will sometime.
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