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Question Posted Tuesday July 22 2008, 10:25 am

I am a guy who likes to be spanked I also seem to like girls to tell me what to do and i seem tro like it even if its humiliating things they make me do i sem to like it even more . Im not sure why i like these things can u think of why this would turm me on

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batgirl282 answered Tuesday July 22 2008, 11:02 pm:
submission is sexy, and almost always a good thing. but try to take control every once in awhile, women like an a balance of both.

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Rosie2000 answered Tuesday July 22 2008, 12:20 pm:
i hope you are of an appropirate age for this stuff..some people like to go back to animal instincts... when men dominated women. but now days alot of men like to be dominated by women. its not uncommon, but it is something that does get out of control. just like having any other kind of sex you have to be careful who you have sex with and that they will not hurt you. many times it does not stop at being spanked, and as this type of sex goes on it turns into beatings, which is not sex, it is violence, and domestic violence. someone can go to jail for that. so if that is the sex life you are going to pursue you need to understand who you are doing it with and that they have no interest in physically, mentally, or emotionally hurting you. they may think its a game but its not it is your life.

here is a recent example from the news
This news clip may not be appropriate for all ages....(because of their word choice)
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anyways, this is a very private topic that should not be explained in too far of detail because of the level of violence that can be involved. This is something i have seen in the news and read in papers and seen people come to the hospital about. i hope this information makes sense to you and hopfully explains why you feel the things you do.

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VictoriaGrace answered Tuesday July 22 2008, 12:17 pm:
People have diffrent kinks its a fact of life. Your kinks are your kinks and other people have the same ones and diffrent ones.

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Kissyfurr answered Friday June 30 2006, 10:30 pm:
Well *hehe* I think that you are just kinky--dont worry about it....It is actually normal--even if it doesnt seem like it.
Some Ppl just like Kinky stuff....&& you just happen to be someone that does--and that is ok.
I personaly--am NOT a guy..lol--so I dont know exactly what guys like--but I do know some stuff that yall like. The stuff that you like is normal.
Thank you for coming to me for advice--I am here for you anytime-and I am sorry if myy advice wasnt good..

Chrissy

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beachbarbie721 answered Friday June 30 2006, 5:52 pm:
well....probably because you are a horny little boy who needs to find strengh to be in control of his emotions. Not trying to be rude...but that's not normal...at all.
♥ Me

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modelkate11 answered Friday June 30 2006, 12:51 pm:
this is a strange question. apparently you like to feel as if someone is controlling you. are you insecure and not sure what your goals are and need someone to direct you. maybe you just like a woman with power. im not really sure.

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aliapple answered Friday June 30 2006, 12:24 pm:
My brilliant answer:
Well, no i can't think of why it would turn you on, because, surprisingly, it's a very personal thing. No one can really understand why something would turn someone else on, because it's inside their head. Maybe you like to be in the center of attention or like girls with power. Maybe you like girls who are playing hard to get or actually dislike you. I'm sorry i can't help more, but i hope i helped some.

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TEENAGExHEARTS answered Friday June 30 2006, 10:51 am:
hmmm...well maybe its because you like to be controlled. i think it might be because your afraid to be in power. Being controlled might turn you on because then you don't have to make decisions.

i hope i helped!

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