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Hey guys! I'm Kaylie. I will be as straightforward, and honest as I possibly can. Feel free to ask me anything!
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it was my baby sisters birthday and so i wanted to look older and more like my mom so i wore a little mascara to school but then my mom saw it when she picked me up and got really mad, and said that we would 'talk' about it adter the party and im really scared. i want to tell her why i did it but i feel like she is going to think its really stupid...so to get to the point...i dont know what to say, how to act, or what is going to happen. what do i do?
Just listen to her and be calm when you answer her, don't burst out saying things in a frantic way. Parents feel more appreciated when you actually listen to them.
I wouldn't be to worried about it because you just used a little mascara for a special occasion, but I hope things go well between you two. Good luck!
- Kaylie
is it wrong to be friends with my ex when i have a boyfriend right now? we only dated a few months and broke up BECAUSE we were better off as friends. im sure it makes my boyfriend slightly uncomfortable, but my ex is a pretty good friend. we dont hang out, mostly just text. not hiding anything. opinions?
No, it's not wrong to be friends with your ex. If you guys are cool with being friends, then it shouldn't be that big of a deal.
If you think he feels uncomfortable, ask him about it, and he'll tell you if he is or not.
Hope I helped, and if you have anymore questions, feel free to message me.
-Kaylie
What to do everyone at school is calling me a gay even though i am not even inclined to that side??
I agree with Zane. But, I think you should look at something that could make them think you're a gay: Do you act gay? Sometimes that can make someone think that they're gay if they act like it.
Of course, that's a different story if that's how you are. If acting like that is who you are, then they should be the ones who should who should shut their little mouths up.
Like Zane said, laugh it off and ignore them. But just be careful.
-Kaylie
18/F
Okay my husband is in the Navy. He wanted me to come out for Thanksgiving since he has Wednesday to Sunday off. Well I tried to get it off and I couldn't. I just feel like I didn't try hard enough to get that time off. I feel so horrible about it. We've only been married for about 3 months and I've seen him once. And he understands that it didn't work out. He gets to come for Christmas though. I just don't know how to stop feeling guilty.
I get that you would feel guilty, but I think that if he understands that you can't get those days off so you can see him, then you can't let it bother you. Everybody has a hard time getting certain days off. The most important thing is that even though you won't see him for Thanksgiving, you will see him on the most special holiday of the year.
I hope I helped. Good luck!
-Kaylie
okay, so the musical is coming up at school and i have no idea what to sing for my audition. any ideas?
When it comes to singing for an audition, I recommend not singing track (cd), and especially not tracks with words in the background. Find a song that is from broadway, or maybe a classical song, or any music with accompaniment. Oh, and find an accompanist. If you sing those types of songs, you will have a better chance of getting in rather than singing a Taylor Swift song. Hope I helped. "Break a leg!"
if your x boyfriend kisses you months after we break p and says he wants you back what should i say?
I think that it all depends on you. How does the idea sound to you? Do you feel like you should give him another chance? Like AdviceMistress, how did it happen? Did he do something to you(that's something to consider)? What about you? Did you do anything to him? I'm not accusing you or him, but say for example you did do something to him, and he's willing to forgive and forget. If that's the case, then he sounds like a great guy.
Like I said earlier, it depends on you. Think of how you feel with him. Maybe that will help you make your decision.
19/f
I've never taken a dance class in my life, but for some reason i've always wanted to. I've never really had the time until now. I'm really considering it but I'm not really sure what type of dance is best for beginners. I'm looking more into jazz, hip-hop, contemporary style of dancing. please no ballet or anything.
I guess i'm just asking if this is weird for me to start taking dance classes now?? most kids start when they're young like 6 years old, but i'm 19... wouldn't it just be weird if I showed up to some random studio alone without any dancing experience?
I feel like I really want to do this, but i have a little hesitation about actually doing it.. any advice on how to just do it and take a class??
There is nothing wrong with wanting to start dance at 19. Look at it this way, if you've seen the show "Dancing With the Stars," there are celebrities on there that are in their 50's and haven't taken a graceful step in their lives, and some will end up being one of the best dancers on the show. All I'm saying is, it's not too late for you to start a dance class. Whatever kind of dance you want to do, find a studio that has that type of dance in it.
I promise you this, if you are willing to start dance without any experience, and you work hard to become a great dancer, then you will BE a great dancer.
Hey, I am a 17 year old female. I have a 17 year old male best friend. We have been best friends since the third day of third grade. I love him like a brother because that is how I see him. Everybody else, however, tells me daily that him and I are going to get married. That "everybody can see that we are in love except for us." I have read numerous places that a boy and a girl can not be best friends because of sexual tension. Either the girl wants to have sex with the boy or the boy wants to have sex with the girl. I completely disagree, my friend and I aren't like that.
What do you guys think? Can a girl and boy be best friends and that's it?
Of course it's ok for guys and girls to be best friends. I have a best guy friend myself, and we have the best times together, but we don't get the "oh, you guys are going to get married" thing. Don't worry about it. If they keep saying that, then just ignore it. Go and have fun with him :)
i have now discovered that even though girls say they want genuinely nice guys they chase after assholes, who do nothing but treat them badly. but why do girls still do it.
I think the main thing is that girls are insecure about themselves. They say they want a nice guy, but they always go for the bad ones because they don't know how to get nice guys. I had a hard time with something like that, but then I realized that he wasn't the kind of guy I should be with, so I just let him go, and went to go find better guys. Hope I helped! :)
-Kaylie
i had to go away from the country so the guy who i was with he refuse to say goodbye to me......he just turn his back and stop talking to me....and i wonder why???
I agree with Athena. He didn't want to say goodbye because he really does care about you and doesn't want to see you go away. Just give it sometime, and give him a call when you are fully moved in. Good luck!!
-Kaylie
I'm not racist by any means, but the area we live in is very much a white place. My daughter, 18, has begun to see a young man who I believe is in his early 20's. He seem's nice enough, he works and treats her well but he is an immigrant from the Caribbean, and we all have heard the stories about these types of men, I don't mind her being friends with him but I think she should not be seeing him on an intimate level, how can I tell her to not be with him without her resenting me? I am currently the only person she has told within the family about their relationship and if others find out I'm afraid they will disown her.
It sounds to me that you need to give him a chance. I don't know if you've seen the two together, but I think that you should allow him to come and get to know the family, and hang out with them. You just might feel more comfortable once you actually get to know him. If you don't like him after you learn more about him, then you should let your daughter know how you feel about him. Not knowing how she'll respond toward that, just be there for her, and give her time to let that sink in.
Hope I helped. Good luck!
-Kaylie
13/f. for those who read my question on the guy who's my bff Connor,well we are back talking now,we started talking 2 days ago.But know,he's really in need of help.His bestfriend is in the hospital,and might die,and he said that he might dump his girlfriend,because she doesn't even care about how torn he is,this his bestfriend is in the hospital,all she cares about is their relationship status,so today he told me he might dump her.I told him if he does,then he should make sure it's something he really wants to do.I decided a few days ago,that I'd let him be happy with his gf,and stop wishing he was with me instead.But there's still a little liking for him inside of me.Is know my chance to ask him out?And what advice should I give him about the situation he's in?
Right now, he's in a situation that requires his best friends attention, so asking him out right now is not the best idea. If you choose, you can tell him that you like him, but let him know that you are aware of his friend, and that you are there for him for support. Just be there for him. I can't imagine my best friend being in the hospital possibly dying, and I would want my friends to be there for me every step of the way.
As for advice, just comfort him. Let him know that everything's going to be ok. Hope I helped, and feel free to inbox me if you need anything else.
-Kaylie
So, there's this guy who's extremely attractive (he's a senior and I'm a sophmore) and he would always stare at me in the hallways. One day, he came up to me and told me he loves the way I dress. After that, he kept asking my friend about me, but he wouldn't say anything to me. He even told her to tell me to walk him to class. Then he asked her why I never speak or whatever. Whenever he would say hi to me, it'll be just awkward...to me atleast. He even asked my brother who I was when I walked passed them once (he didn't know that was my brother.) Does he like me or am I just over reacting?
It could be possible. When guys compliment girls, that usually means that they want to get to know you. If you like him, then go up to him, and start up a conversation with him. Even though guys are supposed to make the move, sometimes it's even better if the girls make the move. Guys like that. I hope this helped. Good luck!
-Kaylie
In your personal opinion, do you belive it's ok for a 13 year old girl who is trustworthy and gets excellent grade to have a boyfriend?
I think that if you focus on your grades more than your boyfriend, then it's ok.
Personally though, having a boyfriend at age 13 is not a good idea. I had a boyfriend at that age, and now, he just uses me, and I don't really care for him anymore. My suggestion to you, wait, until you're in High School because you will be so much happier if you do. I hope I helped. Feel free to inbox me if you need anything. :)
-Kaylie
i am a 13 year old girl and i have a question: how come my interests constantly change and hardly ever last a long time? like i went from being obsessed with gothic clothes and emo and scene guys to falling in love with the beatles and girly vintage clothes. @ first i was thinking that criss angel and a bunch other dudes who have a dark bad boy vibe and then a month or so later, im obsessed with every one of the beatles! im still in this beatles stage cause it started only about 2 weeks ago but im completely obsessed! im even listening 2 them right now (tee hee!) but anyway, all im asking is why my interests change so drastically and quickly. none of my interests stay the same with the exception of very few. please help me out and answer this question. kisses!
Things change when you grow. I remember when I was 13, I was absolutely obsessed with Corbin Bleu! As I grew older, my obsession for him changed, and went to other really cute celebrities. It's ok for your likes to change. It just shows that you are open to trying different things while you are still trying to find out who you are.
Feel free to inbox me if you have any questions. :)
-Kaylie
If you are going to be mean with all do respect dont answer.
im 16 years old and im from egypt, im not obese at all, im slightly overweight.. but ive been wanting to get on the biggest loser ever since i saw the show.. and i would do anything to be on that show, is there any possible way i can enter the biggest loser seeing how im from egypt and im not very obese ? =/ or is there no chance and i should drop it.. it means alot to me as stupid as it may sound , i realllllly wanna get in :(, thanks for your help.
The Biggest Loser is a great show, and I do understand why you would want to get on because you can lose a lot of weight going on there. But, you say you're slightly overweight, and people who are extremely overweight are usually the ones who go on the show. If you really want to lose weight, then exercise at home, and if the show is on, you could watch what the trainers make the contestants do, and you could take some of their ideas, and do what they do. Also, there is a Biggest Loser game that is on X-Box 360 and the Wii. Talk to your parents and see if you could get the game, that is, if you have a game console. I hope I helped.
-Kaylie
I'm M/16. I think I'm becoming very unhealthy. This summer I have been eating like a pig, lots of bacon, hot dogs, lots of burgers. I've also been eating a lot of McDonalds. Not every day though, every couple of days. I don't like going out to stay in shape because its way too hot. I usually go for long bike rides. Once a month I go for long jogs, last month I did 12 laps without stopping & this month I did 20. But I've definitely gained weight this summer and I want to go back to school in shape. Are there any quick ways to lose about 5 lbs.? Any type of work outs that don't require a machine? I don't know much about working out and calorie stuff.
I totally get that it's too hot to go jogging, but, you can go later in the evening. Trust me, it is so much nicer to go out later in the day. Of course, it is going to get colder, so you really can't go jogging in the freezing cold for so long, so one idea is that you could run up and down your stairs, which is equivalent to jogging outside. Also, it's fine to eat stuff like burgers and hot dogs, but don't eat them all the time. My suggestion is that you add some healthy foods like salad, veggies, and fruit to your meals, and drink a lot of water throughout the day. That will also help you lose weight. As for McDonalds, it's fine to go out to eat, but limit your time when you go there. You can go out once or twice a month, or you don't even have to go out every month. To be honest, when you eat food at home, it tends to be more healthier. I hope I helped.
-Kaylie
Why is virginity valued by some people/ cultures?
Virginity is one of the most special things that should only be shared between husband and wife. We all hear about teenagers having sex before marriage, and it causes so many problems between the two who have sex. I know that if people wait until after they're married to have sex, then they will not only be safe, but they will also be happier.
Hope I helped!
-Kaylie
15/m i'm in high school and i want to know what girls like in a guy. like what kind of traits, and also, how do i start a conversation with a girl i like. please help! :)
Honestly, when a guy wants to ask a girl out, the best thing is to be who he is. When a guy is acting like he's not, a girl can tell, and then they end up not liking the guy. I know from experience. I will also say that I really like it when guys are sensitive to girls and their feelings. Also, a sense of humor is always a plus.
As for starting up with a conversation, just start out by saying "Hi, how are you?" and just go from there.
Good luck, and I hope I helped.
-Kaylie
this guy at school i like asked me out. but i am not sure if he is kidding or not. should i say yes?
Of course!! It's always good when the guy asks the girl. But, I will say this...if he is kidding, you will find out soon enough. I do think that you should just trust what he says, and say yes. Good luck!
-Kaylie