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Is he avoiding me or am i just being paranoid?
My boyfriend and I get invited to the same parties, and he tells me that he doesn't want me there, so I don't go (even though i really want to), and he does go. When i say that i am going to a party he is also invited to, he will say he doesn't want to go. Should i take a hint from this or not? It just makes me feel like he doesn't want to spend time with me. Also, we have gone to parties together and it was fine, so?
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well not to be rude it aint about not wanting to spend time with you its more about being embarresed by you or cheating because if he was a good bf he would want you there or if he didnt wanna go he shouldnt
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i want to say he's cheating but im not sure and Y not go if you really wanted to its your mind and your body and if you feel like you want to go and he says no then go put on your party clothes and go dont let no man tell you what you can and can not do so the next time its a party and you want to go and he say no just look at him and laugh
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Judging by the fact that you have rated everyone who told you that YES, this is something to be concerned about a 1, I'm guessing you won't take too kindly to what I'm about to say.
Your boyfriend is a jerk.
I can understand a couple spending time apart and socialising separately. It would be unhealthy to expect to spend all your time together and attend all the same social events.
But to me this situation sounds more than a bit fishy. How dare your boyfriend tell you he 'doesn't want you there'? You have been invited, you have the same right to go as he does.
The fact that your boyfriend prefers to go to parties without you is a pretty good sign that he doesn't want you to find out what he's doing there or stop him from doing it.
Even if he isn't cheating on you, he's still being a jerk.
I suggest you confront him about it and get to the bottom of things pretty damn fast. If he makes excuses, continues what he's doing or admits to cheating then get out of this relationship and be grateful you don't have to date an idiot anymore.
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Perhaps there is a reason for him not wanting to be at the same party as you? Apart from you thinking he may be avoiding you. Maybe he wants to avoid the feeling, knowing you're present at the same party he's at, so he could have a good time and do whatever he wants? Like the person below, I think you should very much confront him about this. A boyfriend should want to spend time with his girlfriend. I mean, you are his girlfriend.
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Well that is a bit of a crappy thing to do to someone. Have you said anything to him? If not, you should probably say something to him or confront him about it. If this is a constant thing I would consider moving on from this guy. A boyfriend is suppose to want to spend time with you and you are suppose to be happy being with your boyfriend. Think about it and think about how you wanted to be treated in a relationship. You deserve better than that!
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To me, it sounds like he is avoiding you. It's obvious that he doesn't want to spend time with you, so you need to end it with this guy.
Good luck!!
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Take a hint
What is a party? Think about it...
A party is where many people go, They drink and often get drunk. A party is also where a lot of single guys go to meet up with girls.
You are his girlfriend, You were also invited to these "parties" and he doesn't want you to go? I can understand if your boyfriend wanted space and spend a day doing guy things with his buddies but going to a party alone sounds very suspicious.
It isn't right, Your boyfriend cannot tell you want too do. This guy does not own you and he certainly doesn't control you but to be honest I think you may need to move on.
EDIT: Well, Then don't ask questions if you don't want to hear the truth. If you want to be cheated on then so be it.
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