|
Okay. So this guy matt. For about two years weve been really close friends. All of freshman year I had a boyfriend who matt hated cause he was not a very good guy... He pressured and forced me into things, hit me, cheated on me... Etc. And when we broke up he spread horrible rumors about me. Matt was basically my rock through all of that. He let me cry on his shoulder and talked through everything with me. But it was always strictly friendship. Then this year he and I really started to pick up our friendship. He would text me everysingle day and we got even closer and I started developing more than just platonic feelings. I just kept denying it though because I felt like he didn't feel the same way and I was scared of ruining our friendship... As the year went on it got harder and harder to deny that I liked him (that was this year). And now it's summer and it's all changed.
One of matts friends decided to set him up with this girl from another school. And matt just basically dumped me... I haven't seen him in two weeks... He stopped texting me... An when I texted him we talked for like a minute and then he topped replying. And I just feel so hurt. And I don't even understand it. Could he really have just seen me as a friend? Yeah we never went on a date or kissed or anything but we talked every single day, shared so much, went to prom together (he asked me with the cutest poem) and we held hands and cuddled and he'd always make like dirty jokes about me haha. Is it possible that he really saw all of that as friendship? One of my friends talked to him about this new girl... He's known her for like three weeks and he's already told her he likes her... And when myfriend asked what happened between me and him he said "I never even flirtd with her" which is so not true!! Otherwise we have EXTREMELY different definitions of flirting... I texted him the other day saying "what happened to you? I don't see or talk to you anymore..." and all he could give me was "I dont know what to say..." I just dont understand. I hate that it took him being gone for me to finally see that I do care for him like that. And it hurts so much. I feel like he led me on. I feel used. I feel like I just wasn't good enough... That I wasn't good enough to be seen as more than a friend but that this new girl is. I feel like an idiot. And I feel confused. And most of all I'm mad. I'm mad at myself for falling for him because I think I lost my bestfriend and the guy I loved... What do I do?? (I'm 15/F and he's 17/M)
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
try to forget best friends turning in to love hurts wen it end i dated my best friend she is to years younger then me and we were happy for 15 months as more then bf and gf and now all the sudden she dosent believe me. sometimes dating a really good friend can be amazing for a while then someing happens and your not even friends. your still rlly young and the world holds many surprises three years from now you could be in college meeting another great guy. truth is there is something called loving to soon like i did with my girl im 20 she is just turning 18 so dont fall in love to soon weight your choices because there are many good guys enjoy your free time before getting to serious with anyone. dont be mad at your self that wont help you heal you at all. i hope this helps
]
More Questions: |