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Its about Fighting


Question Posted Tuesday June 28 2011, 2:34 am

Well theres this gurl and her friend Who think they can talk behind my back so she said she wants to fight so i told her to bring it on so tomorrow im suppost to fight er and i have fought before but i need advice on some moves

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godiva answered Thursday June 30 2011, 7:18 pm:
I don't know if you had the fight already but we have to be realistic. If someone is bullying you or talking about you behind your back and wants to fight you have to stand up for your self. If talking does not work then you fight. Because if you let her get over on you then you will be a constant target and you can't live your life like that. As for moves... Make sure have a friend with you who is not scared to fight because she might have a friend who is ready and you could risk getting jumped. Don't be scared and keep you eyes open and if you sense that she is actually going to hit you just do what you have to do. Don't use any weapons or do anything crazy you don't need to risk your freedom. To all those out there who think this is bad advice I am just being realistic.

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lovealways1221 answered Thursday June 30 2011, 4:46 pm:
show up. then laugh at their face and say "what do i need to prove to you assholes?" You have nothing to prove to them. When someone is bullying you or harassing you.. all they are looking for is either attention or just to make you feel horrible/mad. So your solution is.. don't let them make you feel horrible/mad. Show up tomorrow and smile. be happy. laugh at their face. then walk away. It doesn't mean you're a "chicken".. it just means you're smarter, more mature, and wiser to turn the other way and let them deal with their problems. (which they obviously have problems..)

good luck and don't do anything stupid/something you'll regret.

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kristamikele answered Tuesday June 28 2011, 2:05 pm:
I am sorry, cuz I know you were up all night worrying about this, and who needs that crap? It is hard when you are dealing with a bully, because sometimes if you tell an adult the bully will call you a sucker or a rat and bother you even more, and it's so hard to ignore them. Sometimes it seems like the only way you can get them to leave you alone is by standing up for yourself and fighting. Just remember that those girls who are talking behind your back may be making you feel badly, but each and every time your name comes out of her mouth, it is only because she is jealous of you. I think you would make her feel pretty stupid if you mentioned that she thinks about you waaaaaaay too much. I mean, why is she spending all this time and effort talking about what you're doing? Doesn't she have a life? I hope it all worked out for the best today. Keep your chin up, don't let anybody bring you down--jealous bitches suck!

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