13/f. for those who read my question on the guy who's my bff Connor,well we are back talking now,we started talking 2 days ago.But know,he's really in need of help.His bestfriend is in the hospital,and might die,and he said that he might dump his girlfriend,because she doesn't even care about how torn he is,this his bestfriend is in the hospital,all she cares about is their relationship status,so today he told me he might dump her.I told him if he does,then he should make sure it's something he really wants to do.I decided a few days ago,that I'd let him be happy with his gf,and stop wishing he was with me instead.But there's still a little liking for him inside of me.Is know my chance to ask him out?And what advice should I give him about the situation he's in?
Let the guy have some space, for crying out loud! His buddy is dying and he is obviously grieving over it. Don't even think about having a relationship with him for another month.
kayliegirl125 answered Sunday August 7 2011, 1:53 am: Right now, he's in a situation that requires his best friends attention, so asking him out right now is not the best idea. If you choose, you can tell him that you like him, but let him know that you are aware of his friend, and that you are there for him for support. Just be there for him. I can't imagine my best friend being in the hospital possibly dying, and I would want my friends to be there for me every step of the way.
As for advice, just comfort him. Let him know that everything's going to be ok. Hope I helped, and feel free to inbox me if you need anything else.
camo2010 answered Saturday August 6 2011, 6:16 am: you should tell him to break up with her because if she does not care about that then they dont need to be together. [ camo2010's advice column | Ask camo2010 A Question ]
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