So im a female of 16 years, and recently I tried too masturbate, but i didnt reach orgasm, is there any way of being able to reach orgasm while masturbating? Is there ah best way too masturbate? I wanted to ask my boyfriend to finger me for the first time, but im scared i wont be in pleasure, or wont find it pleasing. What can i do?
The most popular ways are fingers, vibrator, dildo, Shower Massage, bathtub faucet, and humping a pillow. Most people start in their teen years, but a lucky few get started as early as 5 or 6 when they discover it by accident.
orphans answered Saturday April 14 2012, 1:45 pm: Hello,
Masturbation is a very personal thing, and only you know what will stimulate you. Explore your body, and figure out what you like. Just experiment.
In regards to you boyfriend, just try to relax. Try to enjoy yourself, and you may enjoy it, as it's someone else rather than you. If you don't enjoy it, don't pretend, and tell him the truth. Its not something to be worried about: its totally natural.
solidadvice4teens answered Saturday April 14 2012, 1:45 pm: We can't give how-to info or tips for obvious reasons. The best I can say is continue to explore your own body to find what works.
Everyone is different however, the clitoris is where all the nerve endings are and only function is pleasure. Also, if you relax and aren't distracted that yields better results. As for your boyfriend doing this to you wait until you are 100% comfortable doing this alone. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
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