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how am i not pregnant??
Hey. Im jasmine and im 15 im a sophomore in highschool i lost my virginity last year as a freshman and ill be honest i didnt use protection. as a result i didnt get pregnant at all as many times as me and my bf dont use them the last time i had sex was roughly 8 months ago ive been tested and im clean. one question am i lucky ??or what?? answer??
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You are very very lucky.. And very stupid!! Get on the pill or you'll be just another statistic making all us other hard working young parents look stupid!!!
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Yeah, lucky. Couples are not considered infertile until they've been trying to get pregnant for a year and fail. Trying being unprotected sex several times a week at least for that time period.
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a lot of people had kids by mistake in the past, and now I think that their mistakes are only making worse mistakes. only 20% of fertilization turns around a pregnancy quite, and frankly you sound like a moron who should be neutered you sick fuck.
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You could be very luck, but frankly I don't think you or anyone else could be that lucky.
Most likely one of you is infertile. Now that you are over 14 you can visit a gynecologist, which you should have been doing on a yearly basis since your period started, without parental permission or a parent being with you. This is your right specifically afford women under a law called HIPPA which is a federal law.
This law affords you total medical confidentiality. Meaning anything you say to your doctor stays with your doctor. Any exam and treatment rendered is confidential and cannot be discussed with anyone including your parents. Your doctor needs your written permission to discuss you medical condition with your parents when it comes to your reproductive health and much of the rest of your health issues as well.
The same is true for your boyfriend in visiting a urologist to check on his reproductive heath which is what I am advising both of you do. Most likely factor for a male is low sperm count. For a female there are a number of different factors most all of of them not life-threatening that can make conception difficult.
Only a GYN for you and a Urologist for him is the only way to find out who is the problem, if there is a problem. Now while your young is the time to find out so if there is a problem for either of you. If correction is possible it is easier on you while you are young.
Still using condoms during intercourse is always the best course for avoiding accidental pregnancy.
Both you and your boyfriend need to see doctors to find out for sure.
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Please don't worry yourself about this and start using protection. 15 is too young to start a family. It is extremely hard and you will be very unhappy losing your childhood to raise another child. I'm married and almost 32 and I promise you that pregnancy, labor and the early years of raising children is the hardest job physically, mentally, and emotionally one will ever have to go through. Don't live on your past luck because it can and most likely will run out. Give yourself the best start possible PLEASE. I'm sure you and your boyfriend are just fine physically and I wouldn't worry about having yet to get pregnant. Being very young your body just may not be ready to carry a child.
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I would consider yourself very lucky, If I were you I would start using protection or else your luck could run out and at 15 you don't need a pregnancy.
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You can either be very lucky, or you might not be able to have kids/have a hard time conceiving. That or your boyfriend could be sterile. To found out if kids are possible for either of you, you should go to the doctor and get checked for that kind of thing. In the mean time, don't press your luck, rubbers are your friend.
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