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My parents are forcing me to do a treatment that i've done twice.


Question Posted Wednesday April 25 2012, 6:05 pm

I'm sorry for the length, but please help me. I NEED help. 

So, hi! I had a treatment twice(i'm sorry, I don't know the name. Let's just call it treatment 1.) and they put a thing in my vagina. I think they called it a catheder, but it didn't look like one. It was a long, clear tube. Anyways, I had that treatment twice, now. And my parents told me I had to do it again. Well, I had a procedure(I don't know what this is called ;-( let's call it treatment 2.) where they put a pebble thing in(Or on) my vagina and they put me FULLY asleep. I'm afraid the treatment 2 will make the treatment 1 hurt more. The treatment 1 hurt a lot but it hurt worse the second time. 
And I think when I didn't tighten my vagina(if you know what I mean) it didn't hurt as much. What do I do? I don't want to do this! My parents are forcing me to. They keep saying it's my last treatment but.. Uhhh! By the way, i'm not pregnant or it's not puberty. Please help as soon as you can!:(


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xkatiex answered Sunday May 6 2012, 9:01 pm:
This seems strange to me. I have never heard of anything like it. If it was done at a proper doctors surgery then obviously it is something that is necessary otherwise it wouldnt have to be performed. You must ask questions such as why is this necessary and wht are the alternatives and what would happen if i did not do this. It is your body and your choice. I am very curious as to what is going on here. Something seems odd...

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pluripotency answered Thursday April 26 2012, 11:13 pm:
If you're old enough to be concerned about the invasiveness of your treatments, then in my opinion old enough to be explained to like an adult what these treatments are for. When they sit down and talk with you about what's going on in your body (whether your doctor or your parents or both), make sure you pay attention and fully understand why these treatments are important for you to have. Ask questions like "What would happen to me if I didn't have this done?" "Are there any less invasive alternatives for this type of treatment?" Always ask your doctors questions. They went to school for (probably) longer than you've been alive precisely to answer even the toughest questions you can present them with. Also, when it comes to your health, medicine, treatment procedures, etc, there are no silly, "dumb", or obvious questions.

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