im starting to feel like im one of those women that never orgasm
Question Posted Monday June 20 2011, 12:45 am
im 18/f and my boyfriend is 19/m
Im starting to worry that i may be in that percentage range of women that never experience the pleasure of an orgasm.
Even when i masturbate, yes it feels good but nothing 'wow'
and i dont go in with the intention of having or trying to get an orgasm, mostly just to relax.
my boyfriend has tried everything, and its reaching that point that we're both feeling bad about it. I can get him off, make him cum everytime, yet he cant do the same for me. He's more determined then ever to find my 'spot' and to be able to make me feel how he feels when i pleasure him. But im worried that he wont and that he will feel not good enough.
Dont get me wrong, when im intimate with my boyfriend i dont do it with the intention of getting an orgasm. What he does, does feel really good, but yet ive never cum or anything.. Im extremely turned on and wet, so its not that im dry down there or anything. i just dont want him to feel anything less then amazing
maggielawson answered Friday June 24 2011, 10:04 pm: yes definitely try a vibrator, or some porn....if that don't work then let him feel around in you and see if he can find that spot, don't worry stuff like this is normal...i hope i helped(:
heather21 answered Monday June 20 2011, 3:09 pm: get a vibrator. to start put it in your clit. that should def make you go. you have to sometimes really think hard about it. when i could tell i wasnt going to orgasm i would make my boyfriend go really slow in me so it made me think about it more untill i could feel it building up then he would start giong normal. try watching porn or a movie with a sex scene. this happened to my friend too so dont worry and she finally just started having sex and having an orgasm. also you should try and get a type of creme you can get on pure romance. com or a sex store and it makes your clit more sensitive. [ heather21's advice column | Ask heather21 A Question ]
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