Member Since: June 5, 2011
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Last Update: June 30, 2011
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I'm always crying and my eyes are usually swollen, I've had a rough year, constantly getting bullied. My teachers just pretended that they cared what was going on in my life. My face is usually greasy + pimply, and I have a crush on a guy who will probably never like me back. I hate being 12. (link)
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First the bullying is unexceptiable you need to stand up for your self. If you don't they will continue to do this. The skin problems are three thing puberty, cleansing, and what your putting in your body. Your 12 so you can't help but get the bumps but you can keep them totally under control by washing you face 2 times a day. Meaning wash then use an astringent and finish off with a face lotion. Now drink water and a lot of it. And boy like you based on how you feel about your self. Be happy to be who you are I know it can be hard growing up I remember. Just be your self dress how you want to and where your hair how you want to do the things you want to do. Get into some activities in school, don't be afraid to get involved. Make your self happy learn that early in life.
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Well theres this gurl and her friend Who think they can talk behind my back so she said she wants to fight so i told her to bring it on so tomorrow im suppost to fight er and i have fought before but i need advice on some moves (link)
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I don't know if you had the fight already but we have to be realistic. If someone is bullying you or talking about you behind your back and wants to fight you have to stand up for your self. If talking does not work then you fight. Because if you let her get over on you then you will be a constant target and you can't live your life like that. As for moves... Make sure have a friend with you who is not scared to fight because she might have a friend who is ready and you could risk getting jumped. Don't be scared and keep you eyes open and if you sense that she is actually going to hit you just do what you have to do. Don't use any weapons or do anything crazy you don't need to risk your freedom. To all those out there who think this is bad advice I am just being realistic.
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im only a few weeks pregnant, but i have been getting really sick. i have a urinary tract infection and i also have a cold. im going to go to the doctor soon but i have to wait until i have the money. i have had the uti for about a week. Im concerned for the baby since its so early in the pregnancy. If i wait any longer will this have a serious affect on it? and with me having a cold also, will this cause a problem. this is my first so im concerned. (link)
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Yes that can be very harmful for u and the baby if left untreated got to the er immediately and you can apply for pregnancy medical insurance on the spot
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Hi! Im Gracie and Im 13 years old. I have an older brother named Matt(16) and a twin sister called (Lissa). Our dad is a single parent. Hes 36, he and my mom had kids really young. Hes 2 years older than mom. Dad says my mom had depression, I think it was Post Partnum depression. Anyway, My mom left a few months after we were born. Me and Lissa were 8 wks early so we had to stay in the hospital longer than most babies. Mom left a few months after we got out. The thing is, Ive been feelin a little upset lately and Ive been thinkin about my mom alot. I love my dad, he's the best dad in the world but I really wish my mom were around. Dad doesnt get things like boys and periods and hair and make-up. Its embarassing when I have to talk to my friends mom about periods and what to take for pain and its kinda annoying when I have to come on this website and ask people I dont even know about things that my mom should have been here to tell me (although I am grateful for the advice everyone here on advicenators give me, I didnt mean to be offensive guys). I just see other girls with their moms hanging out or going to school stuff and its not fair. Everyone tells me that I shouldnt get upset about something I cant change, but I cant help it. I try to get over it but I cant. Its stupid but I miss my mom even though I never got to know her. I guess I want to know how to stop feeling so bad about my mom, and how to get over it? Ive spent my whole life thinking about my mom and how great it would be if she came home and how awesome it would be to have a mom around like all my friends do. But Im soo sick of thinking about stuff that'll never happen but I STILL cant stop wondering, why did she leave? Why didnt she love me enough to stay? I really wanna forget about it, and stop caring because If she cared about me at all she would be here,right? Anyway, sorry for rambling and venting soo much, I sound pathetic lol. Any advice? (link)
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First I want to say you must be a very strong and bright young girl to reach out to others for advice about this. You are supposed to feel the way you do. Your a 13 year old going through a lot of changes. The first step to accepting thIs is to deal with your feeling write about it or talk to a friend you need to get out how you feel. Maybe try talking to your dad so he can realize his baby girls are getting older and there are certain things he needs to talk with you about. And don't rush your healing process your not going to wake up one day and not care. Eventually you will come to terms with your mom not being there and you and your father will be closer for it. And know that with a lot of things in life a fathers advice is best
Xoxo truly blunt
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Ok, it's not like you think well maybe it is we really haven't gone on a date for a really long time and we did a few weeks ago, still no sex. I devote plenty of time to the relationship, still no sex. He did become abusive again a few months ago but I'm over it and have forgiven him. I guess I should have left then or something. Even when we do have sex which has now dwendled down to less than one time a week, I do not feel sexual if that makes sense. Before I enjoyed it, now it's like I'm going through the motions. Any suggestions? (link)
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If him. It is just that simple. And if u choose to stay then u are happy with the way things. He is sleeping with someone else and he is angry he is wasting his time with you and that is why you are arguing and your getting abused. Sorry so harsh but I am very blunt
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hi,
I was raped 2 m0nths ago..at the time i didnt like it.but later i wanted to do it.again.i wanted to put a hard cock in my . . ..nw i made a frnd whose penis i suck.nd he wants me to swallow his cum.should i?i d0nt knw nd he d0sent knw if v hav std. (link)
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this has to be a joke ... you got raped by a rapist and you to kept in touch... this is a serious sight for people with serious problems
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I am from india. My boyfriend is unhappy with me. All I can do is cry everyday. I dint treat well in the beggining. Gave my friends more importance n all..I cheated on him once and begged for forgiveness. He said forgave me. But everytime we fight he brings it up. Feels like shit.why is he still with me if he can't forget wat I did. He says he can't sleep without drinking every nite,make him very unhappy and disturb him a lot. But he says he can't be without me. I'm trying to change to make him, us happy but all he says is he's not happy with me. It hurts so much!! I really don't wanna live a life thinking how unhappy I made him. If I die maybe in my next life atleast ican be a better person. When we started going out he was the nicest guy ever! Then I changed. God knows why. I was really rude to him amd fought a lot. And he changed after that too seeing me all differnet.we both are so fuckn unhappy. He doesn't easily forget any small mistake I make. Anything I say by mistake also he'll fight with me. If there is any advice to make things normal again, please give me. Or else atlease tell me how to kill myself. Whatever I try I'm scared I'll end up alive and be a huge disgrace for my family.I really love him so much and I'd even die if my non existence makes him happy too. Its because of me he's like this now. I can never forgive myself. Never. (link)
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I'm sorry I could not figure out how to send you this message any other way . If he says he is going to give you a second chance and u want to take it then great, but it takes two to make a relationship work. Don't focus on messing things up because if you do then you will, worry about getting them right. Be faithful to him and loyal. Because if he is anything like you say he is then he is more than worth it because a good man is hard to find. And as far as him saying you are to friendly with men huh. Sometime we as women don't realize our laughing and conversation may be just us being friendly in our eyes but to the man or men we are laughing and being friendly with it may come off as flirting. So tone it down a notch. And maybe he need to be more confidant. But that is also something you have to build back up in him. He may have lost faith in you. Oh and by thw way since he want to work this out don't let him keep bringing up the past and throwing it in your face. Everyone deserves forgiveness. Reply back I want to know how u feel about this advice
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