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If a guy looks you in the eye, what does it mean? (link)
he's really listening to you and he pay attention and cares about what you saying and really likes you


i'm 17 weeks pregnant .. i have a girls name but no idea for a boys name .. any ideas ?? not too common though :)

thanks in advance (link)
Mason
Logan
Jacob
Nathan
Ryan
Gavin
Nicolas
Andrew
Austin
Michael
Anthony
Dymarcus
Gadarius
Kevin


My boyfriend and I get invited to the same parties, and he tells me that he doesn't want me there, so I don't go (even though i really want to), and he does go. When i say that i am going to a party he is also invited to, he will say he doesn't want to go. Should i take a hint from this or not? It just makes me feel like he doesn't want to spend time with me. Also, we have gone to parties together and it was fine, so? (link)
i want to say he's cheating but im not sure and Y not go if you really wanted to its your mind and your body and if you feel like you want to go and he says no then go put on your party clothes and go dont let no man tell you what you can and can not do so the next time its a party and you want to go and he say no just look at him and laugh


Ok first off
Me: 15/F
Her: 14/F

We got together last year on the 26th December and today she said that she cant take the emotions of a serious relationship when she is this young. She sayd that we're are both to young but she still loves me. She said to wait until she is older (16-ish) or has left high school (18) I love her so much. I will wait until she is ready. She is my first, my one and only true love and I told her I will wait. But I know its gonna be really hard for me. I leave highschool at 16 so ill be introduced to new people after that. I know it's gonna be really hard for me. Has anyone got any advice for me? All advice is loved. (link)
your first love is alwys going to be your hardest but if you both say you love each other that much it wouldn't hurt to wait for each other if you really love her you would do what is best for both of you and if she feels like she wants to wait and you love her then you will have to wait true love =wait


I'm just wondering, is it against the law to hit a girl? Because there is this girl in my class who i wanna smack, would i get in trouble? If it helps i live in Ontario, Canada. Thanks (link)
if its not against the law you dont ever put your hands on a girl no matter how mad she make you just stay your distances from her and if she say or do anything to you just walk away because what she trying to do is get you in trouble and you got to be stronger than that and walk away


I'm 17 turning 18 in September and I'm from NY. Early in 2010, my mom decided she wanted to move to North Carolina to move in with her parents (my grandparents) so she could save up money, have less expenses, etc, so that she could put a down payment on a house a few years later. I said I would attend college down there and so that was kind of the plan, and my grandparents were excited and everything. And, well, as the time closely approaches I have been having second thoughts about wanting to go. The first thing is the cost of an out of state college, I can't afford it so I can't start down there right away anyway because I am not a resident and they would charge me A LOT of money for it. So I can't start it right away anyway (dont qualify for help). Another thing is my friends. I will miss them terribly. And mostly everyone's going to the local community college! And my boyfriend's here too. DOn't get me wrong, I know the whole friends/boyfriend thing is stupid to miss but I will, I'm young, of course I'm going to miss them. One other thing about moving down there would mean I'd have to share a room with my mom :/, what teenager wants to do that? Anyway, overall, I told my mom that I want to stay here, and her best friend said I could live with her and attend the communtiy college, etc. My mom, of course, said "no" because "your 17, your staying with me until your 18. then you can do whatever you want." So, unfortunately, I have to go down there from August-end of October (when my bday hits), then I'm coming back up. The dilemma is, however, how do I tell my grandparents that I want to come back to NY? they were all excited and I feel really bad! How do I tell them that I changed my mind about wanting to stay there and that I'm going back to NY? It's not like im going back up and doing nothing. I'm getting a job and going to school. I'll visit them of course. Please help!!
Thankyou (link)
okay I know you dont want to hurt your grandparents feeling but you are a grown adult and if you sit down and talk to them about why you are moving back they will understand tell them your going to visit and make sure when you do leave send them all your love and leave them letting them know that you will be alright


However lately I've had a lot on my mind.. For one my dad's health is getting worse everyday and there's no hope of him getting better because everything is a big joke to him... He just found out he had diabetes. My sis has cancer and 5 babies... My mom is as stressed as I am and she works 50-60 hours a week so she's not really here for me to talk to about stuff. I'm in college and I work part time and that's my only outlet.. I don't have tons of friends, but I'm just in over my head... Help, I need somebody.. HELP, not just anybody!! (link)
your life is hard but that doesnt mean give up you are in college and you work thats great support your family to the fullest no matter how hard life may get it up to you to keep your head up and move on with your life cause at the end of the day you will always be you no matter what and you continue to take care of your family and so what if you dont have friends you dont need them because there just in the way and you have your family them all the friends you need and you have me so if you have any further questions feel free to ask me


So I started dating this guy, I really like him. He's best friends with my best friend's boy friend. Well I used to date this other guy and he was also best friends with my best friend's boyfriend. and it was so much fun when we would all hang out us four, because we were all friends. Well My current boyfriend gets offended easily and easily gets mad. Well his best friend said something rude to me, but that's just how we are, we kind of are just rude to one another. He called me a bitch and my boyfriend took is super serious and now he won't talk to either of them.
The other night his parents went out of town and he threw a party. Him and a bunch of his friends basically sat around and got high for three hours straight after he told me he was gonna try and quit. Well I sat there and dealt with it, because I knew if I left he'd be upset. Last night I thought I'd ask him if he wanted to go into the mountains with myself and friends to have a fire and watch the stars. He got all upset and asked "Ugh? Why? Do I have to?" He freaked out and got upset about it so I told him to just forget I even asked. This isn't the first time, he always does this when I want to do something but I always go along with it when he wants do something. I really like this guy and I don't want to have to break up with him over something so small if it is fixable. So, what should I do and or say to him? I'm not sure what to say to him, since I asked him yesterday he hasn't talked to me and I haven't tried talking to him. It really worries me since we usually send each other about ten text messages a day since we both work. But we both have work off today and it's just been bugging me. What do I do or say without getting him angry? He gets upset easily.. (link)
okay i feel you but if you are keep sacrificing your time to do whatever he wants then i feel like he should sacrifice some things you want to do in a relationship its suppose to be 50 50 that means both of you guys should give each other the same respect and treat each other euqally and if you really like him then thats you but its only so much a girl can take from a guy so my suggestion to you is talk to him and yhall need to discuss yhall likes and dislikes about each other and what each other do


Ok so Im Gracie and Im 13. So I just got my period a couples of months ago, this is like my 3rd time. Anyway whenever I get my period For some reason I just feel really dirty or weird so I take lots of baths when Im on it. Everytime I take a bath or a shower I never,like bleed when Im in the water. Is that normal? I mean Im not complaining, Id rather not have blood everywhere (I know that's gross, sorry lol) but I was just wondering why. If I go swimming will the same thing happen? Will all the blood just stay inside me? (link)
okay i just started my period to and i dont bleed in the shower or tub either but i've never tried going swimming while on my period so sorry i cant help you with this problem but im pretty sure you might not bleed in the pool


I asked a friend for help and he agreed buy said he had to use the bathroom. I waited a very long time and discovered he left where we met. Why did he say yes and then leave me to wait? (link)
girl boys are like that but it dont matter and he left because he wanted you to pay but thats just a punk move to do it but dont feel bad cause you know what you did was right so thats all that matter


Okay...so i am a 13 year old girl and i have been cutting myself since 3rd grade. I also drink alcohol. I recently got caught with cuts on my arm. And i have't done it since. But i really want to because i hurt myself to feel better. (I know how dumb right). But i dont know why but im like addicted to it. I need a new way to cope with my depression. Please help! I really need it. (link)
okay first off please stop doing that thats not the right answer and what I do to help calm me down is talk to a close friend or write about how you feel because the longer you hold it in the more hurt and pain your going to feel which will cause you to hurt yourself and when ever you feel like you got to pick up a knife and cut yourself just look in the mirror and ask yourself what Im I really doind besides making my self look ugly(no offense) look in th mirror and say I am pretty before you think about making your body ugly(no offense)


My child wrote all over my sofa while my babysitter was on a social network website. The sofa cannot be cleaned because it is chenille. What do I do? (link)
Don't worry children will be children but I feel like since the babysitter left the child un supervised she should have to pay for the damage to your sofa


i m 21 yrs old and he is 23. his birthday is coming. now he is not here. he will come before his birthday. he doesnt like going to park and parties and cakes. i want to give him a treat in a resturant just he and i. will he be happy? pl suggest. (link)
yes because its coming from his brother and from your heart n as long as your there with him to celebrate his special day he will be happy




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