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The EX wants to come back
15/f
Ya I have an Ex that I broke up with over the summer because he was cheating on me, and now he wants to go back out again and I kinda still have feelings for him, what should I do?
plus nobody wants me going out with him.
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I agree with Danielle for the most part. Most of the time family and friends can always see the truth in your boyfriends before you can. You probably just focus on his good qualities and try to block out the bad ones. Don't feel bad, we all do it. That's why we have to always look to other people for guidance and their opinions. I don't believe in that saying "Once a cheater always a cheater" because in some cases it really isn't true. I believe anyone can change but they have to want to change first.
If your only 15, I suggest you just move on and meet new people. At this age, you'll come across many boys that will cheat on you and break your heart because their still growing up and experiencing things theirselves.
Give it time, the right person will come along and you'll know it because they wouldn't ever do anything like that to you in the first place.
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well first off it should not matter what others think. if he makes you happy you should be with him, if you guys can work things out. if at 15 he is already abusing the relastionship and cheating on you, chances are that is not going to work out. you could just be setting yourself up for failure with this guy. why not try a new guy? and maybe one that doesnt need to cheat or have sex with you to get what you both need out of the relationship. good luck with that.
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the key phrase is what you just said "no one wants me to go out with him" that usually means that people see something in him that you dont.My friends and family were like that.If i introduced them to a guy i liked,they could tell right away if he was a good guy or not.Friends and family see things that go undetected from you because you like the guy when he's really not a good guy.I believe in the phrase "once a cheater always a cheater" chances are if he cheats on you once he'll cheat on you again.In my opinion i would move on from this guy,there's plenty of more better fish in the sea why settle for a goldfish when you can get a swordfish you know? haha
♥ danielle
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