My name is Laura, I am 16 years old. Although i may still be young, i have a lot of incite and don't be shy because It's very hard to make me uncomfortable. I find that painful experiences make you stronger, but It's still good to get reassurence of this. I sincerely hope that you enjoy my site and shower me with questions
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My brother just said I was a slut because he saw the hickey on my neck.
I made out with this guy, he's one of my friends and I've liked him for over a year. We like each other and stuff but aren't dating, he's 19 though, which is why we aren't dating and are planning to wait.
Does it make me a slut for making out with him? It's not like I'm doing this with every random guy right?
Then my friend told me I wasn't a slut, I would have been if I had sex with him.
Does that mean if I had sex with him it would have made me a slut?
I know this isn't really a big deal but it kinda bothers me so I might as well get people's opinions on it. (link)
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No, it does not make you a slut, even if you had sex with him you wouldn't be a slut.
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Ok, it's not like you think well maybe it is we really haven't gone on a date for a really long time and we did a few weeks ago, still no sex. I devote plenty of time to the relationship, still no sex. He did become abusive again a few months ago but I'm over it and have forgiven him. I guess I should have left then or something. Even when we do have sex which has now dwendled down to less than one time a week, I do not feel sexual if that makes sense. Before I enjoyed it, now it's like I'm going through the motions. Any suggestions? (link)
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The only thing you can do is dump him. Simple.
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First of all, no judgements.
If I were to get pregnant with my boyfriend and before the abortion time limit he decides to stray(cheat, leave me, etc) and I find myself suddenly unable to go through with the pregnancy for whatever reason, does he have a right to say no? In other words, can the law stop me from having an abortion if he doesn't want me to have one?
If that were to happen, I don't see why it would be fair that he makes me go through 9 months of hell so he can have the kid when he was unreliable and irresponsible enough to cheat or leave me... once again, no judgements, please. I just need to know my options.. (link)
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The answer is NO. He cannot legally restrict you from having an abortion. Your body, your CHOICE.
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im a 16 yearold girl and i know this may sound really dumb, but can you get pregnant from masturbating? i know it sounds crazy but i just want to know if there is anyway possible. im not an idiot, im just having pregnancy like symptons, and the only thing ive done is masturbate. so im just a little confused. thanks in advance. (link)
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A big fat blatant NO NO NO
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Okay. I'm 20yrs old, Female, about 5'3ish and I weigh around 155. Most of my weight is in mystomachand love handle area, I just started walking, I can't really run, cause of my quick weight gain and it puts strain on my knees, I only I guess "speed" walk on a treadmill for abou 15mins. I'm also on the debo shot (been on it for almost a yr in Nov) and I know that makes you gain weight, so I plan on changing that also.
I just need to know of any good websites, that I don't have to pay for to help me with a meal plan. Keep in mind that my daily life is VERY different, I work a 3rd night shift and sleep during the day (not all day just from 8am-4pm, getting the full 8hrs) Or if there are any deits things I can buy to help me weight lost go a little faster, I've never been this big and I'm startin to feel really uncomfortable about my self, and that is nothing like me, I was 105 for the longest time an I have gained so much weigh with inthe past yr and half.
I just need some sort of good advice on what my best bet is going to be with losing ths weigh that i have gained. (link)
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to make you feel better, i was on the depo shot for 6 or 9 weeks and i gained 20 pounds. getting off of that in itself will help you drop a significant amount. it took me about 4 months to take off the weight. don't stress about it too much, it will come off. the best way is walk instead of drive sometimes, don't eat at night stay motivated. having 20 minutes of cardio and 20 minutes of weights for 4 months took me down 3 sizes. also drink water instead of soda and sometime replace it with juice.
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My boyfriend and i have been together for 4years and have been haveing sex since July 08,(hes my first) And have been haveing sex with no protection sice Novermber or December 08. He just pulls out. We have a great relation ship. And wouldnt mind having a baby if it comes to us but i dont think its the time. Anyways I thought the pull out method didnt work! is he just really really good at it or is there something wrong with one of us. or are we just not doing it enough. We usally do it once or twice a week. (link)
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you are probably just VERY VERY lucky!!
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129 f, 17.
I'm currently a size 6 in pants size, and I want to be a size 4 by the end of April. Maybe 5-10 pounds would be enough to lose 1-2 sizes? (since some stores pant sizes are in even numbers).
I plan on exercising 5 days a week to achieve this. And to cut out junk food... and bacon.
Is my goal realistic/possible?
Thanks. (link)
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it is somewhat realistic, i would recommend giving yourself a little more time ( a week or two) to lose the weight, because if your under pressure, you will be stressed and stressed causes weight gain. (it took me 4 months to lose 15 pounds!) plus if you lose it over a longer period of time, it's more likely you will keep the weight off. good luck, and don't stress too much!
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A friend and I had sex tonight. this was definitely not the first time and the other times have been great. and he has acted pretty cool after and things weren't awkward by any means. so tonight, i was on my period. we still had sex but he didn't know i was on it. i probably should have told him i know. anyways, i'm not sure how much blood or whatever was on the condom. and i have a feeling when he went to throw it away he saw the blood on it. he hasn't said anything about it and when he came back into the room he was just kinda.. weird, not how he would normally act. but yeah needless to say it's very embarrassing. I don't think he will want to talk to me again after this.. would you confront a girl about this or not say anything? and if he does end up talking to me, should i say anything about it? i'm afraid he will tell his friends that's a reason it's embarrassing. (link)
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he probably didn't want to embarrass you so he didn't say anything, but a lot of guys aren't comfortable having sex on the period, so next time let him know beforehand.
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My boyfriend is 20 and I'm 16, we have been dating for a while.. I am more sexual than he is believe it or not. I have never met a guy quite like him.. he has only has sex with one other girl besides me they has sex twice.. me and him have only has sex 1 time and it was for only like 5 seconds.. he didn't cum or anything. He doesn't want to have sex i don't know what it is.. i named somethings to him like have had bad experiences or worried bout having bad experiences.. worried bout gettin me pregnant.. self conscious.. jus not attracted to me.. worried about stds.. all this stuff and he said that it isn't any of that... what do you think it could possibly be? (link)
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it's because he's afraid that you're going to get him into legal trouble.
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my bf told me that a girl can "squirt"/"cum" when an orgasm is really good/powerful? he says he wants to make me "squirt". is this possible? and isn't that kind of like a guy..... (link)
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it can happen, but it's not as common. usually for girls an orgasm is just muscle contractions, which feels just as good if not sometimes better. you're not going to "squirt" if you try too hard so you're going to have to have the right mindset to do it.
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I am a guy who likes to be spanked I also seem to like girls to tell me what to do and i seem tro like it even if its humiliating things they make me do i sem to like it even more . Im not sure why i like these things can u think of why this would turm me on (link)
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submission is sexy, and almost always a good thing. but try to take control every once in awhile, women like an a balance of both.
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i thought that if u have sex on your perioud then you cant get pregnet it just feals nasty what do you think? (link)
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that's wrong, you CAN get pregnant. use a condom every time, unless you're on a stronger form of bc, even then its still a good idea.
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okay, so I know that I have a septate hymen, which is kind of like a little band of skin I guess...(okay I know more about it than that but I'm generalizing (: )Anyway, I know you can have it surgically removed, but I really don't want anyone to do anything to that region of my body unless it's life-threatening. I've been looking this issue up a lot lately (ever since I've been having sex-technically-with my boyfriend and he noticed and pulled on it and got me thinking it prolly wasn't normal). I've heard it hurts a lot and bleeds some to get it cut, but if I leave it alone it could snap during sex? Is there any way I could leave it alone without anything bad happening? If it stretches, could I just push it to the side before having sex?
thanks for any help! (link)
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i had the same thing that you did. for me, it hurt to even wear a tampon ( actually, they would get stuck). i strongly suggest that you go to the gyno and get it surgically removed. all they will do is numb you, snip it, and tie it so it doesnt bleed, and it didn't take long at all to heal. you can still swim after the surgery and everything. your sex life will be 1000x better, and ill bet you'll feel soo much better if you do it, it's worth it. good luck.
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last night, my boyfriend and i fooled around and he tittie f***** me. Before he put his penis between my breasts, he started kissing there and stuff and after tittie f****** he ejaculated all over my chest. Today I look in the mirror and it looks like i have a big rash all over my breasts and in between but there red bumps, but they dont itch or anything. What is it? Can I treat it? What should I do? my parents would kill me if they found out. (link)
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hahaha the same thing happened to me the other day. yeah, you probably are allergic. find a planned parenthood near you if you want help, but if not then don't do that if you don't want a rash and USE a condom.
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i'm really irregular like the last time i got my period was two summers ago so tht means im not like ovulating so i cant get preg can i? (link)
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OH MY GOD NO, you can absolutely still get pregnant if you're having unprotected sex. sometime you might just not bleed it doesn't mean you're necessarily not ovulating. go to the doctor .
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hey i like this boy who is 16. does he likes me. he calls me , he talks to me on the computer. he texts my cell. it doesnt seem he does. he told me he likes me a lil...he wanted me to go to the powerhouse with him but my dad is not letting me go. i told him that and all he said was ok.. but i want to know does he like me ..... i will be on aol if u want to talk...bbj394 is my sn... please help and i will rate u (link)
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in all seriousness, he's probably making such an effort because she wants to get in your pants. because if he liked you a lot and you asked him he would say that he did. sorry. boys are scum, you can do better
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I was wondering for the first time what kind of condom feels the best for the girl? I was thinking like a regular one instead of a ribbed one since its the first time? But can a for her pleasure one feel good the first time?
and i just have a couple questions to sum everything up.
1.what condom makes it feel the best for the girl?
2.do the for her pleasure ones have to go on a certain way to make it feel better?
3.can you buy the for her pleasure ones in a 3 pack? i only saw them in like a 6 pack.
4.what kind is best for the 1st time? .. would for her pleasure regular or for her pleasure heating solutions be better?
ps how hot do the heating ones get?
thanks =]
srry so many questions =[ (link)
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i doubt that it will matter to her the first time, it just feels strange good but not orgasm good. just get one with lubrication. by the way, when a girl lays down it will close up her vagina a little more, so i suggest her being on top, it will let her control how fast you go and will hurt less. good luck.
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ok so is it possible for a mom's egg and a dad's sperm in a test tube (or wherever) to be put into another woman. or anything similar to this? thanks (link)
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yes, it's called a surrogate mother!
Surrogacy is an arrangement whereby a woman agrees to become pregnant for the purpose of gestating and giving birth to a child for others to raise. She may be the child's genetic mother or not, depending on the type of arrangement agreed to.
The word surrogate, from Latin surrogatus (substituted), means appointed to act in the place of.
A surrogate mother is a woman who carries a child for a couple or single person with the intention of giving that child to that person/people once the child is born (also called surrogate pregnancy). The surrogate mother may be the baby's biological mother (traditional surrogacy) or she may be implanted with someone else's fertilized egg (gestational surrogacy).
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can someone explain to me what a 'dental dam' is?
i heard these guys at school talking about it and then another guy was like "what's that" and everyone started laughing...
but i have NO CLUE what it is! (link)
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its basically like a condom type thing for a girl, its like plastic wrap that is used when a girl is receiving oral sex
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Dear Sir:
I'm writing 2 u regarding the crises I see that the masterbution is a dirty activity that I've erver faced yet in my life as I'm 19 years old boy here residing in Pakistan that the problem is I can't avoid masterbution, if u can provide some advice regarding masterbution & how do I can avoid this heck activity that would make me thankfull of u.
Urs sincerely
Ahmad hAqIqAtJoE (link)
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really, its a good thing, do it do it do it!!
just limit yourself, man, dont go crazy, unless you want to!! and it's really not a sin!!!!!
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