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It's a one way deal situation
So I started dating this guy, I really like him. He's best friends with my best friend's boy friend. Well I used to date this other guy and he was also best friends with my best friend's boyfriend. and it was so much fun when we would all hang out us four, because we were all friends. Well My current boyfriend gets offended easily and easily gets mad. Well his best friend said something rude to me, but that's just how we are, we kind of are just rude to one another. He called me a bitch and my boyfriend took is super serious and now he won't talk to either of them.
The other night his parents went out of town and he threw a party. Him and a bunch of his friends basically sat around and got high for three hours straight after he told me he was gonna try and quit. Well I sat there and dealt with it, because I knew if I left he'd be upset. Last night I thought I'd ask him if he wanted to go into the mountains with myself and friends to have a fire and watch the stars. He got all upset and asked "Ugh? Why? Do I have to?" He freaked out and got upset about it so I told him to just forget I even asked. This isn't the first time, he always does this when I want to do something but I always go along with it when he wants do something. I really like this guy and I don't want to have to break up with him over something so small if it is fixable. So, what should I do and or say to him? I'm not sure what to say to him, since I asked him yesterday he hasn't talked to me and I haven't tried talking to him. It really worries me since we usually send each other about ten text messages a day since we both work. But we both have work off today and it's just been bugging me. What do I do or say without getting him angry? He gets upset easily..
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okay i feel you but if you are keep sacrificing your time to do whatever he wants then i feel like he should sacrifice some things you want to do in a relationship its suppose to be 50 50 that means both of you guys should give each other the same respect and treat each other euqally and if you really like him then thats you but its only so much a girl can take from a guy so my suggestion to you is talk to him and yhall need to discuss yhall likes and dislikes about each other and what each other do
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Well I can't say I've been in this situation. But I've had multiple friends in this situation. The best to do, is kinda make him feel bad. I know this sounds like I'm trying to say play him. But no, its just what you have to do with touchy people.I'm not saying go on a full out episode. But what worked with my friend is she just let her emotions go. How the whole thing went really, was she asked him to go somewhere and her boyfriend gave the same response.I guess she was sitting close to him. And what really got to him to realize what he was doing was, was the way she responded to him. I guess you could say she 'meekly' said okay and scooted away from him. And hes said this allot of times and she got really down and started to cry a little. of course he asked whats wrong. Her response was something along the lines of 'Its just i seem like im not good enough, you never seem interested in anything i mention.
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