I am a nurses assistant. Im also a bridal consultant. I want to become a teacher. I moved alot. I have lived in small towns and so i know most of my experinces to be around family and friends. I know much about health and nutrition. I have dyslexisa. I have three brothers. two of which i know and one that ran away. I have been in a relationship for a year and a half... im sure theres more to know about me! but thats all folks.
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when is the average time to start im 12 some of my frinds have but im wondering when the average age is (link)
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i started mine when i was 11. many of my friends started there before. then manyyyyy more started 12-15. dont worry about it now just think of it as one less thing to worry about... for now!
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i'm 14, and i have this boyfriend, that is extremely rich. and christmas is coming up. and he is going to be getting me all these expensive things my friend told me, and i'm not at all rich. my single mom makes an average pay. so, whatever i get him i'm scared he's going to be like "oh, thanks." like as in a way like 'oh-i-could-buy-this-anytime-i-want' kind of way. so what should i get him, that would be nice. even if they are separate things. i just really don't know what to do. so if you any suggestions, ill be fully considered to them. thanks. (link)
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well. my favorite thing to do is to get a box. maybe a shoe box or something. get some colored paper. and cover it. then decorate it with pens and pictures one time i even ptu on this reallyyy bright red lip stick and kissed a bunch of different colroed paper. then cut them out and pasted them everryyywwhere. then everythng i put nt he box was weither hand made or decorated. i decorated a box of recess peices haha.(i also cut into some recess cups I LOVE YOU and filled half of them with a little paper saying i love you) but i really go all out and i never tell them how much i spent. but i tell them i worked on this for like three weeks! or something. however long i worked on it. because when your short on money its still great to show them you love them and make the value even more with all of the time and effort you put into it. some suggestions.. video games. i dont know what kind he is into. my boyfriend is into RPGs and so i didnt know anyythign about video games and dont like them but i got a years subscription to game informer (from game stop) and i read it with him so i learn about games and .. he loves them. you can go to walmart or target and get these rose art mugs and you can paint them. he can use them but they need to be hand washed. or he could put them on his desk or soemthing old pens or money or soemthing. (i will jsut name off some things have done and hope they inspire you) also one time after taking a trip to the beach i went to a craft store and got this reaaallly cheap looking wooden treasure chest and put gold sprinckles and stuff inside and that gross chcoclate coins haha. and i put shells we had found and the sand out of my pockets and shoes! Also one time i made him candy( if you do want to make candy i know lots of candy and how to make it). and bought a frame and decorated it with everything from stickers to scrape booking stuff to little notes i wrote him and put pictures of us in it. You could also make him a CD get him a movie or tv show. you could write him a story. which sounds cheesey but sometimes its really fun to laugh at if you make it silly. dont worry about the money just try to plan ahead and make the little tings count. if you need anything else just messege me back. good luck and happy thanksgiving
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sooo im thinking about purchasing BareMinerals makeup. anybody with experience with this product what do you think? do you like the makeup? does it cover well? does it look natural and nice? does it stay on long? does it get melty/oily after a few hours or does it keep staying fresh? thankyou =]] please only if you've used!! (link)
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it does cover pretty good. im really light skinned and have really senstive skin. i get a realllyy red face (an irritaion) from soap... or lotion. and it even covers that up well and kinda like balances it out i guess? its really nice. i have very oily skin.. but it still works good while my freind does not have it and she wore it to prom and looked amazing. it does look really fresh. like naturally you have good toned skin. im sure after playing with it a few times youll start to love it.
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i have had it for a while and not sure if its natural. i know most stuff about sex but this is a non sex related issue. more like a worry not a health issue.
i get a white substance around the penis under the foreskin on the knob. i dont know what it is. any one know and can explain it to me? (link)
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This link might be a little too informational on some levels.. but i hope it helps explain to you that YOU ARE OKAY!. so congrats dont worry about it you are fine.
http://www.cirp.org/library/normal/wright1/
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I was considering trying the whole vegetarian thing. I won't be doing it because of "animal rights" or anything like that. Instead, I am looking to do this strictly to improve my overall eating habits.
More than likely I would still eat fish and occasionally chicken. My question to you is:
Is following a vegetarian diet any healthier than a normal one? (link)
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I have been a PROUD vegaterian for 4 years. it all depends on if you eat RIGHT. by that i mean even meat eaters dont eat right all the time.. so just make sure you get enough protein.. through nuts, beans, cheese, eggs, fishes if your going to eat them.. ect. but either way stayign away from the major bad things such as very high sugars, sodiums, and fats are present in a veg or meat diet. So yes. it deffiently can be more healthy.. as long as you do it properly.. do alittle reading and im sure youll do great.
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So, I'm 17 years old and my girlfriend is 19. We've been dating for 6 months and she's in college in a different state. We've started this thing where I ask her one question every night until she comes home in two months.
I've asked alot of really good questions but I'm running out of ideas!
So if anyone has any ideas, that'd be great :)
thankyou!
ps, we're both girls. if that helps at all. (link)
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whats the one thing you'd most like to change about the world?
what do you want MOST right now?
what are you most greatful for?
What was the best thing about your youth?
What was the worst?
When and where have you felt most UNCOMFORTABLE being nude?
Who is the most interesting person you have ever met?
What is the least you have ever worn in public?
In what way are you least understood?
Who is the PERSON you miss most right now?
What is the worst vacation you ever took?
When do you love yourself the most?
What do you have the most sympathy for?
Whats your favorite store in the world?
What room of your home do you spend the most time in?
What is the one thing youd most like to be forgiven for?
Who is the person most loyal to you?
What turned out to be the most useful course you took in school?
What single word best describes you?
What single word do you most hate?
When was your life most out of control?
Who is the person most similar to yourself in the world?
What is the best way for you to relieve tension?
what subject would you like to learn more about?
Whos smile can most easily persuade you?
What is the hardest thing about love?
What is the best thing you have ever won as a prize?
Whats the worst crime you have ever commited?
anyways i have TONS more. if your really into it you could order the books i have. one is "the conversation peice", these are good questions, to get a story out of someone, "if... questions for the soul"( this one seems to be like 90% about heaven and hell and death and dying.. kinda depressing to me), the one all the questions from above are from is HOW FAR WILL YOU GO? by evelyn Mcfarlane and james saywell. barns and nobel orders them within a week, they are about 7 bucks. im sure you can find them on ebay. there are others.. like questions about love and... many others.. by different authors. anyway i hope the questions i offerd last long enough for you to order a book or something. they are great fun i think haha. have fun
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Have a family and a relative staying with us. It was supposed to be temp but it has been 4 years now. Our family is wanting to have our own private time but it is hard with this relative not making changes and not even trying to be more independent. This person has certain addictions and is not up for any change, but change needs to happen because we have a young person that needs a room of their own. It is frustrating dealing with this relative and expects everything done for him and if its not, well that is another story, I blame myself for doing everything for this person but I have made him so dependent on me and my family I am not sure what to do...
If I did not make anything clear and there is more questions please let me know... (link)
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you should start looking into assisted living. Many places make it able for the residents to come and go as they please. For the relitive it will be hard. it could feel like you just dont like them, or they are too much for people, they might start to feel depressed and shoved away. In this part there could be more work than just sticking with it, but in the long term it might be a better choice. Let them know how hard it is for the people that need the room,but dont try to kick them out. Be ready for either the silent treatment or lots of questions. whenever they are ready they will ask you more, how much, where, whats going to happen to them, there things, the family, when can they see you, ect. Be ready for all of those questions and more. make sure your spending or at least trying to spend even more time on them (even if they resist and activity). Have the entire family join in on this, play cards, read, watch movies, homework, listen to their favorite music, take them to their favorite sproting event, make them cookies or favorite food, ect. At this point you have to be confident for them, they will feel some what pushed away, that is something that you will have to make up for. Make it a slow transition, unless they ask other wise. And be sure you know why they are still with family instead of at an assisted living center. That can be the answer to why they will not leave. Saving money? Dont like strangers? Not trusting? ect.
I really hope that helps. i know how your feeling. it gets tough but it gets easier when you really get on the horse about the problem. just make sure you talk with them about it. Good luck. i hoep all goes well.
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17, F, UK
I didnt know if this should go in the sex or health category so I hope its right.
Anyway, I plan on phoning my local sexual health clinic tomorrow about being put on the the birth control pill. My boyfriend will be coming with me.
My main concern is that I do not want my parents to know, I know the clinic can't tell my parents, but I mean, is there anyway my parents can work it out for themselves??
Like.. A change in my period cycle or something?!
Any info would be GREAT!
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well your cycle wont really change. if your pretty regular now it will stay even more regular. they will have you start the pills once you start your period. after that your period should be pretty regular. im guessing the only way they could find out is if you left any empty pill cases or over heard something. as long as your careful im sure they wont suspect a thing.
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Hi. Im going to Youma Con, a anime convention this October, and i have NO clue who to cosplay as.
I am the GUY on the right in the white! 16-blue eyes-so on....
[IMG]http://i328.photobucket.com/albums/l339/itsjustsean/l_d4f5bc135b97368f6a9cb90b2a5ea8cc.jpg[/IMG]
this is a slightly older pic, but i still have a slim build and short hair.
PLEASE HELP! any ANIME, GAME, of MANGA character you think i can pull off without too high of a cost, please tell me! THANK YOU SO MUCH! (link)
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Vash-Trigun
Walter-hellsing, youd have to spray your hair or soemthing but simple outfit.
cloud-final fantacy maybe. baggy pants, waste belt, ect.
thats all i can really think of.. but i hope it helped have fun
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Helloo =] Does anybody know some really good romance films ? PLease name any you can think of x x (link)
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life is beautiful. myyyy hands down best most romanti movie. its not the typical. it is foriegn. but it is translated and it is not a weird foreigh film or anything. but i love it. i just got done watching it.
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15/f
Ya I have an Ex that I broke up with over the summer because he was cheating on me, and now he wants to go back out again and I kinda still have feelings for him, what should I do?
plus nobody wants me going out with him. (link)
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well first off it should not matter what others think. if he makes you happy you should be with him, if you guys can work things out. if at 15 he is already abusing the relastionship and cheating on you, chances are that is not going to work out. you could just be setting yourself up for failure with this guy. why not try a new guy? and maybe one that doesnt need to cheat or have sex with you to get what you both need out of the relationship. good luck with that.
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I never have anything to talk to my boyfriend about on the phone and he always gets mad can u help me because i get kind of scared when i talk to him on the phone (link)
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somedays you will want to talk about youe entire day, soemtimes you want to talk about a tv show or something, if you really dont do anything and summer life is a little boring then i suggest a book called how far would you go? theres like 3 or 4 versons of the book.. and it is not dirty even though the title sounds a little weird. its full of questions. deep questions mindless questions funny questions romantic questions ect. its like 10 bucks, i suggest something like that. im a pretty goofey person on the phone cause thats my bored time, so i sing and.. do weird things. not every conversation or call has to be deep and meaningful either. if you dont have tons of stuff to say yourself ask him about the tv show hes watching or the movie or video games or sports or his weekend and make HIM talk, he cant get mad if hes the one blabing! if all else fails just tell him you gotta go, and talk to him later or the next day when you really have things to say.
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Does anybody know how to take birthcontrol? (link)
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after going to your doctors they will explain every detail to you specific to your body. generally you take a pill every day at the exact same time.
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anyone know how to get blood stains out of your clothes? (link)
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use some cheap shampoo and hot water scrub together inyour hands realllyyy good and just throw into the washer when you cant see the stain anymore. works everytime for me.
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omg i started my period at the age of 7 and have never worn a tampon only itty-bitty pads and now finally i am wearing a tampon at the age of 13!!
;S
a tampon is a uncomfortable device when i put it in i wuz walking like a retard.
why is that?????? is there sumthing wrong with me?
it hurts to sit down and to lay down and to walk.
please give me advice.!:]
alex♥ (link)
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thats normal because it probably not up far enough. make sure its in you all the way till you cant feel it. the first few times that could be hard and sometimes the do hurt you just have to keep using it and you will be better with it. make sure you read the directions and understand the pictures
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I am a guy who likes to be spanked I also seem to like girls to tell me what to do and i seem tro like it even if its humiliating things they make me do i sem to like it even more . Im not sure why i like these things can u think of why this would turm me on (link)
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i hope you are of an appropirate age for this stuff..some people like to go back to animal instincts... when men dominated women. but now days alot of men like to be dominated by women. its not uncommon, but it is something that does get out of control. just like having any other kind of sex you have to be careful who you have sex with and that they will not hurt you. many times it does not stop at being spanked, and as this type of sex goes on it turns into beatings, which is not sex, it is violence, and domestic violence. someone can go to jail for that. so if that is the sex life you are going to pursue you need to understand who you are doing it with and that they have no interest in physically, mentally, or emotionally hurting you. they may think its a game but its not it is your life.
here is a recent example from the news
This news clip may not be appropriate for all ages....(because of their word choice)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Lf342l8BgM
anyways, this is a very private topic that should not be explained in too far of detail because of the level of violence that can be involved. This is something i have seen in the news and read in papers and seen people come to the hospital about. i hope this information makes sense to you and hopfully explains why you feel the things you do.
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i'm from hongkong;
male 28 yrs.
after two years of good merried life my wife told me that she slept with boyfriend during college days and was not virgin when got merried ,
however i was virgin before the wedding, i feel cheated ,and do not feel to love my wife any more ,please help? (link)
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your wife loves YOU. she married you not her boyfriends from college. she may have made a mistake that she was not proud of and was nervous about telling you. im sure she did not want to hurt you, she must have been emberassed because she did not tell you before the wedding. she is not sleeping with other people now, shes sleeping with you because shes inlove with you and because she loves you. its understandable that it makes you feel very hurt that she lied. but she lied because she was emberassed. show her the love that she married YOU for. this situation is hurting her knowing that she hurt you so bad.
talk to your wife about it. be honest about how you feel and how it hurt you and WHY it hurt you.
if you want to continue with your marriage tell her you want to stay married.. that this will not break you guys apart but TOGETHER you have to feel comfortable about the situation. im sure she will have alot to say so dont let it become a huge fight. if anyone starts to yell just stop the conversation there. it may take a few days or weeks to fully talk about what happened.
also remember all the great times you have had with her. the places you have been and the things you share together. just because you did not share the loss of your virginity together does not erase all the other wounderful things you both have done together and for eachother.
In a time of fighting make sure you remember reasons you love her for, and remind her that that is why you love her. and remind yourself how much you love her. dont let this fight ruin your relationship.
good luck, i hope everything turns out
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I'm 17 years old and a junior in highschool. I recently went for a physical and realized that I weigh 95 pounds. I'm 5'8", and the doctor said that I was way underweight. She said that I may be coming anorexic, however this is the first time that that issue has ever come up. I eat EVERYTHING, and the reason I weigh that much is I play four sports, and I'm constantly doing something. What should I do to get everyone to stop worrying about me? And what should I do about my weight? (link)
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well the doctor is probably concerned about your weight because if your body does not have enough body fat it tells itself it cant make babies. that is why girls naturally have more body fat than boys. because were supose to. shes probably worried that your hormones may try to shut down and make it so you cant have babies. (sometimes this can make you gain major weight.. its sorta like going into menapause) And maybe she just doesnt see alot of muscle mass on you. maybe she is afraid you are struggeling with anerexia nervosa which is very damaging to your entire body. so maybe try to fix them both? figure out about how many calories you eat every day. in fat carbs and protein. you probably should be eating 1500-1800 calories a day, mainly in carbs and protein. but dont forget to get some healthy fats in there like nuts and fish. eating enough carbs helps your body because carbs are very easy for your body to burn, so it can store the protein for when your working your body hard playing sports, and the healthy fats and likley to add a little bit of body fat. this may take awhile. it can be very hard to gain weight for some people, because you play sports your metabalism is probably very fast. if you are very concerned go back to your doctor and ask about meal planning for you to gain weight. either she will do it herself or she will refer you to a doctor or dietitian that knows more about it. Hopfully people will stop worrying about you and let you play your sports. i hope this helps if you have any more questions please message me back.
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What should I do if the kid I'm babysitting has a heart attack and the parents left no phone numbers?? (link)
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you need to know the adress. most likley the kid is not having a heart attack. but for whatever happens you need to know the adress for the 911 call. always. call 911 if you think something happened
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16/f. i have really bad anxiety. and im suppos to get medication soon. but i think i will start school before i get it and itll be really hard for me to make friends.. because i get really nevous and when i talk i sound like im in special ed, but im actually really smart or i sound just really quiet and squeaky..and its also hard for me to smile unless someone says something thats funny. i dont smile that much, never have really.. even when i was younger. when im with a friend, im not nervous at all but i dont have any. lol :( (link)
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i have terrible anxiety. i am akward around my friends... but they understand.. show them who you are. be helpful.. your smart help them be the friend that they can always lean on.. you dotn have to be a huge joker or be the most enthusiastic person in the world. you can have a great time in school without trying to become a prom princess. try to smile everytime you look into a mirror. and when you shower try to smile the entire time( i went to a therapist who told me to do this because we feel vulnerble at that time and to smile.. even till our faces hurt can help alot). but dont worry about that because it till make it worse. dont focus on it. im positive you have wounderful qualities people look for in friends. try to be out going and there for people. people will want to be life long friends with you.
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