i am a 13 year old girl and i have a question: how come my interests constantly change and hardly ever last a long time? like i went from being obsessed with gothic clothes and emo and scene guys to falling in love with the beatles and girly vintage clothes. @ first i was thinking that criss angel and a bunch other dudes who have a dark bad boy vibe and then a month or so later, im obsessed with every one of the beatles! im still in this beatles stage cause it started only about 2 weeks ago but im completely obsessed! im even listening 2 them right now (tee hee!) but anyway, all im asking is why my interests change so drastically and quickly. none of my interests stay the same with the exception of very few. please help me out and answer this question. kisses!
VoiceofReason answered Monday August 8 2011, 12:10 am: Your brain will keep developing until around age 25. So your sensibilities are going to evolve a lot over the next dozen years. So that your interests seem to shift with every change in the wind isn't unusual. So just roll with the changes. [ VoiceofReason's advice column | Ask VoiceofReason A Question ]
kayliegirl125 answered Friday August 5 2011, 5:09 pm: Things change when you grow. I remember when I was 13, I was absolutely obsessed with Corbin Bleu! As I grew older, my obsession for him changed, and went to other really cute celebrities. It's ok for your likes to change. It just shows that you are open to trying different things while you are still trying to find out who you are.
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orphans answered Friday August 5 2011, 9:43 am: You're at that age where you change your mind quickly and often. Its completely normal. If you are actually worried about it, why not focus on what your hobbies are: those interests that stay the same (albeit a few). But like i said, its completely normal at your age, especially because at 12-15 and maybe even further, you want to fit into a group, and you also get easily bored.
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