Member Since: April 26, 2012
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Last Update: April 29, 2012
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I'm a 16 year old female who was sexually abused two weeks ago, and knows about the pain and awful trauma that follows. My abuser is in jail, and I feel good knowing he won't do it again. Last night, a 19 year old guy kept on asking me to have sex with him, and he was very inappropriate and not giving up, even after I told him I was a virgin. He later apologized when I told him I was calling the police, cuz he was really scared. I feel if I don't tell on him, he might actually hurt other girls, and I don't want to take responsibility for that. But he didn't actually do anything. Should I tell on him? I don't want to ruin his life... (link)
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This doesn't happen to most women all the time like this. Twice in a month? Come on. You're teasing these men getting them excited over you, and then telling them no. Try covering up your breasts next time you're at a party lol.
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My boyfriend wants me to move in with him. But I'm nervous. Other than the fact that culturally, many people won't accept a girl and a boy moving in together until they are married, there's:
- bathroom issues. Like after I go, I'm not gonna lie. It smells really bad. And also, I have a retainer. Sure its alright not to wear it for one night but I can't stop wearing it once I move in!
- I'm a virgin. Now I don't plan to like wait until marriage but really if I'm going to lose it then it will most likely be when we are living together. Not sure if that's a good thing or a bad thing but we are still in school so I don't want it to be like a sex fest 24/7!
- What if I fart or say something embarrassing, etc when I sleep?!
- And there were so many more inquiries/issues that I had thought about but I can't remember it right now.
What is your take on this and please explain your experiences on living with your loved one. Obviously farting is natural and by the time married couples have kids its like nothing but i just don't know! (link)
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You're not 100% comfortable with him, so you should not move in with him.
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So I'm 13 and so is this guy I like he is also 13.he touches me every where my boobs my pussy and my butt.he says that he would fuck me any time any where and any place.he does this all in class. He has also gotten hard right in front of my face in front of class.he said that he wants to fuck me and that if I don't have sex with him that he would rape me in the end of the school year before we go to high school.Well he just makes me so horny that I just wanna have sex with him ?what should I do,he makes me get wet and makes me get on top of his body.whatshould I do ? Should I just lose it already? (link)
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Don't do it.
If you do, make sure you look at all these answers again and then you'll understand what we're trying to say. Maybe it can be a life learning experience for you.
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I'm sorry for the length, but please help me. I NEED help.
So, hi! I had a treatment twice(i'm sorry, I don't know the name. Let's just call it treatment 1.) and they put a thing in my vagina. I think they called it a catheder, but it didn't look like one. It was a long, clear tube. Anyways, I had that treatment twice, now. And my parents told me I had to do it again. Well, I had a procedure(I don't know what this is called ;-( let's call it treatment 2.) where they put a pebble thing in(Or on) my vagina and they put me FULLY asleep. I'm afraid the treatment 2 will make the treatment 1 hurt more. The treatment 1 hurt a lot but it hurt worse the second time.
And I think when I didn't tighten my vagina(if you know what I mean) it didn't hurt as much. What do I do? I don't want to do this! My parents are forcing me to. They keep saying it's my last treatment but.. Uhhh! By the way, i'm not pregnant or it's not puberty. Please help as soon as you can!:( (link)
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If you're old enough to be concerned about the invasiveness of your treatments, then in my opinion old enough to be explained to like an adult what these treatments are for. When they sit down and talk with you about what's going on in your body (whether your doctor or your parents or both), make sure you pay attention and fully understand why these treatments are important for you to have. Ask questions like "What would happen to me if I didn't have this done?" "Are there any less invasive alternatives for this type of treatment?" Always ask your doctors questions. They went to school for (probably) longer than you've been alive precisely to answer even the toughest questions you can present them with. Also, when it comes to your health, medicine, treatment procedures, etc, there are no silly, "dumb", or obvious questions.
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