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Alright, when your in a relationship with someone for a long long time, lets say 2 years.. and you guys share absolutely everything, and you know she loves you, and you know you love her very much too, and out of nowhere your having too much fun with your friends, and you say you dont want to be commited anymore,and btw, you tend to have these phases alot during the summer, but then you open up your eyes and go back on it,.and you say you dont want a relationship, or you find a way to be a complete asshole to your girlfirend so she can tell you its over out of anger,and because you break your promises, my question is.. do men usually regret doing this when they go through these kind of phases? and do they usually want the girl back after the long run? i just would like to know how men think, and no i dont want to know what men think in the sense that theyre "freedom" is woman, and drinking because i know ALOT of guys that dont care about that stuff,and they are actually really clean men, but go through phases so they can do whatever they want, without the girl being jealous or giving them shit about hanging out with other girls, girls they dont like or whatever.. so my question is do they usually regret treating the girl like this and want her back? 2 years isnt a small time.. me and my boyfriend were so much more than that :/.. and he usually goes through these phases..and my other question is, if he does regret it.. should i even WANT him back ? Id really appreciate it if a smart man would answer this question.thank you very much.
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You need to find a more mature man. This guy doesn't know what he wants, nor how to communicate honestly, nor how to participate in a healthy relationship. He needs to grow up, and if he doesn't, if this indicates a pattern he's likely to repeat on an ongoing basis, he is a poor prospect for a long term relationship, unless you really enjoy drama. One question worthy of serious thought is, is what he offers in this relationship worth the drama and is what he offers so unique that I can't get that from another man without all the drama?
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i went thought a phase like this and was a dick to my girly and i deeply regreted it with all my heart mine phase was different wen drinking and going to parties i was in college and interning in a differnt state and the pressure of leaving caused me to be a complete ass. i almost lost her cause of it but in the end i relized that i wanted her more then anything and was willing to give up my job and my education for her. and ill never go thought that phase again. my point is by saying this is if he gose thought more then one of theses phases and never is keeping what he says to you and all the sudden dosent want to be with you. that means either he wants someone new or just wants to be single in the summer to get laid more since idk him i cant really tell you wat he is or wat he wants. Ill tell you this if he dosent go out of his way to get you back or is unwilling to keep all his promises find someone that will instead of having a guy jerk you around. its going to hurt but there are better ppl i hope this helps.
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