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One of the most complicated boys...
Alright, here it goes. I like a guy (yes, I’m a girl), and it’s hard to tell if he likes me. We’ve been talking on Facebook for the past three months. He also goes to my school. A few weeks ago, I told him I liked him, but before he said anything I asked if we could just stay friends. He said friends is good. I mean, he probably doesn’t like me. He’s two years older than me, and we’re complete opposites. He’s a football/basketball player, and all the girls looove him. Me? I’m the quiet freshman that’s nothing like him. We run in different circles, you might say. I mean, I’m sure he only talks to me still to be nice… right? That’s why I think he doesn’t like me. But part of me thinks he does because he’s flirty a lot when we talk. And my friend knows him really well and told me that he only flirts with girls he at least has a little thing for. She wouldn’t lie either.. she’s a little too honest sometimes. Before I told him I liked him, he would literally stare at me at school like, in the hallway. Whenever we walked by each other, it’d be kinda like a staring contest. Haha. But after I told him, he wouldn’t even look at me anymore. I was sure that he didn’t like me, and he didn’t want to lead me on. About a week after all of this happened, he walked by me and smiled and did a little wave. Yes, I’m sure it was to me because we were the only people there. Maybe he did it to be nice? Or maybe he didn’t do it when there were people around. I don’t understand.. if he didn’t like me, he wouldn’t waste his time talking to me, and he wouldn’t smile/look at me. (Oh by the way, he started looking at me again). But if he did like me, he would tell me. What I think is that maybe he just is unsure of what his friends will think/say if he dated me. Like I said, we’re complete opposites. That’s why I’m surprised he even talks to me. And seriously, he didn’t say he did/didn’t like me when we were talking about it… so that probably means he doesn’t like me, but he didn’t want to hurt my feelings… right? But another thing. I actually asked him one time why he always confuses me like this, and he goes “reasons”. He’s stupid. He always “beats around the bush” but never gets to the point. Sometimes he acts like he doesn’t like me. Other times, he looks at me a lot, flirts with me, smiles, and whatever else. He’s so confusing! And I want to just ask him about it, and I want him to tell me how he really feels about it. But I’m scared that if I bring it up again, he’ll get annoyed and he just won’t say anything back (on Facebook, of course). Maybe I’ll be surprised and he’d say he likes me, but I highly doubt that will happen. I want answers. I know I shouldn’t demand them, and I should just wait. But if I don’t bring it up or ask him about it, we may never talk about it again. That’s another thing. I start every conversation. I mean, he did once, but that doesn’t count. Haha. But seriously!! If he felt something, he’d start the conversation at least a couple times, right? I mean, you’d think he would. But since he doesn’t say anything first, I often get the feeling that he just doesn’t want to talk to me. So I usually take a huge risk and say something to him, and we end up talking for 2 hours, or even longer. If he didn’t want to talk to me, he wouldn’t talk to me for that long. Even if he is nice, he wouldn’t do that just to make me happy. Maybe he got turned off when I told him I liked him. Maybe he thought I was being too sudden or something..? I don’t know what‘s going on in his head! I know, I know, boys are confusing. I understand that. But they can’t all be THIS confusing..
Help? … Please..?
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All boys are complex in a sence but if hes a jock and popular hes going to be a little more of a dick cause most popular guys have one thing on mind and its sexual. This gose for most but not all but it could explain why he is being so so confusing around you. just be careful what ever you decide simple things can hurt the most.
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Yeah most guys are confusing , another reason why they suck. So , first of all , trust your own instinct. I mean first off, the only way to find out if he actually has a ''thing'' for you is to go and be patient. If he comes to you like smiles , and talks to you FIRST on facebook ,not you because you said he did just once.. not good enough. You have to let him come to you that is the only way you can really find out if he has a thing for you. Forget the whole does he like me? oh he smiled at me , oh he doesn't talk to me , oh sometimes he seems like hes not interested in me... that is all bologne. The only way is for him to just come to you. Maybe he does just flirt with you and what not maybe your firneds right only flirting with girls he likes... or has a thing for... if you believe that that is up to you. Just please do not get hurt... I mean he might like you maybe he is just in a phase where hes confused if he likes you or not or maybe at times he has those feelings and other times it just dissappears... I think you should just not worry about it so much and put him aside. If he does like you and has a ''thing'' for you let him come to you.
- Its better for him to wait for you then you waiting on him..
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