Ok, it's not like you think well maybe it is we really haven't gone on a date for a really long time and we did a few weeks ago, still no sex. I devote plenty of time to the relationship, still no sex. He did become abusive again a few months ago but I'm over it and have forgiven him. I guess I should have left then or something. Even when we do have sex which has now dwendled down to less than one time a week, I do not feel sexual if that makes sense. Before I enjoyed it, now it's like I'm going through the motions. Any suggestions?
godiva answered Thursday June 16 2011, 1:14 am: If him. It is just that simple. And if u choose to stay then u are happy with the way things. He is sleeping with someone else and he is angry he is wasting his time with you and that is why you are arguing and your getting abused. Sorry so harsh but I am very blunt [ godiva's advice column | Ask godiva A Question ]
julie75 answered Thursday June 16 2011, 12:46 am: I'm sorry to say but I think you need to find someone else. He shows all the signs that he's not in love with you and possibly that he's getting sex from someone else. You can try working things out or some type of counseling but I really believe he will return to his old ways. Find someone who appreciates you, will truly love you and will treat you right. I hope this helps and good luck. [ julie75's advice column | Ask julie75 A Question ]
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