Hey gies . I probably deal with a lot of the same problems as you do. So go ahead...ask me anything. This is so that you know that someone's here for you no matter who you are or what your problem is.
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13/f/8th grade. i have dirty blonde hair and blue eyes that sometimes turn green-ish. my hair is a little longer than shoulder length. what colors for make up would be good for me? and what color clothes (like shirts) would be good? (link)
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I'm just like you. Different shades of purples and brons look good for eyeshadw with a no-color gloss. And for clothes...pinks and browns with mostly jeans. Try American Eagle or Hollister. Sometimes, you can find clothes at Aeropostale too.
Hope that helped.
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what does it take to be a model? like not a runway model or some huge famous model but like a catalog model for like delia's or AE or somethin like that? im a gurl turnin 16 in 2 weeks if that helps! (link)
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Well...what you need to do is take some pictures of you. (it helps if you hire someone professional or go get them done somewhere and tell them its for your model shoot) and then you need to send them in to the magazine/catalog you want to be in and wait for a response.
Good luck.
It's a lot of fun!!
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16/m a couple of days ago i asked this girl out and she said that she only liked me as a friend and she wanted us to get to know each other better first and then maybe we could try it. i'm ok with that but i dont really know how to get to know her better or anything i dont know what to do. any ideas? (link)
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Well you need to ask her to hang out. Take her out and pay for her and open doors for her and be polite. Dont take it too seriously but do things to let her know you care about ehr and you're not giving up. Tell her things you would tell your guy friends and include her in your life. When she's having a bad day or something is wrong, be there for her. You dont want to move in too close but you want to let her know that you are there for her and that you can be more than just a friend. Hope that helped. Asked if you have anything you want to add.
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well me and my boyfriend are back together he asked me out and i said yeah...but he is being nice but he wants to go to this place where all my friends hangout and all his friends play soccer and we all hang out there and im just worried that he will hit on my friends...and tommorow he is going to new jersey with his friends but i dont trust his friends because they always try to break us up and i dont know what i should do should i be mad that he is going to the those places?...well thank you (link)
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I know how you feel. That's how i feel about my boyfriend's friends. I think that if he did hit on your friends when you go to this hangout place then he's just not worth it but at least you will see what he is really like. But it's all about trust. When he goes to New Jersey, his friends might try to push him to hit on girls but you need to trust him that he wont do it. Plus, he already likes you, or he wouldnt have asked you out so there must be something about you that he doesnt see in other girls. Also, who could he possibly pick up in new jersey?? Lont distance relationships never work. Believe me...he knows that just as much as you do. Just trust him and hope that things will work out.
Good luck.
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Hiya, I was supposed to come on my period on Monday(24th) and i still havent. I did a pregnancy test and it came out negative. So why havent i come on my period? Im still really worried. I have heard you can be a few days late but can you miss a period comepletely? Any advice would be great. (link)
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Well you're probably just late. But if you do happen to miss it altogether you might want to go get another test b/c if there is a chance that you're pregnant...then you probably are if you miss your period.
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Could I please get some good suggestions on what to do to get over someone? I just want to move on, but I can't seem to. Any ideas? Thanks so much. ps: i'm 22 and female :) (link)
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Well unfortunately all you can do to get rid of your heartbreak is to wait it out. But in the mean time, go out. Have fun. Hang out with friends and take this oppurtunity to get closer to them and rely on your friends instead. But whatever you do, keep yourself busy so that there's no opportunities to think about him. Make sure there's no moment that you're just sitting around and doing nothing.
Hope that helped.
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My boyfriend & I have been together for several months now. He has recently told me he loves me. Since then, I've felt weird. I'm not sure what love even is! I care about him alot and I can't picture my life without him, but how do you know when you truly love someone? I've tried saying it to him, but the words never come out. I don't know if I'm scared of giving him that part of me he could break or if I really don't love him. How do I determine from the two? (link)
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Well you're the only one who can tell whether it's love or not. If in your heart, you think it's love, then it is. If you're not sure...then it's probably not quite there yet. Dont rush it. Just be honest with him even if that means you have to tell him that you think love may be developing but it's just not there yet. He will understand. You might be scared too though. But that's a big part of relationship...in order to love him, you have to trust him. You have to trust him that he wont break your heart or use love against you. Love is a strong word. If he has said it to you, dont be scared, just take it in and wait to find out if you love him back.
Hope that helped.
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i really want a cute loveing boyfriend that is sweet. but i cant find him and idk how to...i mean im not fat or ugly. but i still cant find some1 who likes me. i neede aome advicee.
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honestly...you cant rush love. If you want to find a guy that respects you and is everything you want, you have to wait for it to come to you. That's the best way for it to happen. If you go out looking for guys, you'll look desperate. Just have fun with your friends and enjoy being single and being able to flirt. Then when the right guy comes along, you'll be ready to make a move. Plus guys will want you more when they see that you can have fun and that you like being with friends and hanging out and you aren't dependent on other guys. Prince Charming will come around. You just have to wait for him.
Hope that helped.
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When you post a bulletin in Myspace, some people have certain words bolded, underlined, and in italics. How do they make it like that? Is there a certain code or something? Thanks. (link)
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yep.
it wont show up on here but you can get codes at whateverlife.com
hope that helped.
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Me and my boyfriend are getting closer ..I think i love him because everytime i am around him i am very very nervous about what i will sya how i look and how i act and i get butterflies in my stomache and when i tell him i love him he says it bak and it feels right with everyother guy that tiold me tha ti felt really weird but i never said it bak to them if i did i said it fast so do i love him????I am 13 and a girl.. (link)
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Well...i kinda went through the same thing with my boyfriend when we first started dating.And here's what i learned. People say we're too young to know what love is, but you cant put an age limit on love. It just...happens when it happens. And you'll know it. You dont need to ask other people. Because no matter what people tell you....they dont know what's inside you're heart. So if YOU think you love him...then i would say...yes. You do. It took me a while to realize that but i've been with my boyfriend for over a year now. I knew i loved him, no matter what anyone else told me. And it turned out perfect. Just listen to your heart.
Hope that helped.
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Hey im 15/f and i broke up with my boyfriend about 3 months ago. I told myself after we broke up that i wasn't going to date anymore. But i think im ready now. See.. ya guys ask me out but they are never "my type" or i consider them just friends. I really like this junior and his friends told me that he likes me too. But he doesn't want a relationship.. i dont think hes ever had one before because he hasn't had a relationship in quite a while. And im afraid to ask him why he doesn't want a girlfriend. But im not exactly sure how to do that. I just want a boyfriend now really bad.. even if its not him i just want someone who likes me for me and doesn't take advantage of me. And now im going through this stage where all i want is someone like that and i cant seem to find the right one. Any suggestions? Thanks! (link)
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Well honestly....if the junior likes you then go for him. But you need to keep one thing in mind...every girl out there is looking for the right guy. Unfortunately, they dont just come when we want them. They come when we least expect it. You have to be able to be strong without a guy. Be yourself and hang with some friends and show guys that you're strong on your own and that you can have a good time. That's the best way to find a guy...trust me....i would know.
hope that helped.
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i have a boyfriend and we've been on and off for the past 2 years.I found out he cheated on my 3 times.Stupidly i got back together with him 1 week ago and now he sais he didnt know we were dating and he got a different girlfriend.He also tried to kiss me afetr he told me this!What should i do?
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Hun-i dont mean to sound harsh but this guy is a jerk. you deserve better and there's a guy that WILL treat you better. i know. i've been through something similar. there are a lot of sweet guys out there. just keep looking. dont give up on them....just give up on the jerk you thought you were dating. hope things go well. and tell him he needs to learn the right way to treat a girl for me. okay?
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I'm in love with my best friend. But unfortunatly he is going out with some girl I really don't like. She's the type that will hurt him really bad inside and will leave him for someone else. That is her process. How do I break them up without him knowing I did it on purpose?
Oh and he (best friend) knows im madly in love with him.
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Well...dont get involved with his relationship with her. You dont want to be the one to break them up. But make sure that when they do...(since they obviously will if she does do that)...You be the first one to tell him that no girl like that deserves him. Tell him that he's too good for any girl...especially one who would do something like that to a guy like him. Just be there for him. He'll get the point that you care about him more than any other girl. That will give you a better chance of being with him.
Hope that helped.
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I want to save myself for my wedding night. Is this generaly considered weird? At school people think its really strange and generally make fun of me for it if it comes up in conversation at all. I mean, its not something I go aorund shouting, but if someone asks what I think about sex before marriage because I'm a Christian, I will tell the truth. My friends were amazed that I went out with a guy I was completely in love with for 9 months and didnt have sex with him.
Is it that strange? And is it possible to save yourself for marriage? I've heard that it gets harder to wait as you get older, and it wasn't easy in my last relationship. (link)
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I've been with my guy for 3 years and I won have sex with him. Him and i both dont believe in sex before marriage. And you know...since you're a christiam...that the bible says to not have sex before marriage. It's not uncommon at all. Keep true to your faith and dont let what anyone else says get you down.
Hope that helped.
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Hi, i'm gonna start off saying that i'm 14 and i'm going into grade 9, i'm not that populare in my school but i'm conseterd a normal. well anyways, i have a whole bunch of mental disbiletys(spelt wrong but w/e) i have a serous Depreshion, Buy-Polar (it's a mood swing thing), Anger Problems, ADD, and some other one were i blank out lots. well i dont take any perscripton druggs for these things.. and i feel so horable everyday.. i was an abused child.. so i'm not that smart cause my head was always bashed into things. and well i cant always deal with this.. i've tryed suicide lots.. but it hasent worrked.. i was to die but yet i want to live.. i see a terapist but he isent helping.. do you guys have and ideas of something i could do to get my mind off my disorders.. or some movie about how to deal. any little thing can help... Thank You so much. (link)
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you have to remember that suicide is NOT the answer. Sure, you'll be leaving your problems behind but you'll also leave everyone who cares about you behind in pain and loss. You just ned to find people that understand why you're the way you are and love you anyways. And dont give up hope...because there's plenty out there. you might even try to find the ones that deal with the same thing you do. I think you should keep seeing your therapist..because like you said...any little thing can help. I also think that medication might not be such a bad idea. It could help a lot. I have friends who deal with some of the same things you do and they take medication and it seems to help them. Anyways dont stop trying and never stop hoping.
Hope that helped.
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Me and my ex-boyfriend (first love) might try to try it again and see if it works this time. I still love and care about him. But there's another guy who I like and he likes me as well and wants to be with me. He hasn't caused me nearly as much pain as my ex (actually he hasn't caused me any) but I don't know who to choose or what to do? I love my ex even though it's been over a year since we broke up, but I also am starting to catch feelings for this new guy. Please help me . I will rate (link)
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Its not really about like and love. Choose the one that you think will give you the most respect and treat you the best. you can always learn to love the new guy and if the old guy loves you then chances are he will wait for you if you end up wanting him more. Just listen to your heart.
Good luck.
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Hey!
So my boyfriend and I have been just about everywhere there is to go as far as dates are concerned. We've done the dinner and a movie thing a million times, we go to Barnes&Noble/Starbucks for books and coffee, etc., but it's all getting dull.
There aren't any museums in town except for an art museum, but we've already been there!
If you have any date ideas involving food, books, or the like, I'd greatly appreciate your helpful advice!
Neither my boyfriend nor I can drive, and we're not of drinking age. =) (link)
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Have picnic in the park. Or swimming. Or just out for ice cream and a walk. Or make lunch for him one day and invite him over. Or even just a night under the stars can be special. But im sure anything you do for him will be special to him. Good luck. And remember..not all the special things cost money. Something cute and creative are usually what gets a guy's attention and makes him more interested to hang out more.
Good luck.
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My mom and I used to have a great relationship. This might be long. I'm sorry, but I need advice. 13/f.
I was never embarrased when she would come and have lunch with me, including hugging and kissing me in public. Now, over a period of time, I feel like we're slowly drifting apart. One minute, we can be laughing, the other, we'll be arguing over something like clothes. I'll give you a scenario. We're at the store and I like this shirt, so my mom buys it. A couple weeks later, I'm wearing an older shirt that I had before the new shirt to a restaurant, and my mom completely flips out and tells me that I should wear the new shirt that I bought. Now, I have two problems. I can be selfish at times, and I will say 'Mom, I don't want to wear this shirt to the restaurant'. And she'll complain every day and give me a lecture about how I never wear clothes that she buys me, and that she's afraid to buy me any other clothes because I will forget about them. Sometimes, I put on a fake smile and say that I love the shirt, but I'm putting an act for my mom, to save the arguments. It seems like we're fighting every day now because of a shirt that I don't want to wear. I hate myself for being so stubborn and ungrateful. Sometimes, I feel like I can't even talk to my mom. I talk to my stepdad about boys. I'm so scared that I'll get punished for even thinking about boys since I come from a strict Russian family. My 20 year old cousin doesn't even talk about boys around her family members, especially her mom, my second aunt, who will probably yell at her in Russian. I don't want us to drift apart and not even speak to each other when I'm older. I want us to remain close for as long as possible. I've tried talking to her and telling her that I appreciate what she's doing for me and how hard she works. I just don't know what to do now. (link)
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I think ALL teenage girls go through this stage. I went through it too. Dont be embarrassed by her she's your mother. Learn to appreciate everything she does do for you. If you dont like the shirt, then be honest with her. You dont have to be mean about it, just be honest and tell her that you would rather not spend money on it if you arent going to wear it. And another thing....save the arguing for things that seem more important than clothing because it's not worth it. You're lucky to have a mom that wants to do those things with you and wants to buy you clothes. Enjoy it and let her know every once in a while how much you appreciate it.
Hope that helped.
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Hi, I found out a few months ago that my boyfriend (he's also my best friend)is moving to Belgium, which is bad because I live in the US. My problem is that though 4th grade all the way through 7th I was a cutter. Now that I found out he's moving... I started again. He Knows what's happening and gives me all the love and support i need... That makes it worse. I love this guy more than ever, and we recently got sexually involved. I'm sooo scared.
P.S. I'm 14, I know young. For what you just read at least. I'm a girl! (link)
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Stop cutting. i dont care what the circumstances are, dont do it. it's not worth it. You have to be able to be strong without a guy on your own before you are strong in a relationship. So if you're already cutting yourself just because he's moving, then that proves that you arent strong enough without him. I hate to tell you...but that relationship just isnt going to work. But i promise that things always turn out for the better. You'll probably end up meeting someone new or he might come back. Dont get your hopes down. And dont make him spend the last couple of months with you making memories of how you cut yourself. Make these last couple of months worth it. Hang out with him as much as you can and make memories that you will want to look back on later. please be careful. cutting is NOT the answer.
Hope that helped.
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so ive been dating a guy for a couple months and he just recently said something really mean to my friend while she was working causing her to run of work bawling. i dont want a guy that talks shit to my friends. is it wrong to break up with him for it? please answer.. (link)
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not at all. remember your friends will always be there but guys can come and go. If yo feel it's best to break up with him then do it. however, if you think he might change then try just talking to him about it and see if anything changes.
Good luck.
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