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How do you get over heartbreak?
Could I please get some good suggestions on what to do to get over someone? I just want to move on, but I can't seem to. Any ideas? Thanks so much. ps: i'm 22 and female :)
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Get out and have fun, do things that you love to do, get a new hobby, or get back into one. guys are not the world, you don't need a guy to make you happy. just have fun, and get out in the world put on that charm that the guys love so much- flirt. and just go with the flow you will forget all about the hearteche and the guy. promise.
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Getting over somebody is really hard.
What I did was put his photograhs/clothes/notes/etc into a shoebox and taped it shut.
Block them out of your life.
Delete their number.
Try to think about something other than him.
Try to find somebody new.
A change wouldn't hurt, too.
I hope you do.
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Hey,
First of all, i want to clarify a point for you. When a person often loses someone really special to him and close to his heart. He keeps crying and feels so depressed and miserable and its just like he will never get over this person.
And i have been in the same situation, as well as millions of other people. I couldn't get over someone for 3 whole years, can you imagine.
After these years, I decided that i had to let go, and live my life. Can you imagine? 3 whole years in depression and misery and weeping and moaning and crying and wasting my time obessessing about this person. And at the end, i found out that this person had moved on with his life years ago, and he doesn't even care about me anymore, and sometimes i think that he doesn't even recognize me.
And when i moved on, i knew that i had been in alot of pain all these years,so i started advicing alot of people and telling them how they have to move on with their lives, whenever someone broke up with someone really close to his heart. And guess what, now i am advising you, so listen when i tell you that you have to move on and change who you are .
I will tell you something that i have always pitured life to be. Life is like a race, and you have to keep running no matter what, sometimes you can fall on your knees when you face a problem and shout out with the loudest voice you have " i have fallen down! and i can't get up" and then sometimes you do get up and go on with the race, as well as you go on with your life.
but there are sometimes when you need help and support and someone to advise you and guide you to the right path. and now you have fallen in to the second situation, and i am the one supporting you and helping you.
i understand how this person is really special to you, and how you love dearly and that you are crazy about him. But for what ever reason it was, you have to let it go, and move on with your life, the life you had before this person even showed up in your life. And i am sure that you have alot of freinds, so go spend sometime with them, and if you go to college or you have a job, concentrate on that. And just try to occupy your life with anything that could keep you busy, and try hard not to think of this person at all. And this empty space in your heart may be filled again with someone better that could love you and care about you even more.I know that you are probably thinking, that no one can ever replace this loved one of yours. But we have to be realistic. So try to look forward in your life, into the future, because thats where your going, and dont' you dare ever look behind your back in life, or you'll just end up as a suicidal depressed person as other people did. But these people were nothing , but dumb idiots and cowards, they were too weak to face their problems and feelings, and they did this to themselves. But you know you aren't like that. But you are a really good person, and you have a family, and lots of freinds, a life, people who love and care about you, and you have alot of things that you can take advantage of, which some people, on the other hand, are down on their knees begging god to have a friend, or get back a family member who had died and left him all alone.
You have to look at the bright side and take advantage of anything good that you have.
And there is something that i have always told myself ,and you may think of it as silly,but i memorized it and kept saying it to myself day and night.
Hope is there believe it or not
But sadness can control alot
Don't let it get you
Don't let it beat you
And let faith grow from the inside
So when you come to ask me about suggestions to get over someone, i will just tell you to move on with your life. And it may be hard, but its not impossible, because impossible is nothing.
Finally,if you need any other help or advice then please contact me.
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Well unfortunately all you can do to get rid of your heartbreak is to wait it out. But in the mean time, go out. Have fun. Hang out with friends and take this oppurtunity to get closer to them and rely on your friends instead. But whatever you do, keep yourself busy so that there's no opportunities to think about him. Make sure there's no moment that you're just sitting around and doing nothing.
Hope that helped.
♥ Me
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chic, dude listen to me there are many hot guys out there sure there may not be any guy just like this one but if there was than life would be boring. So get out and give a day to yourself go clubing do something fun ya know quit wallowing everyday life's to short to live the same day twice.
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hmm, you can delete everything of their's.
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go out and find someone new
two choices. both
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