Member Since: August 3, 2011
Answers: 5
Last Update: August 6, 2011
Visitors: 957
|
| |
|
13/f. for those who read my question on the guy who's my bff Connor,well we are back talking now,we started talking 2 days ago.But know,he's really in need of help.His bestfriend is in the hospital,and might die,and he said that he might dump his girlfriend,because she doesn't even care about how torn he is,this his bestfriend is in the hospital,all she cares about is their relationship status,so today he told me he might dump her.I told him if he does,then he should make sure it's something he really wants to do.I decided a few days ago,that I'd let him be happy with his gf,and stop wishing he was with me instead.But there's still a little liking for him inside of me.Is know my chance to ask him out?And what advice should I give him about the situation he's in? (link)
| |
you should tell him to break up with her because if she does not care about that then they dont need to be together.
|
My mom and I have a really good relationship, but some things need work. I'm 20/f in college and I feel like my mom thinks I'm 16 sometimes. I'm a very petite young woman. I'm 5 ft. tall, if that. And, as strange as it seems, I think it throws her off sometimes. My mom is my best friend and I lover her so much. That's why I feel like I need her approval for everything. Not her "permission," per say. But, it's nice to have her blessing. I don't want to disappoint her not because I'm scared of her but because I want to make her happy. The problem is, that I'm not happy. We don't always want the same things and even if I do something that I think makes me happy, if she isn't, then I'm not. I think that in a way, it's kind of unhealthy.
Like, the other day I was going to go get eyelash extensions. The girl who was getting done before me was 22, goes to the same university that I go to (but I don't know her), and she was there by herself. I was there with my mom. I felt like such a little kid. While we were there, I was ordering hair extensions and I wanted them kind of brown, because my hair is light brown. And my mom was having a fit telling the stylist that she had to order them blonde instead. My mom hated it when I dyed my hair dark brown. But, I was SUPER happy! But, I changed it to please her. I HATE HATE HATE having hair extensions. Especially, as many as I have on. It looks like a tree on my head. And they don't stay straight. It's disgusting. But, if I took it off, I'd never hear the end of it. She'll start telling me how I'm just a plain jane without them and how I look terrible. She'll scream. She won't talk to me for like a week. She doesn't let me wash my own hair because SHE has to do it since their extensions and their fragile. I've had extensions on for two years and she told me it was only temporary until my hair grew. I'm so tired of it. She also made me get a fake tan membership and drives me to the tanning salon twice a week.
I'm so tired of this because it's not like I do this for myself. I know it sounds weird but she MAKES me. I know she can't really MAKE me, but it feels like she does. My mom is a really good person, but it seems like when it comes to me, she's a bit of a bully. She's not wearing the extensions and doesn't know how it feels. It seems like she's only that way when it comes to my appearance. She doesn't care about how I do in school, the awards I achieve, the clubs I'm in, the service I do. She really doesn't. She's only concerned about my appearance. And when I go out, she like wants to drive me there and I feel like a baby.
I hate this feeling. I never imagined that at 20, I'd be living in my house. But, the economy is so bad. I live with my mom and my grandparents and my grandmother is worst than my mom when it comes to me going somewhere. I know I should have left for college. But, I didn't and I had my reasons. Even if I had a job right now, I couldn't use that money to move out. Let me just point out here that I don't really have a room for someone my age. I have a desk from 4th grade in my room. I can never study here. No one respects when I have to study. They make noise, they just don't care. I have very few options as to what I can do, here, and here they are. Here are my questions:
1) What can I do to get my mom to take me more seriously? I think she thinks I'm a kid or wants to keep me that way. Seriously, what can I do? I have straight A's, I'm involved in school, I've never gotten into any serious trouble. What else is left to do?
2) If I take a job now, I have to cut back on classes, to graduate on time. If I take more classes, I can graduate early, which means I can leave for grad school. What should I do?
I feel so out of control. I have had a history of eating disorders and I feel like I'm going back to that. All I can think about is losing weight and how that might help. I know it sounds silly, but it's the only thing I can think of right now that makes me feel better. Can someone please offer me any advice? (link)
| |
LOOK NO OFFENSE BUT YOUR MOM IS A VERY CONTROLLING LADY and I honstly dont think she realizes it...I know you probably have heard this a million times (I know I have lol) but your Mom just wants the very best for you:) you seem very stressed and i really WANT to help you.so number one just say look mom don't take this the wrong way but I am 20 years old now right?right. and i am grown up now right?right so I would apperciate if u would treat me a little bit older by letting me do a little bit of things on my own please? no hard feelings I am sorry if i offened you mom i didn't mean too.(warring: she probably will be a little bit mad or upset but thats normal she will get over it) number two. take more classes and go to grad school.and i had the very same problem just EXCERSIZE/WORKOUT ITS A GOOD HEALTHY WAY TO LOSE/STAY HEALTHY ALWAYS.(warring do not over due it that could seriously injur you,kill you,or put you in critcal condition.:|) but anyway i hoped i helped i gave you the best advic I COULD THINK OF
|
I am a dream chaser, nothing holds me back and i live out my dreams. I want to go to an art institute for college, but my second love would be premed.
what are the best art institutes in the usa?
As i look at the list of majors for kansas city art institute, there isnt a single one i Dont want..id be truely happy with any of them from studio art like graphic design to ceramics or painting, theater, music, writing.
Can u major in it all for the same price?
Which major has the most jobs or gets you the most money?
What art jobs are there?
In highschool half my classes are honors art being one of them. im pretty smart and love to know how stuff works, and i love people. emergency or specialist doctor, special education, art therapy, business marketing all intrest me.
is there any jobs that deal with art but mainly one of thoes others? (link)
| |
theres a good one in NY
|
|
I'm 13/f,and I'm going to start a band.We agreed that I'd be the lyrics writer,and singer,but I just need the other people.Should I start a band?And if so,how do I go about doing this? (link)
| |
i know they say its up to you and whether you feel like it or not but here is my advice: yes because its not just about.you and but your band mates and your maybe future fans so go ahead and do it cus YOUR DEALING WITH OTHER PEOPLE HERE. and ymur bandmates and maybey future need you! and good luck i wish you well:)
|
|
so now my nearest and dearest r dead for every event i wrote a poem how can i get it on net (link)
| |
allpoetry.com its the best! and i totally trust it
|
|