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im a guy, about to head into community college, and just waned to know what are some good things to major in? A job where you make alot of money? The thing is, i really wanna go into the film industry, movies and stuff, is that competitive? And i also want a job that i can do anywhere, cuz i live in the US right now and i plan on moving to Canada/Australia. I want a job that pays alot, and that i can do anywhere in the world. Any suggestions? (link)
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thing about good jobs is you dont always get the spot you want cause you have to earn it first and have job exprines also ask about inturning for a place to looks better to hiring companies.
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Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years..and we love eachother alot the last few days he said he doesnt want to be in a relationship anyore because he has too much family problems and i just stress him out extra, which isnt true, yes we do fight, and im not gonna lie before the breakup we fought alot, but about stupid stuff, i tried to fix things and i told him im sorry and i really wanna work things out, and that i miss him and love him and i can help him out with his problems, but he just says he doesnt want anyone in his life, and he wants to be alone, and listed me a bunch of reasons of his family issues, but even before his family prolems he said he doesnt want to be commited to me because he feels like hes too young, hes 18 years old and im 17, we have been through the worst and best times, it may not sound that way because im currently very devistated with whats going on, he asked me never to speak to him again and he just doesnt wanna talk anymore,he bought me a blackberry on our 1 year, and i just had my brother give it back to him.. what do you guys think? its hard for me to beleive its over, i dont want it to be but he says he has no time to fix things right now because of everything thats going on in his life,i know you guys dont know him personally,but do you think when he straightens his shit out hed miss me? he always said he REALLY cant live without me, and loves me alot..and now we ended on bad terms. =/ help? i really would like to know if guys usually pull of this stuff and regret it later. (link)
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i had family problems and college finaicl problems and was rlly stress out and was a dick to my lovely girly i regret it deeply but i never wanted to be over and i finally tlked to her about it and things got alot better but i still have family issuse. so i would say try to make contact with him and see if you can get him to open up about it cause bottling up pain and stress just makes things worse. if you do make contact take it slow comfort him try make him feel better. since i dont rlly know him i cant give you the best way to try and get him to open up but you should try or you prob will regret not trying to fix things with him. hope this helps.
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My mom is always complaining that I'm obsessed with my electronics. She grew up without any so she doesn't understand the usefulness of them.
My high school majors are Web Design and Television Productions and my other teachers prefer it if we email them our homework so that we can't say somebody stole it or that we lost it. So during the school year I did almost all of my homework on my MacBook Pro.
Now that it's summer vacation I have all of the time in the world to use my two phones (that my dad bought me) and my laptop as well as my itouch,tv and ipad.
This is my last summer and because of my moms job she barely ever gets vacations. Also by the time she comes home I've already done everything that I need to so I spend most of my free time on my laptop or using one of my electronics.
She also doesn't let me go anywhere and there isn't that much stuff to do around my house that doesn't include me using some sort of electronic.
I have a job that i'm currently doing but it's also based off of my laptop.
I've tried explaining to my mom why I always have some sort of device in my hand but she just doesn't get it!
She's getting to that point where when she sees me on my laptop or anything else that she gets really angry but I don't have anything else to do except lie around staring at the ceiling.
I do read but I read ebooks on my ipad because my mom doesn't let me go to the library or to any book stores or anywhere at all really.
I do all of the chores around the house too so it's not like I never help out.
In fact tonight I did laundry,made dinner, switched out the dishwasher and took the trash out. While she watched the Casey Anthony Trial on tv.
She then had the nerve to threaten me with taking away my laptop because apparently "I never do anything except sit around on my laptop."
Just now she came in my room and gave me the stink eye and then walked out.
The worst part is that 99% of the time when she's home she just sits around and watches tv so she's no better then me if not worse than me.
How can I get it through her head that as long as she continues to keep me cooped up in the house that I don't have anything to do except use my electronics?
I'm also not fat. I'm actually on the too skinny side so it's not like I need to get off of my electronics and lose weight.
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my mom doesnt understand what i do for a living i in college for catipiller service dealer tech ive got cerified in electrical, engine fundmentals, fuels, hydraulics. one of the biggest tools is the laptop so to show her its important i hooked it up to her truck and shut off 2 cylinders of the six. to teach and explain what i was doing and what the purpose was. all you have to do is show your mom the importance of what your doing and it should make her proud.
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If a guy comes inside your butt can you get pregnant? (link)
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yea it can leak out to the vaginal area it like a 10% chance. You can get pregant from that.
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I'm a fifteen year old girl, will be a junior. (I'll be sixteen in less than two weeks). And for about three years I've been really close with this guy. We'll call him Matt. (He will be a senior, seventeen). When I say close, I mean like really good friends. Now, last year I dated this tool (one that I asked you a question about) who was a total dick to me. He pressured/forced me into a lot of (sexual) stuff and was an all around jerk. When the dick dumped me in a text after seven months and proceeded to jerk me around all summer, Matt was there to tell me I didn't deserve it. There was one night in particular that he let me cry on his shoulder for about two hours and he basically just let me spill my guts to him. I've told him stuff about me that I haven't even told my best girl friends... But at the time I only had friendly feelings towards him and he had "a thing" with another girl. When school started we both were dating other people. Around winter break though we both broke up with our S.O. around the same time. And I PROMISE it had nothing to do with Matt and I having feeligns for each other. We weren't like that. However... during winter break we started texting every single day. We continued to get closer and closer, and I'm not going to lie. I started to like him. But he would constantly say things like "you're like a sister to me". But it would be casually mentioned, like we never talked about us ever being more than friends and we never discussed our feelings so I have no idea if he even had any or if he knew I did... But since then we still talk almost every single day. He asked me to prom but we didn't kiss or anything. He is extremely flirty with me though. He has a really dirty sense of humor and is much bigger than me so he often jokes around by like hitting on me or picking me up and messing around with me. It's all very confusing
The thing is.. He basically dumped me. Haha I know we weren’t official or anything like that but I really did start developing feelings for the kid. I honestly couldn’t help it and for the longest time I was even in denial about it. My friends would tell us we were “in love” and we would both heavily deny it though I did kind of get the impression he did have feelings =/. I DON’T KNOW what I was thinking, never telling him. I guess I was scared? Well trust me I regret it. I guess I just never thought he’d start talking to another girl. And the line between sibling-love and regular love? Hahah um.. It’s just he would be sooo protective of me and almost possessive? But then at the same time he’d like all over me haha. Even though he denies ever flirting with me.. Anway. Since he’s been talking to this girl he’s basically been ignoring me. I haven’t seen him in two weeks. He doesn’t text me anymore and when I tried to start a few conversations he stopped replying. But the other day he texts me DEMANDING that I tell him about this guy that he thinks I have a thing with. Which.. I kind of do.. I don’t know I’ve just been talking with him while Matt’s been ignoring me. But I told Matt.. “you don’t get to just ignore me and then demand to hear stuff like this. That’s not how it works” and Matt says “I never ignored you. We just haven’t talked” and I said “Yeah cause I stopped trying to get you to respond or see me..” and he said “Haha whatever, sorry. Now tell me.” And I wasn’t going to! Firstly, I have no idea what me and that other guy are. I don't really like him but he seems kinda interested but I really didn't want to talk to Matt about it so I basically just told him I didn't know. Cause that was the only thing he wanted to talk about.. it was like he didn’t even want to know how I was doing or what’s been going on.. Just that. And it pissed me off. And it kind of just added to all the hurt of basically just not being good enough for him. That I’ve been around him sooo long and he’s never taken the step with me that he took with this girl he’s known for like.. a month. That I just wasn’t the right material.. It pisses me off even more because this girl is the complete opposite of me. She’s like that tall sexy brunette, muscular, strong and intimidating and I’m pretty short and thin/little and weak. I probably look like a little blonde ditz. She's also in his grade.. it’s just killing me. I feel like such shit.. I miss him SOO much. I lost the guy I care about and my best friend and my self confidence is shot.. I just don’t even know what to do with myself. I wanna be strong.. and I don't want to talk with him.. If were just meant to be freinds than I defintiely don't want to ruin that because that's all we have left.. if I even have that. What do I do?? (link)
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It sounds like he still has feelings and it also sounds like he is very possessive like your his and no can touch you while he is with someone. And the fact that he said he never ignored you then says whatever thats disrespect the question is do you want to be with someone that is demanding or treats your like an equal and tells you eveything and wants to be with you and not act possessive when you tlk to other guys but its ok for him to tlk to other girls. you desever a better guy then what you described he sounds like he has changed alot and never will be the guy you care about. if your willing to tlk about something that hurts bad and willing to take advice that shows bravery, indepentice, integrity which are some amazing personality traits that make you a good person that deffienlty makes you strong. dont think your not never think little of your self cause you can be anyone you want to be. hope this helps
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Alright, when your in a relationship with someone for a long long time, lets say 2 years.. and you guys share absolutely everything, and you know she loves you, and you know you love her very much too, and out of nowhere your having too much fun with your friends, and you say you dont want to be commited anymore,and btw, you tend to have these phases alot during the summer, but then you open up your eyes and go back on it,.and you say you dont want a relationship, or you find a way to be a complete asshole to your girlfirend so she can tell you its over out of anger,and because you break your promises, my question is.. do men usually regret doing this when they go through these kind of phases? and do they usually want the girl back after the long run? i just would like to know how men think, and no i dont want to know what men think in the sense that theyre "freedom" is woman, and drinking because i know ALOT of guys that dont care about that stuff,and they are actually really clean men, but go through phases so they can do whatever they want, without the girl being jealous or giving them shit about hanging out with other girls, girls they dont like or whatever.. so my question is do they usually regret treating the girl like this and want her back? 2 years isnt a small time.. me and my boyfriend were so much more than that :/.. and he usually goes through these phases..and my other question is, if he does regret it.. should i even WANT him back ? Id really appreciate it if a smart man would answer this question.thank you very much. (link)
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i went thought a phase like this and was a dick to my girly and i deeply regreted it with all my heart mine phase was different wen drinking and going to parties i was in college and interning in a differnt state and the pressure of leaving caused me to be a complete ass. i almost lost her cause of it but in the end i relized that i wanted her more then anything and was willing to give up my job and my education for her. and ill never go thought that phase again. my point is by saying this is if he gose thought more then one of theses phases and never is keeping what he says to you and all the sudden dosent want to be with you. that means either he wants someone new or just wants to be single in the summer to get laid more since idk him i cant really tell you wat he is or wat he wants. Ill tell you this if he dosent go out of his way to get you back or is unwilling to keep all his promises find someone that will instead of having a guy jerk you around. its going to hurt but there are better ppl i hope this helps.
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Okay. So this guy matt. For about two years weve been really close friends. All of freshman year I had a boyfriend who matt hated cause he was not a very good guy... He pressured and forced me into things, hit me, cheated on me... Etc. And when we broke up he spread horrible rumors about me. Matt was basically my rock through all of that. He let me cry on his shoulder and talked through everything with me. But it was always strictly friendship. Then this year he and I really started to pick up our friendship. He would text me everysingle day and we got even closer and I started developing more than just platonic feelings. I just kept denying it though because I felt like he didn't feel the same way and I was scared of ruining our friendship... As the year went on it got harder and harder to deny that I liked him (that was this year). And now it's summer and it's all changed.
One of matts friends decided to set him up with this girl from another school. And matt just basically dumped me... I haven't seen him in two weeks... He stopped texting me... An when I texted him we talked for like a minute and then he topped replying. And I just feel so hurt. And I don't even understand it. Could he really have just seen me as a friend? Yeah we never went on a date or kissed or anything but we talked every single day, shared so much, went to prom together (he asked me with the cutest poem) and we held hands and cuddled and he'd always make like dirty jokes about me haha. Is it possible that he really saw all of that as friendship? One of my friends talked to him about this new girl... He's known her for like three weeks and he's already told her he likes her... And when myfriend asked what happened between me and him he said "I never even flirtd with her" which is so not true!! Otherwise we have EXTREMELY different definitions of flirting... I texted him the other day saying "what happened to you? I don't see or talk to you anymore..." and all he could give me was "I dont know what to say..." I just dont understand. I hate that it took him being gone for me to finally see that I do care for him like that. And it hurts so much. I feel like he led me on. I feel used. I feel like I just wasn't good enough... That I wasn't good enough to be seen as more than a friend but that this new girl is. I feel like an idiot. And I feel confused. And most of all I'm mad. I'm mad at myself for falling for him because I think I lost my bestfriend and the guy I loved... What do I do?? (I'm 15/F and he's 17/M) (link)
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try to forget best friends turning in to love hurts wen it end i dated my best friend she is to years younger then me and we were happy for 15 months as more then bf and gf and now all the sudden she dosent believe me. sometimes dating a really good friend can be amazing for a while then someing happens and your not even friends. your still rlly young and the world holds many surprises three years from now you could be in college meeting another great guy. truth is there is something called loving to soon like i did with my girl im 20 she is just turning 18 so dont fall in love to soon weight your choices because there are many good guys enjoy your free time before getting to serious with anyone. dont be mad at your self that wont help you heal you at all. i hope this helps
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Alright, here it goes. I like a guy (yes, I’m a girl), and it’s hard to tell if he likes me. We’ve been talking on Facebook for the past three months. He also goes to my school. A few weeks ago, I told him I liked him, but before he said anything I asked if we could just stay friends. He said friends is good. I mean, he probably doesn’t like me. He’s two years older than me, and we’re complete opposites. He’s a football/basketball player, and all the girls looove him. Me? I’m the quiet freshman that’s nothing like him. We run in different circles, you might say. I mean, I’m sure he only talks to me still to be nice… right? That’s why I think he doesn’t like me. But part of me thinks he does because he’s flirty a lot when we talk. And my friend knows him really well and told me that he only flirts with girls he at least has a little thing for. She wouldn’t lie either.. she’s a little too honest sometimes. Before I told him I liked him, he would literally stare at me at school like, in the hallway. Whenever we walked by each other, it’d be kinda like a staring contest. Haha. But after I told him, he wouldn’t even look at me anymore. I was sure that he didn’t like me, and he didn’t want to lead me on. About a week after all of this happened, he walked by me and smiled and did a little wave. Yes, I’m sure it was to me because we were the only people there. Maybe he did it to be nice? Or maybe he didn’t do it when there were people around. I don’t understand.. if he didn’t like me, he wouldn’t waste his time talking to me, and he wouldn’t smile/look at me. (Oh by the way, he started looking at me again). But if he did like me, he would tell me. What I think is that maybe he just is unsure of what his friends will think/say if he dated me. Like I said, we’re complete opposites. That’s why I’m surprised he even talks to me. And seriously, he didn’t say he did/didn’t like me when we were talking about it… so that probably means he doesn’t like me, but he didn’t want to hurt my feelings… right? But another thing. I actually asked him one time why he always confuses me like this, and he goes “reasons”. He’s stupid. He always “beats around the bush” but never gets to the point. Sometimes he acts like he doesn’t like me. Other times, he looks at me a lot, flirts with me, smiles, and whatever else. He’s so confusing! And I want to just ask him about it, and I want him to tell me how he really feels about it. But I’m scared that if I bring it up again, he’ll get annoyed and he just won’t say anything back (on Facebook, of course). Maybe I’ll be surprised and he’d say he likes me, but I highly doubt that will happen. I want answers. I know I shouldn’t demand them, and I should just wait. But if I don’t bring it up or ask him about it, we may never talk about it again. That’s another thing. I start every conversation. I mean, he did once, but that doesn’t count. Haha. But seriously!! If he felt something, he’d start the conversation at least a couple times, right? I mean, you’d think he would. But since he doesn’t say anything first, I often get the feeling that he just doesn’t want to talk to me. So I usually take a huge risk and say something to him, and we end up talking for 2 hours, or even longer. If he didn’t want to talk to me, he wouldn’t talk to me for that long. Even if he is nice, he wouldn’t do that just to make me happy. Maybe he got turned off when I told him I liked him. Maybe he thought I was being too sudden or something..? I don’t know what‘s going on in his head! I know, I know, boys are confusing. I understand that. But they can’t all be THIS confusing..
Help? … Please..?
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All boys are complex in a sence but if hes a jock and popular hes going to be a little more of a dick cause most popular guys have one thing on mind and its sexual. This gose for most but not all but it could explain why he is being so so confusing around you. just be careful what ever you decide simple things can hurt the most.
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