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IS IT OK FOR MY MOM TO DO THIS?!


Question Posted Friday August 5 2011, 12:26 am

ok im gonna make this really short. i am a 13 year old girl and sometimes, when my mom is screaming at me and grabbing my face and pulling my hair and all that fun s*it, my mom will scream at me "i will wreck you". other times, she will say it jokingly. is it ok for her to say that in a joking situation or in a yelling situation or none at all? please answer. kisses!

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VoiceofReason answered Sunday August 7 2011, 7:04 pm:
How old is your mom? Ten? At the very least what she is doing is childish and at worst it could fall into the realm of child abuse. She needs to grow up and maybe even get therapy.

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Lessthan3ofgod answered Friday August 5 2011, 5:56 pm:
No your mother is not allowed to do that. Since you are in fact a minor, your mother can be arrested for child endangerment or abuse if reported to the police, or child protective services. If you are scared and you don't think this is normal and feel it may get out of control then tell a neighbor or another family member about what your mother is doing. Good luck hun, and BE CAREFUL.

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LiSaxOBaBii answered Friday August 5 2011, 12:50 pm:
No, it's not normal that she says that. Whether she is joking or not...it's immature and kind of scary that she would say that to you.

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adviceman49 answered Friday August 5 2011, 7:49 am:
Yelling and screaming stuff at you can be mental child abuse depending on the how and when she says things.

Pulling your hair and puling at you face is not okay. This physical child abuse and not discipline. Problem is you cannot go screaming to your mother that she is abusing you. You need to go to another trusted adult or teacher and tell them. What mom is doing.

I would suggest if this is a daily occurrence you go tomschool and ask the principal for help. Even if school is still closed the principal and office staff are still working.

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