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Family problems?
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years..and we love eachother alot the last few days he said he doesnt want to be in a relationship anyore because he has too much family problems and i just stress him out extra, which isnt true, yes we do fight, and im not gonna lie before the breakup we fought alot, but about stupid stuff, i tried to fix things and i told him im sorry and i really wanna work things out, and that i miss him and love him and i can help him out with his problems, but he just says he doesnt want anyone in his life, and he wants to be alone, and listed me a bunch of reasons of his family issues, but even before his family prolems he said he doesnt want to be commited to me because he feels like hes too young, hes 18 years old and im 17, we have been through the worst and best times, it may not sound that way because im currently very devistated with whats going on, he asked me never to speak to him again and he just doesnt wanna talk anymore,he bought me a blackberry on our 1 year, and i just had my brother give it back to him.. what do you guys think? its hard for me to beleive its over, i dont want it to be but he says he has no time to fix things right now because of everything thats going on in his life,i know you guys dont know him personally,but do you think when he straightens his shit out hed miss me? he always said he REALLY cant live without me, and loves me alot..and now we ended on bad terms. =/ help? i really would like to know if guys usually pull of this stuff and regret it later.
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I'm sorry hun. I've been through this... My ex and I dated for 3 1/2 years and he ended it with me abruptly for really no good reason. The best thing to do.. I know this is going to be hard, but just move on. Try to surround yourself with good friends, and eventually date again. I wouldn't say right away though because I tried that and it didn't work... Give him what he wants. And don't pick up if he calls, or IMs you.. I know it sounds harsh but I know about this kind of thing from first hand experience...
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i had family problems and college finaicl problems and was rlly stress out and was a dick to my lovely girly i regret it deeply but i never wanted to be over and i finally tlked to her about it and things got alot better but i still have family issuse. so i would say try to make contact with him and see if you can get him to open up about it cause bottling up pain and stress just makes things worse. if you do make contact take it slow comfort him try make him feel better. since i dont rlly know him i cant give you the best way to try and get him to open up but you should try or you prob will regret not trying to fix things with him. hope this helps.
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