Try to avoid strong, perfumed, chemically typed products. This can be irritating, and can cause infections, rashes, etc etc.
There are a wide range of water based lubricants available at stores. Durex, and other companies produce good ones. You can find these near the condoms/ sexual health section.
You could try using a natural, organic lotion. I'm not sure if this would infect, but I doubt it. But purpose made lubricants should be used if possible.
solidadvice4teens answered Thursday April 12 2012, 11:38 pm: You shouldn't use anything that has perfume in it around your genitals. Not only will they feel irritated you can get an infection. Use KY or a water based lubricant meant to be applied to this area. That's not harmful and as long as you aren't hurting anyone or yourself the behavior is okay.
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