Hello! My boyfriend and I were watching a movie when some heavy petting occurred. Eventually he started fingering me but stopped because it was too painful for me. Instead he massaged my clitoris. During that time period I was giving him a hand job, I got a bit of pre-cum on my fingertips. Now after that I can't remember which hand I used, it was either the one with the pre-cum or the one without -its been killing both him and I to remember- but anyways, I used the hand to adjust his hand that was playing with my clit. My finger accidentally slipped and I touched my clitoris area (surrounding area) with the fingers that may have been covered in pre-cum. Yes, I was wet. But is it possible that I may become pregnant?
Technically it is possible but highly unlikely.
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i have never had an orgasam during sex or hit my g-spot what is the best way to hit your g-spot and have an orgasam during sex
Look up the female anatomy and you may be astonished at what you find out. I did alot of research when i was younger because i too had climax problems. Moreso my ex's fault because he didnt know how to please me.
The first time i reached orgasm was in the missionary position, there needs to be alot of grinding so that your partners pubic bone area rubs on your clitoris. It needs to be consistant or the feeling will start to deminish.
Have a talk to your sexual partner about him finding your g-spot. It is against the front wall of the vagina and apparently it feels like a squishy little bean. It is highly unlikely that he can reach it with his penis, so it will have to be digitally.
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My boyfriend has called me his ex name three times what should I do?
Sometimes it can be just out of pure habit. I was in a 5 year relationship with someone and jumped straight into another and said my ex's name a couple of times. Same thing with my bf, he called me his ex's name once and i shrugged it off because i know he'd been with her for 7 years. If you love him, give him time. Tell him it upsets you and he may try harder to avoid it.
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19/F
I have the feeling that I may be pregnant, but it isn't confirmed yet because I have yet to miss my period. But I have been feeling very strange the past couple of weeks. The only reason I am concerned is because I have been off the birth control pill for the past month and I am a smoker.. so if I am, I wanna make sure to quit! Some of the signs/symptoms that I have been feeling include: exhaustion (always tired, no matter how much I sleep), nausea (but no vomiting) at different times of the day, dizziness anytime i stand up (or go from laying down to sitting up), always feeling full (even if I hardly eat anything), pain/cramping in my lower abdomen (almost like period pains, but worse), very sore back and stomach (like my muscles always feel sore), mood swings, getting emotional more than normal, and a very hard stomach area.
I've looked around online to different symptoms and such, and I fit a few of them, but others I do not.. and since I haven't missed my period yet (I'm supposed to get it this sunday) I'm not certain if these are just some effects of going off the pill, that I could be pregnant, or that it's something else. I also have some pregnancy tests, but they are the type that suggest taking them after a missed period to ensure accuracy.
So if you have any insight or suggestions on what my symptoms may reveal, that would be amazing :)
If you are yet to miss your period, chances are you are not pregnant or it hasnt been long enough since conception that you would miss it. In saying that, the symptoms you have described are unlikely to be pregnancy related. They are most likely related to stopping birth control. If you are trying to get pregnant you should really quit smoking now because the most vunerable time for a growing 'baby' is in the first few weeks before you even know that its there.
If you want to take the test, you can, but do it first thing in the morning when the pregnancy hormone concentration in your urine would be higher.
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So like7 months ago my ex was nagging at me for weeks to send him a photo of myself in underwear. He started to be really moody and kind of arrogant when I said I wouldn't do it and I felt like I had to for us to stay friends and it kind of made me feel special because he's one of the popular good looking guys and I'm just one of those quiet girls that people forget about, so I regrettably sent him one and I cam honestly say its the worst thing I've ever done, EVER. I was so paranoid afterwards (I'm extremely shy anyway and have never had any intention of flaunting my body because I have really low self confidence) anyway, just today my friend told me someone who I thought was my friend was telling my ex's bestfriend and another girl! My friend said they were whispering but she heard that one of them already knew and she'd seen it. I don't know when or how this girl has seen it or who else has because I honestly thought he had deleted it and I still don't know if he has but I feel awful and I just want to cry because I'm so scared it will effect my education.. my GCSE'S start this week too and its like my whole life is going wrong:(I need some advice,I just need someone to talk to and give me some help please, thanks anyway
First af all you need to know that you have participated in the distrubution of child porn (assuming you're a minor). You need to contact the police and tell them the story. It is likely that you will not be charged, as it seems you were bullied into it. If you have texts or anything from him asking for the picture you need to show them to authorities and they can force him to delete the photo from his phone and they can find out if he has sent it to anyone else and have them delete it too. It seems as though you have learnt a valuable lesson here. Also, this guy is a loser.
If it were me, i would go online, search for a photo of a really small penis, download it to my phone and tell him that if he doesnt delete it you will show everyone the photo and tell them that it is him. Revenge is sweet my friend.
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how to commit suiside the easyiest way.
Your doctor will have all the information you need on this issue. Go speak to them about it and everything will be resolved.
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My boobs have been sore for the past week or so now really bad. Wearing a bra hurts it's the inner bottom of them, and on the sides so if your looking at me, it's the bottom of each boob and on my right boob it's sore on the bottom up to the left side and the left boob on the bottom up to the right side. Idk why this is. I just can't wait to like get my bra off each day because of it. I'm not on my period or anything, idk what it could be.
Please help.
17/f
Pregnancy, hormone imbalance caused by birth control, certain times of the month, wrong size bra... All those can cause pain and discomfort. Make sure you feel for any lumps or changes though as pain can be caused by that too...
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My boyfriend have been dating for almost 10 months now, and he's amazing... so funny and respectful and sweet and selfless. He does everything for me and pours out his heart everyday for me. He cried over me once and I felt so horrible for hurting his feelings because I've never really heard a guy cry before...
Lately I've been getting so annoyed with him at things I'd usually find hilarious and cute. I am so irritated at him today that I've almost said, "I'm done" several times... but I get all teary eyed when I think of being without him. I really do love him, I just can feel that I haven't been myself lately and he's annoying me...and I feel so bad because I know he would never say anything so hurtful to me.. I told him he was irritating me so we could talk it out, and he got so upset.
I'm just sick of fighting with him over every little thing. Sure, I'm neurotic and he puts up with me, but this is just aggravating. I love him so much, but I feel like I don't deserve him and I'm so close to the point of leaving him because of how mean I am to him sometimes.
What do you think I should do? Stay or go?
Life is short. If you're unhappy just get out. Go work on yourself for a while...
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I am from India.I have been married for 3 years. everytime when we both have sex sperm does not go completely into my vagina. sperm remains at the wall of vagina.I want to become pregnant.please assist me so that sperm travels through my ovary and i can become pregnant.
Sperm can travel a long way on its own. Perhaps do some research on reproduction, as you seem slightly uninformed.
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this sounds pathetic but i am a 16 year old virgin, and all my friends go out drinking all the time, and alwayd get new clothes, i dont know where they get all their money from, but i was thinking, i have the confidence! i might become a prostitute to earn some extra cash to join in with the things my friends do, what do you think?
OMFG are you serious??? Go get a real job!!! You really want to let men (sometimes dirty old smelly drunk men) do whatever they want to you just so you can keep up with your friends??
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I am taking contraceptive pills prescribed by doctor for hormonal balance since a month. My periods are due and I am getting brown thick discharge, so can it be considered as first day of period? As I am supposed to start the next cycle of pills on the first day of periods.
Brown is just old blood. Technically yes it is your period.
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I'm sorry for the length, but please help me. I NEED help.
So, hi! I had a treatment twice(i'm sorry, I don't know the name. Let's just call it treatment 1.) and they put a thing in my vagina. I think they called it a catheder, but it didn't look like one. It was a long, clear tube. Anyways, I had that treatment twice, now. And my parents told me I had to do it again. Well, I had a procedure(I don't know what this is called ;-( let's call it treatment 2.) where they put a pebble thing in(Or on) my vagina and they put me FULLY asleep. I'm afraid the treatment 2 will make the treatment 1 hurt more. The treatment 1 hurt a lot but it hurt worse the second time.
And I think when I didn't tighten my vagina(if you know what I mean) it didn't hurt as much. What do I do? I don't want to do this! My parents are forcing me to. They keep saying it's my last treatment but.. Uhhh! By the way, i'm not pregnant or it's not puberty. Please help as soon as you can!:(
This seems strange to me. I have never heard of anything like it. If it was done at a proper doctors surgery then obviously it is something that is necessary otherwise it wouldnt have to be performed. You must ask questions such as why is this necessary and wht are the alternatives and what would happen if i did not do this. It is your body and your choice. I am very curious as to what is going on here. Something seems odd...
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my 11 year old niece says that her 12 year old boyfriend raped another girl while they were dating and i am trying to get her to tell someone but she says she does not want to be a snitch and i think she is to young to have a boyfriend but her mom does not want to listen to me and this girl she told me about has started her period when when she was 10 what should I do? I can't go to the school because the girl does not go to my niece's school i am afraid the girl could be pregnant at 11 years old and that is a scary thought please help.
Contact the police. If it is true then there is an 11 year old girl out there who needs some help.
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My boyfriend and i have been together for 18 months so far, and we've been so happy. Although we are both content with each other, for some reason i feel more emotionally attached because I am a girl and I read that females release oxytocin while having sex..
i don't want to change him or anything but is there anything i can do to help him get emotionally attached like me? maybe he is, but i want to do something that will increase it.
I don't want to just ask him if he's attached to me. haha i mean, if we've been sexually involved for 18 months would you think he is? and is there anymore i can do to help increase his oxyticin?
I read that giving him a back massage could do the trick
and i also read about making out, oxytocin is transferred between two people.
does oral sex help men get attached?
like what causes men to get attached to their gf/spouse?
oh, and i'm also confused about receiveing and releasing oxytocin. tell me if i'm wrong but the way i read it, it sounds to me that girls receive oxytocin from their boyfriend after giving oral sex because semen is digested by the girl, therefore the hormone is in them? and also while having sex because semen is released in a woman during sex because semen goes inside the vagina.
but a guy can't receive a hormone after fingering a girl..? haha so if a guy gives oral sex to a girl can they receive it because a girl releases oxytocin when she cums and then he will consume her cum and get attached?
and does wearing a condom help prevent oxytocin from releasing?
i'm SO confused obviously.
i'm just really confused and if someone would just explain this all it would be highly appreciated :)
thanks guys:) i know it's a weird question but bare with me & my curiousity.
OK, well firstly there is no way to force him to become attached to you. If you have been with him for 18 months, im pretty sure he loves you. Isnt that enough?
Oxytocin is a hormone released by your own brain into your body in times of bliss or pleasure. It gives you feelings of happiness.
The feeling you have described is love/lust. It doesnt really have anything to do with the hormone released during sex.
The only way to know how he feels about you is to ask him. Or if he says he loves you then you know...
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Hi im a 23 year old guy, I used to be life and soul of the party, always out, always one of the jokers of the pack etc. The last 3 or 4 years things have been slowly going down hill, sometime i work like 15 hours a day, and dont get overtime for it but i do it to help out family, im currently off work due to depression, and im really scared i wont be able to provide for my fiance and 6 month old son. Things are really bad for me at the moment, and I feel so useless and worthless, I dont even like being around people anymore, and am a compete mess, twice this week ive picked up a knife and gone to slice my wrists and bottled it at the last minute, I have coucelling in the next few weeks, but if that doesn't work then I dont think ill be able to get through this, someone please help me
You need to see someone now to get yourself sorted out. I have experienced feelings of depression and contemplated suicide a few times myself and looking back, im so glad i didnt. You WILL come through this and you will look back and be grateful that you got help. Take things one day at a time and remember that this is only temporary. There is currently a chemical imbalance in your brain and you will most likely need to be medicated for a period of time. Your son needs a father. My father took his own like when i was 10 years old and i feel like i have been robbed of so many experiences. My children will never know their grandfather, and i wont have him be at my wedding all because he wouldnt wait for help... this is something that can be fixed.
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I had sex 10 days ago unprotected. My period should have started 7 days ago. I just took the ept home pregnancy test today and it showed not pregnant. As far as I've read 10 days should be enough time for it to show up on a test. What are the reasons that it wouldn't? Could conception have been too close to my period for it to have taken? If so why haven't I had my period yet? Any insight on any of this would be helpful!
(23/f, my man and I are trying for a family so no lectures on protected sex please!)
Thanks
It depends on the time of day you took the test. The best time is as soon as you wake up as there is more of the pregnancy hormone in you urine. You just need to remember that you're at your most fertile 14 days after the first day of your last period and can be fertile for 2 or 3 days. Also, sperm can survive inside you for up to 7 days. So using all that information, you can figure out how likely you are to be pregnant.
Trying to get pregnant can be very stressful and it can screw with your cycle. Just try not to worry about it too much and you will be pregnant in no time. Good luck!!
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Am a 16yr old , she's 16 too...we went out on 2dates so far but ummm can someone tell me how 2 ask her on a third one? We in the same skool she never comes and talks 2 me neither do i go n' talk 2 her but all we do is eye contact all riecess long , we chat alot too but i like her so much :/ not sure if she likes me back :/ 2dates,chat mostly every night , no talk in school at all , eye contact all the time , she told me alot abt herself like alot! But i jst told her some stuff :/ ddnt tell her dat i rly rly like her cz not sure if she does i want u guyz 2 try thinkin if she does like me or not?
If she's telling you things about herself and taking the time to chat to you every night then she is definitely interested...! Just bite the bullet and say to her during one of your chat sessions something about another date and see what she says... Its always alot easier to type than to speak so i think thats the best way.
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okay well my ex-boyfriend and i broke up but then i moved on after 1 month so now he feels the right to call me a slut and a whore and posts facebook status about me being a slut well i really need help with this because i want to hurt him but i want to be the mature one here but i dont think i can hold it anymore so i just need to know what to say to him so he can just leave me a lone
Well you could take the high road and ignore him... OR.. you could start telling people he has a small penis or he's a really really bad kisser.. Or if you just say to him, "look, take back what you said or i'll start saying you tried to get in my pants but it was too small"...
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Basically, im a 16 year old girl who one night decided to go to a party that my mom did not know about. I told her i was staying at a friends and ended up stranded, so i stayed at a boys house with a few of his football friends. I ended up getting really drunk and one of the boys, who i do not know, forced me onto the sofa, unbuttoned my trousers and fingered me against my will. I tried everything to get him off but i was too drunk so i started to cry, he then said if i tell everyone hes going to start rumours about me. What do i do?
Go to the police!! What he did was wrong. They will tell you that you were wrong for underage drinking but they wont charge you for it as you are a victim. If he starts spreading rumours about you all you need to do is tell them that he sexually assulted you and you're having him charged which has made him angry and causing him to lash out. When they find him guilty he will be considered a sex offender and its quite possible that he wont even get the opportunity to spread any rumours as he will be incarcerated!!
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Hey. Im jasmine and im 15 im a sophomore in highschool i lost my virginity last year as a freshman and ill be honest i didnt use protection. as a result i didnt get pregnant at all as many times as me and my bf dont use them the last time i had sex was roughly 8 months ago ive been tested and im clean. one question am i lucky ??or what?? answer??
You are very very lucky.. And very stupid!! Get on the pill or you'll be just another statistic making all us other hard working young parents look stupid!!!
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